SUICIDE in philippines

silence that we have to accept - a tradition of catholism i cant accept.
Philippines
December 13, 2006 12:02pm CST
i dont really get why our catholic church wont accept dead people who commited suicide to be blessed and be given the last prayer for what so ever processes to undergo just to accept the soul to be prayed for. i still do remember one friend i had 3 years ago, december 13. he committed suicide. hes just an ordinary guy who makes people laugh, he had his birthday the day before it was december 12, and we are there at his house and everyones happy, so as he. but when we had the dance, he was telling me of disturbing things like, this is my last dance, what will i do with my life?, do yo think i am that happy?, i'll never forget this day.. he also show signs that i dont know why i find it not normal.. anyways.. the parents were so devastated for not even one church will let their son enter its door when they have heard its suicide. its painful to hear those traditions and rules that governs the catholic church... i think they are not that always right. they dont know how difficult it would feel and what is the suffering of the person inside him that tears him appart to end up to a solution to kill himself. they dont even know how it is hard to feel that way. who are them to need some blessings for you to be prayed and be given the entity to go to heaven and leave this world. dont forget every prayer they do plus all the blessing and holy water they spill upon, do have amounts of payments for their "proffesional fee"... every dead person to be attended to gives them cash and all the donations to rot. im celebrating 3 years death of my friend and i wish he fond no more hurting life, pain and all the misconceptions frailty in this world.
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