How do you parent the parent

Well yes I would hat is about Kids mine are grown and they are worse now then when they where little well they will have to do it themselves when I move out and that will teach them I think as long as us Mums live with them we are still expected to do it for them

id sugest you have a nice chat with them and let them know about all hygenic issues, my boyfriend has a habit of putting our child's nappies on the TABLE when he has changed them, i scream at him because that is terrible, after all i have to eat there in the end, but i do wash the table over and over again!

I don't always take the diapers to the trash right away. Depends on what I am doing and whether or not the diaper is smelly. We throw them away in the kitchen trash only. I hate when my husband uses the one in the living room because then the whole room smells. That can isn't emptied very often; the one in the kitchen is emptied every other day. We don't leave them laying all over the house, though. Occasionally I will find one my husband left because he got sidetracked doing something else and put it down on his way to the kitchen.

It is all about systems and schedules. Let her know that it smells so bad, that will never be able to get rid of it. Put aside plastic bags (like grocery shopping bags)and make a rule that diapers can go directly to plastic bags. Plastic bag needs to be placed than in big garbage bag that can be stored outside, special bag for diapers only. Make sure to let her know that diapers can not go to regular kitchen garbage cans. Good luck!

You need to definately say something; That is unsanitary. If the right person would see it your family could be refered to child protective servies. Best of luck to you.

I would definately have to say something. It is so unsanitary for nappies to be left around like that. I would constantly chastise her about where she is leaving them,but i would say it in a manner where she didnt think i were getting upset over it(in my case i was really peeved on the inside). Im sure she will get the hint as she wont want to hear your voice chastising her about the nappies for too much longer. Then it will become habit for her to place them where they should be. It worked for my sister without having to have an argument nor embarass her, sometimes young ones need to be taught without hollering or having them feel as though they arent capable of doing their job, and being a daughter , that would be the last thing you would want.Mother hood is hard enough without being felt you arent doing it the "right" way. :)

I noticed that in one of the comments you said that y'all are buyin the house together. I don't want to be mean, but there is no house big enough for 2 families. My sister and her boyfriend moved in with me for a while. They wouldn't clean up after themselfs, wouldnt buy food or laundry detergent and thought I was mean when I told them to pay on the bills. The big problem is that every time that we had a argument it resulted in the "mine wars". This is were one says "I boght that food, you dont eat it" The other says "I bought that laundry detergant, you dont use that" In the end, I told them to find some were else to live. Now we get along fine. I know what you mean about the dirty diapers. I can't stand that. When my niece wore diapers, I would find them under the couch, in the cushions & every were else. that is so nasty and can get stinky. I would suggest that you try to sit down and talk to them about it. Explain how you fell, & hopefully they will respect you and start cleaning up after themselfs. Best of luck to you and your family

That is very unsanitary. You should definitely speak to your daughter. She needs to be more careful, especially with things like diapers.

The next time you find a diaper where it doesn't belong, call your daughter over and say, "I think you forgot to throw this away." Then do it again and again until she understands that you won't be throwing them away for her any more. If she's going to act like a child and not put things away, then treat her like a child. I wouldn't yell, I'd just do what I wrote above.

I think you should call them on it. Don't yell, just call them on it. Let them know leaving diapers all over the house is disrespectful , and unsanitary. I mean that is just gross. I feel your pain though, I do.

It's your house right... I would hollar. If you don't want to hollar you could always charge a fee to be their maid.

Gross, def. speak up. If not for you, for your grandbaby. That is a very unhealthy environment. If it is your home, you have even more right to flip. GL!