Americans with Superiority Complexes

@megs85 (3142)
Australia
December 25, 2006 4:00pm CST
Now I for one am not going to generalise, as tehy seem to, but I want to know why? Its all well and good to complain about getting negative "publicity" so to seak, but when you condescend, insult and attack everyone, make assumptions and ignorant comments, what is one supposed to think? I have friends in AMerica, and family, but each and every day I am on here I am growing to dislike a lot of its citizens more and more. It seems as if tehy are suffering from an superiority complex... SOMEONE PLEASE PROVE ME WRONG... tell me its only teh handful of individuals I have ben unlucky enough to come across that are this way...
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@misskatonic (3723)
• United States
25 Dec 06
You can't say 'this country' when you mean 'some people I've run into from this country'. There are people all over the world that come off as having superiority complexes. And when it comes to the internet? People tend to be pedantic and snide. The anonymininty allows for people to lash out and act superior in ways they can't face to face. It's an outlet for condescension and lording knowledge. It's got nothing to do with where a person comes from. Most Americans I know won't even *admit* they're from America anymore, with all the stereotypes and generalisations going on about us these days.
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@megs85 (3142)
• Australia
26 Dec 06
"tell me its only teh handful of individuals I have ben unlucky enough to come across that are this way..." That was form my original post. I am not trying to target any country, or any particular individuals, I am merely stating my experience thus far and how it impacts on the way I view things. I'm starting to dislike the internet very much. Given that I am honest, others not so, and my sincerity seems to make me a target for condescending and insulting remarks... and im not generally a sensitive person i can usually giv as good as i get...
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@megs85 (3142)
• Australia
26 Dec 06
Its just so frustrating, thats okay, another poster highlighted that I should just get on with it, and if I dont want comments about personal things, or negative ones, not to put my life out there...
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• United States
26 Dec 06
Sorry, I meant 'you' as in the general you, not you specifically. Rhetorical speaking there. The internet is the world's biggest sand box. There are always going to be those kids who just have to shove everyone else over and brag about thier toys, to keep the metaphor going. The internet allows people to speak without censor and without fear of reprisal. On one hand, that's a good thing. You can vent frustrations anonymously and let your rage and anger out in a healthy, non-confrontational way. On the other hand... yeah, everyone online is an actual person. People tend to forget that, with the screens between the,
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• India
26 Dec 06
No megs i think u must have met wrong ppl... i have frnds in US too.. n wen they come to India ( they r bound to feel superior ) but on the contrary they dont... they talk like they r the most down to earth ppl u ve ever met... So may be u met wrong ppl..Chill babe n u ll enjoy..
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@all_n_one (2003)
• United States
25 Dec 06
In America allot of people would attack people from other country's by calling them poor things of that nature. It is known that America is the top country in the world but some use that as a superman cape I guess. Most other country's aren't any better either they can't insult Americans by calling us poor by say a hell of allot of other things. It is a 2 way street and neither one is going the right way.It seems that allot of people get offended by little things just because it is coming from a American. I am not referring to you because you are in Australia which is pretty much the same to other country's as the US,UK,& CA with the superiority complex situation.
@megs85 (3142)
• Australia
25 Dec 06
I agree with you. It isnt just Americans that do it, and as I said I have a number of American mates, and I dont tend to take offence at the smaller things (I love a good joke! ;D ) but when I have been called "stupid" "immature" "and apparently I live off welfare and taxpayers are raising my child (lol, we pay taxes and I dont get welfare lmao)" I am beginning to get offended. I know that these sorts of things happen, but how cans oemone make a judgment on you after reading 20 lines about your life via the internet, and knowing no details, and make these assumptios- unless they have a superiority complex. I have been told taht I am immature, for not letting it go, but I do anything for my child and am deeply offended when people tell me because I am unmarried, and so forth I am unfit to have one, let alone another. I dont take criticism of my parenting ability very well, and I take related personal attacks to heart. I adore my child and it hurts to think that people think I could ever do the wrong thing by him...
