Attachment parenting

My opinion is to parent your child the way that is right for you. I don't practice AP but know some people who do. As long as a child is not being abused or neglected, I don't feel there is a right or wrong way to parent.

I do what I feel is best for my baby & my kids. I do not let the baby cry it out (she is a month old) I do not run to her right away if I am doing something else though (well I will run if she is hurt). I have slept with all 3 of my kids for a period. I think as long as you are happy with the way things are going then all will be well.

I think this is right for you, definitely. Not all parents can do this. But, there's a lot of research supporting this. I had a baby book written by Dr. Sears and his wife, Martha - I believe. There's a lot of great evidence supporting this way of parenting.

As long as you let the baby have some time to themselves, it should be ok to tend to them crying. I only picked up my son when I knew he needed the security. You will be able to tell the difference in the cry. They do need things to do independently too though.

I think you are going to have a very content, happy child. My children were always Up in my arms as well, and only ever managed a squeek before i picked them up, and they are happy well adjusted adults today with children of their own who weren't allowed to cry hard until they were at least 12 months

I think it is great! My 11 month old loves being close to me. He is a bit more sensitive than my other children were, and so I must be more sensitive to his needs. Your family and friends are welcome to raise thier children how they feel is right for them... Next time someone says you are spoiling them try one of the following responses. "No child has ever been spoiled by being loved too much" "Thanks for your concern, if I feel like he's spoiled, maybe you will be able to help me." "Babies are meant to be spoiled" "Wouldn't you love to be in your lover's arms all day?" Good luck-and listen with your heart.