how to make girlfriends

@dravid (1048)
India
December 27, 2006 2:15am CST
Oh I have been thinking for a long how do people make girlfriend..Means I am really very confused abouyt this fact....I will share somthing .....It was when I was in college..I really loved a girl cared for her and wanted to give her the best i could.....she just rejected me and went with a bou who was a jerk...i dont know why.....then gain i did't wanted girl and then she came and approched me ....she was good looking...hai what is this....i still cannot understant the dynamics of girls....can som1 say somthing
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@adnan007 (1083)
• India
27 Dec 06
having a girlfiernd is not some sort of commodity that we must have. not because your friends already have many girlfriends would mean that you NEED to have one or even more also. having a girlfriend is not a question that needs to be answered. it just come in its own time. it comes in the time that we least expect. just enjoy your life now. no commitment...no responsibility...never rush in falling in love for true love never runs out.. just wait for it to come...maybe God is preparing her now, the same way he is preparing you.
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• United States
27 Dec 06
I agree with u. why chain urself to her purse when u can enjoy life.
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@dravid (1048)
• India
28 Dec 06
i will erally consider your advice next time am a failure
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• India
28 Dec 06
let me tell u one thing girls don't go with sober boys ....when u care for them they will say u r a good friend they want a friend who can do romace , flirt and can make them laugh or say they can use them...........best of lcuk
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@Nandni (6)
• India
27 Dec 06
Friendship should be based on reality not only on dreams, as this cud be hurt feelings.
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@dravid (1048)
• India
28 Dec 06
tanks seems to be an enlightened person
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@padhukr (2267)
• India
27 Dec 06
really good friend.any problem at the helping mind very usefully.
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@dravid (1048)
• India
28 Dec 06
hai i cud not undersyand what this means
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@JBD189 (345)
• India
27 Dec 06
Perhaps, when the time is right and you will find the right girl. You will know who is the right one for you; there are no hard and fast rules for making girlfriends. Just go by your instincts.
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@dravid (1048)
• India
28 Dec 06
ok will dat and chk...stilll den still confused
@simplegal (123)
• Philippines
27 Dec 06
she just don't like you so you better look for someone else who will apprecite the things you do and love you for what you are.
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@dravid (1048)
• India
28 Dec 06
oh no it is not like dat...i was just tring to understnand the dynamics of how people like and dislike other peoples
@shadow9 (238)
• Romania
27 Dec 06
hmmm ... ok has any boy ever understood a girl??? :P ... u can't always have what you want ... to have a girlfriend you must have something in common and feel confortable whit each other ... it's really a psichological thing ... if you really want a girl you must understant the way she is and show her what she wants to see ... theres not just one way ... u can't dress somehow and boom all the girls will like you ... you must dress how she would like it ... don't take advice from other girls that don't know her if she says that she likes it because all humans are diferent ... if one of her best friends gives you some advice maybe you should try it but it wount always work ... you should find a girl that likes you the way you are because if not than theres lots of work involved ... u must change alot and it's not garanteed to last to long ... if you want a girlfriend than find the right one ... one that you can actually talk to and have fun with ... not one that ignores you or whit witch you have to talk about stuf that you don't like or do stuf that you would not normaly do
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@Crostini (321)
27 Dec 06
it depends on two things 1) personality 2) looks.
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@ritchel (890)
• Philippines
27 Dec 06
Truly it is. Like men, we also find it hard to understand them because human is very difficult to study. My advise to you, just be yourself. There is always someone who is meant for you.
@dravid (1048)
• India
28 Dec 06
hai dat is gr8 may be we can help each other.....and the stuff just be usrelf is very difficult for us boys and specially when the girl is very beautiful..but u kow beauty should not be the fact of consideration but the hart and the purity of the soul waht say...any discussion from u would be great
@dravid (1048)
• India
28 Dec 06
hai dat is gr8 may be we can help each other.....and the stuff just be usrelf is very difficult for us boys and specially when the girl is very beautiful..but u kow beauty should not be the fact of consideration but the heart and the purity of the soul waht say...any discussion from u would be great
• Australia
31 Dec 06
beats me. I don't know. Must be why I'm still single
@dravid (1048)
• India
31 Dec 06
hai den chak all the posting lot to kow
• United States
30 Dec 06
You make girlfriends by being your own man. NEVER pander and cater to her like a slave just because she's a woman. Be your own man. Girls get turned off when guys are too nice - they want guys to have a bit of that edge about em, that independence.
