My brother is gay ..
By MentalPanic
@MentalPanic (227)
Sri Lanka
December 26, 2006 9:22pm CST
My brother is gay ok no big deal his really gay. But then he came and ask me if he could use my dress for new year then I really start and wonder how do I act in this ..ok most of the people sure would say act like normal but it´s strange that from one day to another have a sister instead for a brother..I try to take it with a bit laugh sometimes and well I may hurt him. Its not really meant to be bad laugh ..I said to him that ..thanks god that I don´t need to shave before I use makeup...he did laugh but now I sit here and wonder did I maybe hurted him in some way..well anyway I will find it out tomorrow I just had it in my mind now...cheers!
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2 responses
@natuser28 (907)
• United States
27 Dec 06
ok first off, its a big deal. Now u have to adjust and treat him like a sister than brother. He want ur clothes, tell him to buy his own.
@MentalPanic (227)
• Sri Lanka
27 Dec 06
yes but should I make the diffrent between him and my sister I mean she use to ask things like this and I use to say it´s ok ..this is really hard to know how to do...if I say like that it gonna be diffrents between my sister and my brother.
@lauriefnp (5111)
• United States
27 Dec 06
This has got to be a difficult situation for both of you. Probably the best thing that you can do is to keep the lines of communication open. Be upfront and honest with him about how you feel, and encourage him to do the same. It's a change, that's all. He's still your brother and you still love each other. Support him as best you can. I'm sure he thought you were funny about shaving before putting on makeup, and I doubt if his feelings were hurt- he was probably thinking the same thing.
@MentalPanic (227)
• Sri Lanka
27 Dec 06
I hope so now then I think about it I´m a bit confused about it..but well u may have right I´ll talk to him about this.