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@all_n_one (2003)
• United States
25 Dec 06
All the stuff you just mentioned are actually things most Americans say to other Americans. It happens in America all the time if your poor and have kids people try to say other people are on welfare. Some people get mad when people mention welfare but welfare isn't a bad thing if it is actually needed. In the US allot of people take taxes to seriously you pay them either way and the majority of it goes in the governments pockets anyway.
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@megs85 (3142)
• Australia
26 Dec 06
Thats the other thing that gets me, in a multicultural forum, people should be more aware that what is dominant behaviour in their country, and the way legal/government relate things work their- doesnt neccessarily mean that those things happen in other parts of the world.
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• Canada
26 Dec 06
I actually believe it's not only the handful of people, but it's not just a handful who are good, either. Think of it this way. If a sports team has a REALLY dirty player on it, they categorize the entire team as being bad and having low sportsmanship.
@megs85 (3142)
• Australia
26 Dec 06
I think you just hit the nail on the head, I have had a bad experience with one or two people from a nation, but need to remember all the good people that I speak to from that same country before I do what I hate and generalise :D
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@ais_nedla (162)
• United States
26 Dec 06
we should never generalise a certain race. extremes are very dangerous. we should avoid it. althoug, i also understand ur point. people could be ignorant some times especially when they are exposed to different people.
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@megs85 (3142)
• Australia
26 Dec 06
I dont claim to be perfect, I dont claim not ot have made mistakes in my life and mu choices, nor do I claim that I am better than ANYONE on this planet. But i like to think that I reserve judgement, condescension, harsh and criticism... until I have ALL the facts, which I dont think you can get via a post or two.
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• United States
26 Dec 06
It sounds to me like you're complaining for the sake of complaining. What is the issue here? Any specifics? I've got a complaint. You seem a bit dyslexic. That's a valid complaint because half of your words are backwards. That is specific. What do you have for me? Were you just bored so you decided to write something?
@megs85 (3142)
• Australia
26 Dec 06
Please go to the third page of this discussion and read my response to the first response on their. It will address this question perfectly. And thanks, another to prove my point. lmao Specifics were provided along the discussion if youd care to read back and find out. But it sounds to me that you were just posting for the sake of posting- so enjoy your cent mate ;)
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@alchemistrx (2547)
• Philippines
26 Dec 06
Hey megs,avoid both extremes.this is my solution to superior or inferiority complexes among any nations.We don't ought to generalize because we are diffrent.
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@megs85 (3142)
• Australia
26 Dec 06
Your right- generalisation isnt the answer...
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• United States
25 Dec 06
A lot of Americans feel that we are the superiour country therefore making them superior to people from other countries. Actually there are groups inside our country who feel they are superior to other groups in our country so its not just an American thing its specific cultures.
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@megs85 (3142)
• Australia
26 Dec 06
But why does America feel it is superior? Money, technology, history?
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@GardenGerty (157555)
• United States
26 Dec 06
When I first saw your discussion, I thought it was going to be about something that irritated me yesterday, but it is not, Howvever, it is about the same Know-it-all bigotted mind set. It has been around for a long time. The descriptive term is "Ugly American." I missed the discussion that has hurt your feelings so badly, and you are right, these people do not know you. I probably do not agree with you not being married, but having a child, but why should I insult you over that, you are responsible and caring. For some reason it makes us as human beings feel better to make other people feel small, and we are much more willing to say something bad than we are to say something good. Lousy human nature. I would say that most English speaking countries feel like it is our privelege to boss around the rest of the world, under the guise of "being honest" that is my sweeping generalization, and I am sure it will make someone mad. I think I need to go look up that discussion just so I can put my two cents worth in, too. Keep your chin up.
• United States
26 Dec 06
I am American and I see this happenning so often. It's sickening how at one point the Americans had this hatred against the french, which I believe are so much more educated and cultured, and all this hatred was because they were smart enough not to go to this stupid and deadly war we are stuck in now
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@MrNiceGuy (4141)
• United States
25 Dec 06
How can we prove you wrong when you provided no evidence? You claimed Americans are arrogant like 3 times, but you gave no evidence to support your argument which makes your argument a bad one. Ellaborate. Remember that many countries no matter where you live, are cocky or arrogant about other countries. Its called nationalism.
