my son's teacher is gay

Canada
December 18, 2006 8:28am CST
I just found out from one of the other parents that my son's teacher is gay. I thought this was a good school. I'm really upset, we searched for a long time for a decent school in our area. Now I'll have to move him and he already has a lot of friends in this school. I think this is terrible. They should not let this man teach, now I have to find a different school to send my son.
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62 responses
• United States
18 Dec 06
again what is the problem? You shouldn't judge others. Im straight as an arrow but I dont judge those who are gay. As long as he doesnt push his beliefs on those kids I don't see the problem.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
19 Dec 06
Same here they do no one any harm they are People like us
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• Netherlands
19 Dec 06
Oh no! Gay teacher? You can't be serious. I didn't know that gay people were able to teach. Oh my you need to take your child out of the school NOW! Before the teacher seduces your son and brings him over to the dark side. You know he is going to come on to YOUR son. That's what they do right? Oooooohhhhh scarey. [ /sarcasm ]
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• Netherlands
21 Dec 06
I find it hard to believe that in this day and age that someone her age is shocked by anything. How can it possibly be that there is someone out there in USA still that has missed the memo that homosexuals are PEOPLE too.
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• United States
21 Dec 06
I have a theory, but it's best if it's not mentioned here.
• United States
22 Dec 06
No, no... it's kinda mean or... something...
@FelixLandon (1113)
• Canada
19 Dec 06
oh my god are you ever iggnorant I'm gay and trust me there isnt any thing wrong with me. I think you need to meet and start hanging out with some gay people that would change your mind. Why do you have a problem with that anyways ?
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
19 Dec 06
Well said Felix I have Friends that are Gay and they are lovely People
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
19 Dec 06
I agre with you =) Ui have gay friends and they are totally normal. I would not mind a gay teacher for my kids...
• Philippines
19 Dec 06
That is good a comment!
@desiret (2117)
• Italy
18 Dec 06
sorry, but i don't understand the problem... the only thing i understand is that you are a bit racist. Gay people are so sweet and i think that they do not be discriminated as you are doing! sorry but i can't agree with you!
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@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
22 Dec 06
Being against gays isn't racism, but it's still prejudice and can lead to discrimination. Homophobia is a term often used.
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• United States
22 Dec 06
Being Gay hasn't a thing to do with being a good teacher, I know some and they are the best. I'm sorry you fear this situation. First off Gay people are people too. I know that my being gay wasn't something I learned, I knew it from the start. Sorry if you don't believe this but if your kids are gay its not going to be because of the teacher. As a matter of fact it might be a good life lesson if they turned out to be that way. We must learn to have faith in life and that god will lead us down the proper path for our life. Awful hard to see the path if your too busy watching everyone else's for them now.
@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
19 Dec 06
Wow. To me that makes it an excellent school because they are accepting of diversity. Why are gay people not good teachers? I'm a lesbian and I've volunteered with and tutored children for years. I don't know why I'd be any worse at it because of my sexuality, please explain that one to me! You can't deny a good teacher work based on their sexuality. That is discrimination. But I suppose you also do not want black people or Jewish people teaching your son either. If they aren't all racist, sexist, homophobic white men teaching your son, it's not a "good school".
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@Foxxee (3651)
• United States
19 Dec 06
Excellent response! You are so right. You shouldn't judge a teacher or anyone at that on their sexuality.
@serenetee (380)
• Singapore
19 Dec 06
I think you are very conservative. He is a normal human being aside from the fact that he is attracted to a male instead of a female. Unless he is a pervert, I don't see the need to pull your son out from the school. If you are worried, find out from your son if the teacher discusses inappropriate subject apart from his school's.
@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
19 Dec 06
I think people can be conservative without being so bigoted. I'm not conservative, but my girlfriend is and she's very open about everyone.
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@MySpot (2600)
• United States
19 Dec 06
You're so right... it is terrible! It's terrible and selfish that you would let your prejudice thinking get in the way of your son's education and you are even willing to go as far as ripping him away from his friends because of your own issues! Maybe you should send him to a school where people will disregard his rights, like you have this accredited teacher's.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
19 Dec 06
I totally agree
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@emisle (3822)
• Ireland
19 Dec 06
well said
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@bigedshult1 (1613)
• United States
18 Dec 06
go to the school board and tell them if there gay teacher even looks at your son that you will sue them for 100,000,000 dollers each for having a gay teacher on the school pay role
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• South Africa
19 Dec 06
i don't agree with either of you, cuz you just missed the point. the teacher may be gay, but surely the school board was sensible enough to hire him cuz he is a good teacher? teachers have a moral code to stick to and keep to. just because he is gay doesn't mean he is gonna fondle your kid. statistics actually show that most paedophilic activity is performed by heterosexuals, not homosexuals.
