who is guilty

both I guess

both of them but the husband suffered the most. lol

both should be guilty!

i think both should be. or else they r not human beings.

I came across this post and it made me laugh this morning. If they are sleeping I don't think there is anybody guilty. Dreaming can play these games on us without even us knowing. Two months after I got married I woke up in the middle of the night and my husband was using the bathroom (that is what he said. I did not realise it was my husband until I heard the bang of the lampshade breaking. I threw it to him. It was exactly at that point that I woke up - with the sound of the smashing lampshade. He thought I am nuts of course but I did not know what I was doing, My mind was alseep during the act! LOL

In this situation..both are guilty.I guess both are having affairs.