For the people who've been on myLot for a while now...

@Shar11 (419)
United States
January 11, 2007 6:41pm CST
I had a question for people who have een postng and responding here for a long time now... Have you made friendships with other members..I mean people that you know communicate with on a regular basis and consider a new friend? I've only been here a few days but it seems a great way to meet interesting people around the world.. Because we are sharing our thoughts and opinions, sometimes on really important topics, it would seem you may feel you get to know someone when you've been reading them for a while..
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47 responses
• United States
12 Jan 07
hello there,how ya doing? I have been on mylot for about 3 months now and the first 2 it was me tryin to get the jist of everything..and slowly added friends..and really never had time to really talk to them..now I do tak to them daily or almost every other day..we messenger,or email each other and i have gained some real great friendships..not too mention I have learned about other cultures.And its been great!! and the ones i dont talk to everyday,and are on my friends here on mylot..i look foward to there postings.and opinions..and laughing and even friendly debating..lol..have a good one!
@Shar11 (419)
• United States
12 Jan 07
excellent..sounds like youve made the most out of making this a great experience... I am trying to get the jist of it all too right now... I've made a bunch of topics but soon found it's hard to keep up with all the responses. I've decided to spend a little time now reading through what I've started and responding to replies as well as reading some of the topics already posted here.. thanks for you answer
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• India
12 Jan 07
Well, not till now though i try to respond to most of the topic that are started by ppl in my friend list ..but none ever writes back to my dicussion or to my replies in their posts.. but i do think making a real good friend is possible here ..
• India
12 Jan 07
never feel in that way u can always make good friends everywhere....if there is an instance where u solved someones prob he will be a friends to u...this is a place where people help each other....so i'm sure u'll find a good friend soo here...dont loose ur hope...take care buddy
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@raj0019 (2623)
• Argentina
12 Jan 07
Honestly speaking, no one here has time to spend some time with their friends. I am not the exception too, people here makes friends just to make sure that someone will be there to reply their discussions. Otherwise they will not even have a look at their friends list. Everyone is busy in grabbig pennies, LOL
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@Pekachu (1112)
• United States
12 Jan 07
ih i hope that what you say is not true i would like to make some true friends somewhere was hoping it was gonna be here
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• India
12 Jan 07
yes i have made other friends also and respond to there discussions also,but do not interract with them as much.
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• China
12 Jan 07
interract? What do you mean? I can't follow you,siddharthpatil? Do you mean you don't interesting chat with your mylot friends?
• India
12 Jan 07
yes i ve... ve 1 friend right now saw a topic in which a female shared the same interests as i did n responded to it, sent her a friend request, but she did not revert back wanna make friends wid u... whatsay?
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@Shar11 (419)
• United States
12 Jan 07
of course :)
• India
12 Jan 07
i like to make friends but not much more online because how can i trust on them
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@Shar11 (419)
• United States
12 Jan 07
yes that is something to consider...There are people you have to be wary of online I guess...I think it takes time to get to know someone in this way
• India
12 Jan 07
noida killings - its sooooooo inhuman
if u really want to make true friends here...just follow them carefully for few days....u can trace out their nature by the answers they give here in mylot..if u like them just add them as ur friends
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@paule4129 (968)
• United States
12 Jan 07
ive met alot of people in this site and thats why i like it better than any other /i also have alot of fun and you can get to know people very fast here
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
12 Jan 07
yeah you are welcome to be my friend.
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• China
12 Jan 07
Riyasam, i just request add you to my friends list, hope you can approve my request , i am new here, i want to get some friends. Thanks.
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@aquajoy (114)
• India
14 Jan 07
no not really but i do read their messages and reply also i try and read the discussions started by them i think right now that would do i'll try and improve
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• India
14 Jan 07
no yaar but really intrested in doing so ,wanna be friend,,,, love to make new friends
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@goldjay (465)
• United States
12 Jan 07
I have not been here real long but long enough to have found one person with whom I have alot in common with. We wind up discussing some of the same discussions since we think a like and we have emailed each other quite frequently as well. It is interesting.
@amish2222 (235)
• United States
14 Jan 07
I do not think that there are many people who are looking around for making friends. What it appears (and I declare purely on basis of the observations that I have) is that people are here mostly for discussions and some money through it. There are not many cases that would be interested in making many friends.
@vrajesh (119)
• India
14 Jan 07
its not been long time for me on mylot,but till now u r mine only friend on yhis site,i really appreciate u for ur thinking and responding,and ya i am seeing futher for making good friends like u
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• India
14 Jan 07
I AM NEW AND I WANNA BE FRND OF SOMEONE PLZPLZ ADDD ME AS A FRN GUYS IT WOULD BE NICE OF YOU ALL
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@kgwat70 (13388)
• United States
12 Jan 07
I have not been on myLot for very long but I have made some new friends that I communicate with on the instant messengers and also email. I chat with a couple people on here as well as dating someone that is on here as well, though I met her somewhere else other than here. It is definitely possible to make some new friends here, though not everyone is looking to make friendships outside of myLot.
@leomar297 (619)
• France
12 Jan 07
I don't make friendships with other members because I don't use mylot a lot, and I have already friends I met on another forum and they've recommended me this great site. Another thing is there is too much people on mylot and I haven't found anyone who have the same interests as me. So I continue answering discussions and I hope to find some new friends here :) .
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• Israel
12 Jan 07
hello there,how ya doing? I have been on mylot for about 3 months now and the first 2 it was me tryin to get the jist of everything..and slowly added friends..and really never had time to really talk to them..now I do tak to them daily or almost every other day..we messenger,or email each other and i have gained some real great friendships..not too mention I have learned about other cultures.And its been great!! and the ones i dont talk to everyday,and are on my friends here on mylot..i look foward to there postings.and opinions..and laughing and even friendly debating..lol..have a good one!
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• Ireland
12 Jan 07
I haven't really corresponded with any of my friends except a couple, when we wanted to exhange our points of view on some matters. However, I feel I have gotten to know quite a few of the people in my list of friends, as I always try to respond to their topics and they always post a comment to my response. I suppose it is as good a way of communicating as any other.
@shineison (874)
• Uganda
12 Jan 07
yes u r right i tried to get together icq friends but i failed, there must b some communities,
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• China
12 Jan 07
Althogh I am new here, but I have alreay made three friends on mylot...but we did not keep close communication on mylot.. I agree with you that we can share our thoughts here and get answers to our questions. you know that if you list a question here, you can get a reply in one or two minutes..
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