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@megs85 (3142)
• Australia
25 Dec 06
You're right, I probably didnt provide enough detail on the particular situation I am speaking of. And allnone just highlighted something I already knew, and you reiterated about it not being limited to one country, taht most Western countries tend to have superiority complexes to some degree. I suppose what I am really saying is, as abpve, is it possible to make judgements about someones abilities (parenting in this instance) by reading ten to twenty lines over the net? If you do condemn soemone or make assumptions based on limited knowlede, and take the moral and intellectual highground, does that make you think you are superior?
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@bimmer999 (1159)
• Philippines
26 Dec 06
sadly SOME americans that live here in our city are very arrogant, they demand this and that and they want to be the first to be served, they also are very short tempered too, i have only encountered a few where they are very polite and soft spoken.
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@megs85 (3142)
• Australia
26 Dec 06
I think it is any person, not neccessarily someones nationality, however upbringing does have an important part to play in the development of ones character. Perhaps people in certain countries are brought up to be arrogant...
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• Australia
26 Dec 06
Megs, I have just joined myLot and your comments were the first I read. I disagree with you on the Americians. I have made a lot of extremely good Americian friends over the internet over a period of 9 years. When I had a severe stroke 2 years ago they were increadible with their support to me and my family with cards flowers and phone calls. They were my spirit lifter uppers. And still are concerned enough to ask after me. I have lots of great friends from other countries also but the Americians really stood out. So please dont judge them all by the ones you have had contact with and remember that each country has both good and bad in it. They are normal people like us with concerns for the wars and the global situation of these days. Aussietrish
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@drp2p2 (6)
• United States
26 Dec 06
Dear Mega85, This is in response to your question. I was born in the U.S., I am educated, male and have the white skin. I have also asked the same questions. In pursuit of an answer, I studied American History. America is a perpetrator Nation, the roots of their “superiority complex” can be found in the Puritan beliefs that came to North America in the 1600s. Their “superiority complex” allowed for the genocide of 10 million Native American, and the enslavement of African and Asian (Asian were enslaved to build the railroads in the West). This “superiority complex” is one of the reasons that American is killing innocent women, children, and men in Iraq. This “superiority complex” will be the downfall of America, a country cannot continue to oppress, murder and commit crimes and get away with it. There is NO PROVING YOU WRONG, you are factually correct. Hope this helps, one note. I have this perspective because I have seen the abuses that American put forth, to quote Malcolm X, “...being born in America, does not make you an American.” DrP2P
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• India
26 Dec 06
and that for sure might be the case..becasue there are a host of good people everywhere and they are bound to be peresent in America..I have a couple of friends in the States and they are amongst the best people I know..agreed there are people who at best can be called snobbish but then those people are always there and would always be a minority..so lighten up and ensure that u don't form a negative opinions about any specific community..
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@the_actor (494)
• Philippines
26 Dec 06
If you are going to go back to history, these Americans were first formed by the adventurous people from the West..they tend to be aggressive, ambitious and with really strong personality. So they tend to have superiority complex not to mention being the most successful economy in the world for a long period of time. They were destined to be a leader country and it's a challenge and inspiration to other countries.
@megs85 (3142)
• Australia
26 Dec 06
I think history definitely influences the present and future, and as I said earlier our upbringing and environment definitely influences our personality. But which is stronger, its the old psychological nature vs nurture debate on this one....
@kaniam (582)
• India
26 Dec 06
you are not wrong at all
@megs85 (3142)
• Australia
26 Dec 06
I think perhaps I may have been a little in retrospect. What make syou say that I am not wrong? What parts do you agree with? Can you add anything- do you have any personal experience?
• India
26 Dec 06
It depends on the thinking attitude of a person ?? -Arvind
@megs85 (3142)
• Australia
26 Dec 06
Could you please expand a little on your response so I may comment back with my thoughts and DISCUSS the matter further with you...
• India
26 Dec 06
As one gentleman in this discussion put "this complexes are human mindset".For example, when i was studying my UG i felt inferior over communicating in english. over period, it disappeared. To be clear this topic is going like an unending discussion and it would be better you end the same. take atleast a day to reply. so that you will get sometime to think seriously.
@2613563 (148)
• France
26 Dec 06
no its wrong.
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