If I fall in Love with Chinese Girl...?

I don't really understand what your asking or saying here.. LOL I am American Born Chinese and I fell in love with and married a guy outside of my race. Is there anything wrong with it? Not that I know of. I live in a free country and we are allowed to date and marry anyone we want...

when you love someone...you will not notice his/her race, age, belief and looks anymore...nothing seems to matter anymore...all you can think about is spending more time with him/her....therefore, dont be so stress out, my friend! let your feeling flows naturally...be genuine, be sincere..but most important of all..be yourself!

Well I think it depends on how the Chinese girl's family view about relationship with a non-chinese person. If that is the case then it's probably hopeless because we all know that they like to preserve their culture and race as chinese. But if they are open on inter-racial relationships then by all means go for it! Good luck though.

Im experiencing it now. I really that girl. Shes so nice, beautiful, everything that a guy like to a girl is in her. But i cant say it to her because she is a chinese. But i think ill say it to her. I think its really hard to fall in love with a chinese girl because most of them are arranging their daughter marriage with other chinese so that their business will still continue and not colapse. But some dont follow those traditions. But most of the poor chinese as we call them they allow their daughter because they dont any property. So its really hard to fall in love with a chinese girl. But if you really love her and she loves you then maybe her parents will allow you.

So? Who cares? As long as you love the girl then go for it! You'll only find it difficult if the girl's parents still follows the old Chinese tradition...that she would have to marry a full-blooded Chinese also. Well as I see it, we are already in the 21st century so I think that would be inappropriate... So, you don't have to worry about anything. Just go for it!

I don't think that should be the reason for you to not confronting her. if you like her that go for it. I am australian born chinese and I do fall for a australian girl before. I didn't confront and confess and I am regretting now. I have international friends that from china and she is now dating with an australian guy. her parent do object at first but in the end they already accept that guy. if you love someone the color of the skin, race, and other factor is not important. in fact there are alot of people dating or marry people who are different race. It all down to how much your like that girl and how much courage you have to confront her. Confront her while you can or else you will be staying in the friend zone forever. I don't have much exprience and I hope that this post do help you in a way. good luck and all the best...

Can you both communicate in language? If yes, tell her how you feel. If not, you will have to use sign language, or draw a picture of a heart and point to yourself and to her. Good luck friend. How did you meet?

I think you should just do what you think is best and if you like her like you say you do, talk to her and show her that you can be that man for her. Don't worry about her race, approach her like she is just a human being that you have a feeling for and that should make it easy in the long run.

I don't see any problem in that, love doesn't know boundaries, Chinese, Indian, Italian, etc what the deference? .. if she loves you too then congratulations and just be happy and enjoy your love and life ..

what yah! dont fall in love with chinese girl' it is comment to have usefule........

do u think china is more conservative than india ...? common when indians hv married chinese,africans,english people and all of the marraiges hv been successful and accepted give it a break china has come up all those things and love is just love for any race ...follow ur heart if u love her tell her and if u hv enough gutts and determination to marry the woman u love go and ask her

I dont know about chinese women, I know my cousin married a chinese women and they divorced 2 years after marriage, he says she wasnt bringing him pleasure or whatever.

Simple solution, Get a blood transfusion. You don't know what race gave it so who knows what you'd have flowing through your heart. Or you could take the intelegent route and just look past the skin color at the personality inside since that the only part that really matters.

All I can say is follow your heart. It knows best.