A wedding in the near future?

well, actually, a lot of people do plan. Not a lot of proposals are just super surprising anymore. I mean, the exact date and way that someone proposes may be a surprise, but most people discuss getting married and when they want to get married prior to actually getting engaged. My husband and I were dating a year and a half before getting engaged and had already decided to get engaged at least one year before our wedding date, which we set probably 6 months or more before we were even engaged. The fact that he wanted to marry me wasn't a surprise, it was just when and how he did it.

me and my girl are talking about marriage...its only been three months...ill probably propose in july...its not that long a time

What do you mean, Jonatan, probably proposing in July?? Is a marriage proposal something you plan months ahead? Did you put it in your calendar yet? In my book you propose, or you don't propose, you are not planning that! I can think of some other things between the two of you, you plan as well? (just teasing...) I proposed to my husband on February 29th (when women traditionally are allowed to do the job), almost 3 years ago (2004). I thought of it on Feb 28th late at night, and within 24 hours we settled a date! I do hope Jonatan, that your life is a bit more spontaneous than I have the impression now. If not, you must change that immediately! There are enough things in one's life according to carefully laid out plans (not even by yourself), so Live a Little, I would say ;-))

I think what Lindalinda said was good. My sister is only 18 and she's talking about mariage and kids (this is her first real boyfriend). I would really like for her to finish her college work first but it looks like she can't wait that long. So if your daughter is talking houses and kids there may be a wedding soon.

last christmas? they have only been dating 4 months.

i think that 4 months is too less a time to think about planning for marriage...since your daughter hasstill left with one year of college... she should finish it up before preoccupying her thoughts with marriage, baby...house and the alike stuff.. hope u can convince her... all the best

I know I went back to school after I was married and had three children. It was hard but it was worth it. Thanks

She will finish college because he told her she had to. I know all about love at first sight. It happened to me and my husband 18 years ago. Thanks

Congrats to your parents. I know its her life and no matter what happens she knows I will be there for her. Thanks

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thank you. I know it's her decision and I will be right there when and if she decides to get married

At 21, she is NOT a baby, she is an adult and her own person. Little birds MUST fly the nest! It is restrictive and controlling not to let them.

Thanks. I know they love each other. When she comes home from college she doesn't stay here anymore she's with him all the time.

I agree..My boyfriend and have had the marriage talk for somtime now..we've been together for two and half years now..Ive gone on vacation with his parents and he has been to my family reunion..We def. plan to get married, but not until we both graduate college..that about a year away..we want to make sure to have true stability in our relationship..so money isnt a factor later.. If she really loves him..tell her to wait..so there can be some stability

I was 20 the first time I got married also. Only lasted 3 years though. When I met my husband that I have been married to for 18 years now we only dated 6 months and got married withing 8 months of knowing each other.

26, too young to get married?? You're kidding, right? i'm 22 and married and we are doing just fine. I have a college degree and a career, my husband holds down a job while finishing his degree in forensic science. We aren't children, and were plenty old enough to get married. I suppose a lot of 22 year olds may still party and do whatever...and actually, most still have several years of school left ahead of them. We're well on our feet because we're responsible. I think it's a bit out of line to decide who is too young to be married and who is not. Especially considering you are younger than your brother who is getting married. I'm sure he's a bit more mature than you.

Who are you to say they are too young? Pardon me but Love knows NO AGE! It all depends upon the maturity of the person! Not their actual AGE! I am 31, my fiance is 22! Is He too young? He acts more like my age! That was very judgemental of you to say.