Is is better to marry a person you love or the person who loves you

@raveena (1355)
India
January 18, 2007 5:18am CST
I feel it is better if you both love each other and get married.
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@nhingneng (131)
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
i would consider marrying only someone whom i love and also loves me as much as i do, because if its only a one way relationship i believe it won't work and wont last long. for i believe in the saying "it takes two to tango" .
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@raveena (1355)
• India
19 Jan 07
Thanks for the reply
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
The marriage will work if you love each other!...Marry a person is a big responsibilty!...It is a lifetime commitment!...lolz
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@raveena (1355)
• India
19 Jan 07
Thanks for replying
• United States
18 Jan 07
There's no question two people need to love each other before they even consider marriage. If only one loves the other it's going to be one hell of a miserable marriage. ‹(°¿°)›
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@raveena (1355)
• India
19 Jan 07
Thanks for replying
@freesoul (3023)
• Egypt
19 Jan 07
Well, of course mutual love is the only way to go if someone wants to get married but for the hypothetical question you asked I would marry the one who loves me because I know I can't not to love anyone who loves and cares for me, but if I marry the one I love and she doesn't love me I can't guarantee that I can make her to love me and it would be a miserable life especially if she is in love with someone else.
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@raveena (1355)
• India
19 Jan 07
Thanks for the reply
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@ntejani17 (742)
• Pakistan
19 Jan 07
I feel it is better to marry with them who loves you. but the upper idea is also great.
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@raveena (1355)
• India
19 Jan 07
Thanks
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
For me, I'll go with the one who loves me. I can't force myself to love a person who doesn't love me at all.
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@raveena (1355)
• India
19 Jan 07
Thanks for replying
@whozefa (448)
• India
18 Jan 07
yes it is beetter to marry the person who loves you very much
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@raveena (1355)
• India
19 Jan 07
Thanks for reply
@whozefa (448)
• India
18 Jan 07
yes i feel its better to marry the person who loves u very much coz due to his love even u start loving the person and so no problem
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@raveena (1355)
• India
19 Jan 07
Thanks for reply
@deepu113 (450)
• India
18 Jan 07
its a typical question
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@raveena (1355)
• India
19 Jan 07
Thanks
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
i think it should be the both of you love each other ....before we enter the sacrament of marriage....wherein two become one....marriage should always be with love for LOVE is the most important ingredient to make a relationship last longer and forever....no matter what circumstances may arise....always believe the power of love
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@raveena (1355)
• India
19 Jan 07
Thanks for the beautiful words
@anil_762001 (1636)
• India
18 Jan 07
ya raveen i am fully agree with you.
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@raveena (1355)
• India
19 Jan 07
Thanks for reply
@imrajesh (1967)
• India
18 Jan 07
i personally feel that love marriage doesn't lasts for long. but if u get married by arrange marriage then it continues for long. i have seen many relationships based on love but they failed coz of some reason or other, it is not so that u r not interested in ur partner but it happens that u take them for granted and it is the time where problem arrives. it is the root cause of divroce and then people expect too much from the relationships but they don't get enough. i also feel that u should marry the person whom u know or love.
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@raveena (1355)
• India
19 Jan 07
Thanks for replying
@k3tk3t (3130)
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
for me the person who loves me...
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@huanghaozi (1474)
• Egypt
1 Feb 07
If I fall in love with a beatiful girl like my girlfriend . I will plan married with her . But I must spend a lot of money matrimony . I must earn more money first , then I will get married . I don't want my wife suffer the poor day with us . Now I work hard , I must give her a rich life .
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@aelyus (634)
• Romania
26 Jan 07
I think that love schould come of both sizes!That is how schould be normal,because if you love him and he don't where's the satisfaction?and in the contrar case also,you don't feel the happiness!
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• Philippines
26 Jan 07
i think it is better to settle to one who loves you...its much more easier to fall to someone whose willing to do anything for you..
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• India
26 Jan 07
Its so diff tO answer! We must follow our heart's instinct!
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• Pakistan
26 Jan 07
Ofcourse to the person whome I love if she loves me also but if she doesn't love i dont want to ruine her life but I will also not marry from the girl who loves me.
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@crosa125 (1484)
26 Jan 07
i think love have to be from both side
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• Philippines
26 Jan 07
marriage won't work if one doesn't love the other one. why not wait to someone who is really meant for you instead of taking risks? i believed everyone has his own destiny. :D
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