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@innechen (1318)
• Indonesia
19 Dec 06
i think you are terrible.why u so racist? if someone a gay doesnt mean they bad? just because u r normal doesnt mean u r good either? as long as he can teach good then whats the problem? i think u should learn to appreciate others a little bit.being different doesnt always mean bad,hope you'll understand.
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@djbtol (5493)
• United States
19 Dec 06
I hope the teacher gets fired. American schools have enough problems,without having perverts for teachers.
• United States
13 Jan 07
Ummm... Who said he's perverted? So, you THINK he's perverted just because he's gay? YOU, genius, are the one that's perverted. How many straight people out there are perverts? If you ask me, it's straight people that are the biggest perverts. I guess there'd be no problem if he were straight and a pervert? Is that it? What a great way of thinking! Yes, that last statement was sarcasm, but you're such a genius, that you should've figured that out. Oh wait, but you're NOT a genius!
• United States
20 Dec 06
Gay does not equal perverted. Man, what is wrong with people.
@disvachic (10117)
• United States
18 Dec 06
If it was my child I would not take him out of the school.As long as he doesn't expose the behavior around the students.Then if he does I would just report him to the principle or school board.I wouldn't take him out of the school. If you have a problem with it just see if you can get another teacher instead of going through all dat hassle.
@emisle (3822)
• Ireland
19 Dec 06
what? are you kidding me? no offense but you are so overreacting. So what if the teacher is gay? It doesn't mean he's going to prey on your son....and not only are you teaching your child to be prejudiced against gay people, but you're taking him away from his friends.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
19 Dec 06
Well said emisle
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@emisle (3822)
• Ireland
19 Dec 06
I had many crap straight female teachers when i was in school and i would have swapped them for a gay teacher, who could actually teach, in the blink of an eye!
@SparkyG (357)
• United States
19 Dec 06
And the problem is?????????????? I'm sure there are more important things for you to be worrying about as far as your son is concerned than a gay teacher. But why shouldn't they let him teach? What is it you think he is going to do/not do that a straight teacher would or wouldn't?
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• Canada
24 Dec 06
He is setting a bad example for my son. I want my children to have good examples so that they can grow up to be good and God-fearing citizens
@itsjustmeb (1212)
• Canada
19 Dec 06
Okay I totally don't agree with this statement. He has a right to work!
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@LadyCroft (701)
• Australia
21 Dec 06
WOW I thought people with thoughts like this went out last century. Being Gay doent mean he cannot teach? What do you think is going to happen?? Please, dont be so small minded about your decision, and I bet you didnt count on so many people being against your opinion either.
@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
22 Dec 06
I bet they didn't expect so many people to be against their opinion. Notice how they kind of just walked away from this discussion. They probably are sitting there thinking, "Wow... that whole thing just went downhill."
@calico79 (173)
• United States
22 Dec 06
I would take my child out of that school quickly!
• United States
23 Dec 06
that's really sad. I feel bad for your children, for the message you are sending them by such an attitude.
@siddhinfo (1500)
• India
19 Dec 06
Why your moving your child from the good school. Instead you all parent give in writing to School principal or higher authority about it and they will take approriate action against such teacher.
19 Dec 06
You'd hope so Pigg.
@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
19 Dec 06
Hopefully they would take the appropriate action of telling all the parents they are bigots and keeping the good teacher.
@my2babes (88)
• United States
19 Dec 06
The teacher being gay is not the problem here. I think the real problem is the fact you are teaching your son ignorance, and racism.
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@LoYaL132 (335)
• Netherlands
19 Dec 06
Hmm I agree with you to find another school. there should be normal teachers who give the students lessons
@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
19 Dec 06
Normal teachers like the white, married male, Christian group leader at my middle school who molested girls? Oh yes, we need more of those! I enjoyed learning from a diverse group of teachers of all ethnicities, beliefs, and sexualities.
@isha900 (1459)
• India
19 Dec 06
this is right i agree
• United States
24 Dec 06
Iagree with you completly,we have the right to have our values as normal people respected,but look at the common response. It just proves how far our society has fallen,cheers for you.
@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
24 Dec 06
Or it proves that at least some members of society are improving.
• United States
2 Jan 07
Jimbo ,before you perport to represent God you need to read the Holy Bible and you will find that God condemns homosexuality.