Misogyny, do we have to deal with it here on myLot?

@polachicago (18716)
United States
January 14, 2007 2:41am CST
Misogyny, is hatred or strong prejudice against women. I run over my friend(female) discussion, great topic. I was shocked reading male respond to her lovely topic. It was so rude and disrespectfull. What's the solution?
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14 responses
@korek222 (701)
• Poland
14 Jan 07
First of all i must say i'm male and it's so sorry to hear for me that some males cant behave in a good manner when they are replying to a womens topic. Well you ask for solution - there is probably no solution to this problem since you cant limit some behaviour on the forums as much as you cant say all people to be rue. All you can do is to report extremly offensive ones and rate minus the rude ones. Or maybe by giving a fair and decent example we could educate some part of male community here Well i hope it wil get better in the future :)
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
15 Jan 07
thanks, nice to see your reply...reporting is a must..
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@shogun49 (437)
• United States
14 Jan 07
Finding a cure for Male chauvinism and the Don Juan attitude. Some boys and men think it makes them look strong and tough to women or girls. Basically these type of guys may never get it. But my cure for this problem is to Draft them in the Army or Marines, and see what they really can do with their macho attitude, especially in a war environment. Just a opinion from a old Vet.
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
14 Jan 07
I love your comment...
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@rosey3223 (1566)
• United States
14 Jan 07
I'm sorry, but I don't know that there is a solution!! I mean, you can report him to mylot and explain what he did that was wrong, but because there is such a diversity here, anyone can comment and everyone feels that they should be heard. Honestly, if I was to see someone making an absolute rude comment, I usually make one back...but that is me. Sometimes they get the point while others get their jollies off from it because that is what they want...for people to get angry at them. I know that didn't help, but I hope that it may have helped!!
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
14 Jan 07
Yes, you are right, diversity. I guess in many countries woman is without rights and man can say what they want to say. Thanks, we should report him.
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@rosey3223 (1566)
• United States
14 Jan 07
I think that it is everywhere where a man feels that the woman owes him something...can't figure out what it is considering we bare their children and take care of their home...but men feel that way. Like women are beneath them, a pebble in their boot. I don't get it!! You would think that after all these years men would see that we no longer need them and that they should shut their mouth!!
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@alienstar (5144)
• India
18 Feb 07
Hm..what is this misogyny now? i have never heard anything about this till now and it's a new word for me here.Does it mean making fun of women...it seems like that by reading your comments in this discussion and i don't entertainmale domination aor even women domination as for me, i believe in mutual trust and respect on both sides.
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
10 Mar 07
Thank you Aidonia.
@aidonia (4209)
• Greece
9 Mar 07
Congratulation my fried!You don't know how happy I feel seeing you actually know the meaning of misogyny at Greek.Many words we use come from Greek words but the most of the people didn't know and if they know they don't exactly the meaning.As you understand I'm Greek.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
14 Jan 07
I guess give them a negitive on their responce but it seems awful that they would do that but then again you know how men are! keep ya home tape your mouth and keep ya PG
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
15 Jan 07
I love you comment..:)
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@vhmehta (621)
• United States
15 Jan 07
HATE has never been good for anyone yet.. It is due to HATE that there are people fighting and killing there own countrymen. (Like in Iraq and In history of India) Hating womens, Hating other religion prople, Hating another country has brought world to war. Why cant people live in harmony is a very good question but yet it is difficult to answer that question. I have seen and met some people who Hate womens and see them as lower than men. Pola, its hard to do anything to change there way of looking at women.. The best alternative would be to aviod such people. You can try to get into verbal fight but its not going to give any results.
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
15 Jan 07
Yes, verbal fight with such people is wasting of time and energy. I my life I was fortune enough to deal only with surerior man, including my male friends here on myLot.:)
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@katyzzz (2897)
• Australia
10 Mar 07
It is disgusting, it's worse on other sites than this one and unfortunately women go along with it, I do not admire them for that. solution - just avoid the perpetrators. don't connect with them in any way.
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
10 Mar 07
avoiding is the best we can do...
@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
16 Jan 07
I guess males shouldn't really answer unless they have something positive to say back.
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
24 Jan 07
Agree...
• United States
23 Jan 07
Misogynist men post discussion topics of the same nature "Duh, should women stay home, cook and clean, etc.?" Don't get angry (if you can help it), just have pity on those hormone-driven, ignorant, insecure, miserable people- and be happy you're not one.
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
24 Jan 07
great respond....
@shoelover (896)
• Australia
14 Jan 07
I am sorry but I don't think you can put a block on a topic to stop men from coming in. Maybe just put females only on the topic header.
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
14 Jan 07
Her discussion was not for woman only. I (or we) do not want to block man from responding. The respond was rude. I am talking about man who don'y respect woman(or hate).
@aidonia (4209)
• Greece
9 Mar 07
Any man if is misogyny is difficult change,he always will be.He forget that a woman gave him birth and another woman will give birth him children...but I realy come say to you if you don't see it until now ,after I read the topic you told about I check him profile and what I see ... the person is here at mylot 4 months and he has NONE friend....why I'm not surprised???
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
10 Mar 07
Yes, misogyny is hard to change. However, it is not genetic. I saw few people on my lot similar or worst. I am glad that most users are nice, friendly and respectful.
@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
10 Mar 07
Well I would think that if enough people reported the incident, his answer would be removed. And then if he kept doing it, they might suspend his account. But of course if he does not know why he was suspended it will not do any good. Unfortunately this is a world community and the worldis full of all sort of people.
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
10 Mar 07
he was already reported...
@adidas7878 (1891)
• United States
14 Feb 07
there is nothing really you can do. the only things is can do is igron the people, that is only thing, you cant change them for being prejudice against any one women or other men, i seem that happend way too often and i dont like it, but there is really not much you can do.
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
14 Feb 07
I guess........ you are right
@FrancyDafne (2047)
• Italy
11 Mar 07
Misogyny, sexism, homophobia are kinds of racism that I can't stand at all. I think that the only solution is the education: we should teach to our kids that the RESPECT is the most important thing in the world. However I don't think it's good to forbid a person to be racist on myLot, I think that everybody should always say his/her viewpoint, even if it's terrible and we should try to answer in an intelligent way to every racist opinion.
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
11 Mar 07
Thank you for your point of view..