Maternal instinct...

@HerShe (2383)
Canada
September 28, 2006 2:42am CST
Do all women have maternal instinct?
16 responses
• Canada
3 Nov 06
I don't believe that every woman has a maternal instinct. There are cases where this is exhibited as more extreme than others (such as simply not caring about the welfare of your baby at all vs. not having the desire to have or parent children) and it can't always be blamed on post-partum depression or psychosis. Some women just don't have it and don't bond with a child while others just don't have the desire to have children-and these are the ones who would probably "force the bond" because they knew/felt it was the right thing to do. Some women just don't "get it" when it comes to motherhood, and others "learn it".
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@HerShe (2383)
• Canada
3 Nov 06
Good response. I wholeheartedly agree with you.
@Cortney (3980)
• United States
28 Oct 06
I think it is more like paternal instincts.. a lot of women have them right away.. and some get them as they go along... same with men... my husband has a great instinct when it comes to our child.
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@HerShe (2383)
• Canada
3 Nov 06
Yeah. My husband has way more instincts in his little finger than I have in my whole body. lal
@caribe (2465)
• United States
24 Nov 06
I think some people do and others don't. I don't think it depends on you having children. I don't have children but I have a very good instinct. For example, yesterday my husband was going to ride his bicycle down the street a couple of blocks to buy a couple of grocery items. He has done that before and I never said anything. Yesterday, I told him to watch out for the cars because he might get hit. I just felt I needed to warn him. When he returned he was very shaken up. Someone had opened their car door just as he approached their vehicle and when he swerved to miss the door he was almost hit by another car. This kind of premonition happens once in a while and it is just something that I know.
@HerShe (2383)
• Canada
26 Nov 06
Hi caribe. You are just plain spooky. Not really. My son, when he was very young, would always tell us my uncle is calling us, with ten minutes of him caling. It had it's benefits.
@dollar669 (569)
• Canada
28 Oct 06
I believe in maternal instincts but I don't believe all women have them
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@HerShe (2383)
• Canada
3 Nov 06
I agree with you. I don't have it.
• United States
3 Nov 06
of course but it just doesnt kick in until you have a child
@HerShe (2383)
• Canada
3 Nov 06
Not so my dear, not so.
• Indonesia
3 Nov 06
yes.of course women dont have to have their own children to have a maternal instinct. it's a natural thing to have by women.
@HerShe (2383)
• Canada
3 Nov 06
I don't think it is natural with all women. I'm a woman and I have very little instincts.
@psmohan (1877)
• India
3 Nov 06
Majority of them have because they were with mother for a long time before marriage and their influence is always there. They impose the same in their future family also which becomes easier.
@HerShe (2383)
• Canada
3 Nov 06
What you are talking about is not instinct, but learned behaviors. Sometimes these are better than instincts.
@Karinne (1220)
• Australia
28 Oct 06
I don't think all women have maternal instinct. Look at the women who bash or mistreat their babies. It is very sad when you hear of situations like these.
@HerShe (2383)
• Canada
3 Nov 06
It is very sad to hear of mothers treating their babies cruelly. I think these women must have emotional problems; post natal depression perhaps.
• China
3 Nov 06
Yes, I think so. Women do want kids more than men do.
@HerShe (2383)
• Canada
3 Nov 06
Not always...
@starr4all (2863)
30 Nov 06
I don't think all women have maternal instincts. I think you can gain them later but not all have it when their baby's are born.
@Angelwriter (1954)
• United States
28 Oct 06
I don't believe so, because I'm a woman and I don't have any.
@HerShe (2383)
• Canada
3 Nov 06
Me either. I don't know what happened.
@sammy1128 (241)
• China
2 Dec 06
not all the woman have maternal instinct,it depends
@JC1969 (1224)
• United States
2 Dec 06
No, not all women have maternal instincts. You really have to want to be a mother, to be an effective and good nurturer. I mean any woman can have a child, but it takes more than carrying a baby to full term and birthing it, to be a mother. That's why leaping into parenting and having children should be a well thought out process.
@crystal8577 (1466)
• United States
23 Jan 07
I really don't think so, I could be wrong. Maybe for some it kicks in after they are pregnant or after they give birth. It does seem as though some females are not cut out to be mothers. They do not want to give up their lifestyles or make any sacrifies for their children.
@icequeen (2840)
• Canada
3 Nov 06
From what I have seen over the years...I would have to say, "NO:...
@tsmeesa98 (576)
• United States
28 Oct 06
To varying degrees