Did you keep any secret to your wife/husband?
By xiongqh
@xiongqh (791)
Hong Kong
January 12, 2007 12:26am CST
I know everyone have himself secret that cannot talk to the other. as am I.
but If I have a boyfriend, I think I don't want to keep anything in my mind, I will share all my thought to him, that becasue of love.
ANd what do you think about it? Did you keep any secret to you wife/husband? and Did you cheated you spouse to keep it?
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9 responses
@patrice7 (1191)
• United States
12 Jan 07
well i think that we all have secrets. its up to us if we would like to share it. anyway i have a boyfriend and i am not keeping any secret from him. i think that if you love a person and that person loves you whatever you say will be accepted. so its best to not keep secrets because secrets cannot be kept forever. if the other person finds out you are keeping something valuable from them they will feel that they are not important to you and may cause trouble..
@007Bond1974 (881)
• Philippines
19 Jan 07
actualy keeping sectrets per se is not cheating as everyone is entitled to their own little secrets,it only becomes cheating if the necessity of telling it to another is a must... and if kept as a secret would be contrary to a situation one is into...and prejudicial to ones situation.peace
@007Bond1974 (881)
• Philippines
19 Jan 07
actaly keepinsg sectrets per se is not cheating as everyone is entitled to their own little secrets,it only becomes cheating if the necessity of teling it to another is a must... and if kept as a secret would be contrary to a situation one is into...and prejudicial to ones situation.peace
@sri2694 (17)
• India
19 Jan 07
yes.sometimes it seems better keeping secrets from my husband. when i am in teen age too wished to be real to my better half. But in real life we should hide something from them. Then only we can live peacefully. Its my experience. It does not mean that hiding from them is teasing them.
@nsuresheee (133)
• India
12 Jan 07
Hi friend you are right,im also same type we should not keep any secret to our spouse And i wont do this.And one more thing is that if we are being like this i expect they will also being like this.This is the right expectation i think,do you accept it.
@prisnooper (3)
• India
19 Jan 07
hi friend....i think v should not hide anything from our spouse no matter how serious it is....v should reaveal all r feelings and secrets to them...thats how a good partner should be....its will help us to be more closer to our spouse...it will give a chance to know more about them....to know more about thier opinions...
@sreejithsreenivas (10200)
• India
12 Jan 07
Some secrets cant reveal to every one,even if it is a husband or wife.
@007Bond1974 (881)
• Philippines
19 Jan 07
yes i do keep secrets...everybody is entitled to their own secrets...i dont think keeping secrets per se is not cheating...it only becomes cheating if the issue your keeping as secret is prejudicial and contrary to what you are in to...peace