@dravid (1048)
• India
31 Dec 06
add dont show dat u are intersted in them...but make them feel they are intersting whats...say
• India
27 Dec 06
iam verymuch interested in this topic. i would like to say one thing "when u make a girl friend, one should keep it in mind that the relation should be a good one or you should not see the gender(oerticularly for youngsters). if you are not controlled person some friendships make your "ship" titl upside down. be careful.
@dravid (1048)
• India
31 Dec 06
thaks for the caution
@schummi (925)
• India
27 Dec 06
welll..thats life for you.we always get wat we dont desire much but wat we desire its hard to get.and teh girls are fools to just look for some money in guys rather than any qualities so i just leave them to their position and never bother about them .one thing is sure man that if you love someone then you shouild definetly get her .
@dravid (1048)
• India
31 Dec 06
man i beliveu are wrong...acutually they are not after money ....one thing that money might bring into us is some amout of extra confidance and might show some higher DHV I.E DEMONSTRATION OF HIGHER VALUES...dat is the girls like...some pople who can shoe they are people of higher status they will fall
@vikhram (201)
• India
27 Dec 06
Girl friend I dont think is as necessary as food water and clothing to have
@dravid (1048)
• India
30 Dec 06
hai but can u ignore the pain of not havig a girlfriend every morning u wake up
@jen20619 (1302)
• Ireland
27 Dec 06
nice guys guide to getting girls - Front cover of The nice guys guide to getting girls
Yes some girls perfer the bad guy.Its only when they have been in a relationship with a bad guy that then they want the nice guy.I was once into the bad guy but now I older and wiser I know better.Dont change been a nice guy you will meet a girl that will appreciate it.
@dravid (1048)
• India
28 Dec 06
thanks i tried to be a jerk and failed
@Chiriac (286)
• Romania
27 Dec 06
Step one, abandon the idea of "making" a girlfriend. step two, dont share thoughts this dumb, esp. with girls. step three, less time on computer worrying about not having a girlfriend.
@dravid (1048)
• India
28 Dec 06
cool man...there are 2 possibilities u have a lot of them and u are bored or u are pissed off with them...which one..anyway dat was good
@pratew3y (1893)
• India
27 Dec 06
its not necessary that there is a method to ake a girl friend its not a work or a task . it happens by itself
@dravid (1048)
• India
28 Dec 06
woow that was good....bat who doesnot like some social approval from fthe oppsoste zone...what ssay
@bimmer999 (1159)
• Philippines
27 Dec 06
well as a start you should just be yourself do not act like someone else or alter your personality if the girl will like you and your personality then you have a good chance of being her girlfriend if she doesnt want you, you'll know by her response just try it
@dravid (1048)
• India
28 Dec 06
tahk you for that stuff...but when u realy love som1 and then that person is not intersted in you life fells so bad....anyway thaks for dat guidance.....
@khysnews (743)
• Indonesia
27 Dec 06
just care about her
@dravid (1048)
• India
28 Dec 06
how to care about her ...can u please tell somthing more in detailed
• India
27 Dec 06
Hi friend, it's not only your question mine and also a number of guys. We can't understand them. A joke is there about girl that is girl means nothing but "Ghost In Real Life".
@dravid (1048)
• India
28 Dec 06
hai i dont sgree todat...they made me lot of stuffs in mt real life
• India
27 Dec 06
cool topic buddy!!!!!n confusing too!!!!!!!really its hard to understand the dynamics of girls!!!!!!keep on investigating!!!!!!if u come to know pls let me be informed!!! i ll be waiting eagerly !!!
@dravid (1048)
• India
28 Dec 06
look for the comming up postings thins will get cleared as we proceed