Long distance relationship!

It is how you trust him and how he trusts you..for me, i do not believe in long distance relationship,, well maybe, just maybe both of you can make a diffrence ok..just keep the fire burning..open communication is the success in all relationship

I have my girl friend working in a faraway place. Thanks to the technology, I talk to her everyday. Its indeed a sad experience to stay away from her. But this communication through internet also offers a chance to be more close personally.

Yes, I have. My ex-husband was in the army and often had to go away to places that I couldn't visit. For instance, he was posted to Bahrain, where there was trouble and there were no families allowed. I had my children though, so they took some of the empty time away. I used to go to bed soon after they did and read until I fell asleep, then I'd be fresh for them in the morning. It's not easy, but I wouldn't rush into marriage just for the sake of it. Wait until he comes back, and I'm sure your love for each other will be that much stronger. Remember the old saying... Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Good luck, and chin up... busy yourself with other things and he'll be home before you know it. Brightest Blessings.

Long distance relationship is something that I would want to avoid myself, it is just that we would want to be around the one the we love every once in a while if not everyday. Just the thought of having your bf far away in the sense that you cannot do anything to see each other would definitely suck big time. It would be very hard most especially if you were accustomed to having him around for the past 2 years. But then, rushing to get married just so you have the assurance that he is yours is not a good idea either, well marriage doesn't really tie him up to you so it's not a solution. I believe that if you really were meant to be in the first place, it will happen. So think about it, maybe the relationship is worth the try, since you've been together 2 years already, the relationship you've developed is deep so just see if the foundation that you have built together for that 2 yrs will be able to withstand the distance. I think you will be able to judge as the time comes.. Goodluck!

I am, my girlfriend and i met each other in the net (yahoo messenger)for 2 years now, and decided to met last May, she live about 4 provinces away from me, about 2000 kilometers or a 12 hour drive. We have a healthy and strong relationship thanks to constant communication, we see to it that we call each other almost everyday and text each other as long as time permits. Communication is important.Long-distance relationship is hard to keep, but mine is worth keeping because i know how much i love her and how much she loves me, trust is very very important, without it the relationship will not last. Don't be as paranoid as you should and trust your partner that she is continually being loyal to you. The one thing that is so hard in a long distance relationship is that when you needed an immediate affection or comfort you cannot instantly get it, call and text from the phone cannot replace the personal touch that your love can give, aside from that everything is normal as a short-distance relationship has.

Only you know if it's worth keeping girl. 6 to 8 months is not a long time, some people who have long distance relationships don't see each other for 1 to 2 years, so you're lucky. I think you're just lonely girl but if you love him stay faithful and hope he stays faithful as well. You are lucky your man is hard working. A lot of guys are bums.

From my own personal experience lond distance relationships don't work but Im rooting for yours so good luck.

I and my husband were in a long distance relationship for more than two years before we finally decides to get married. Do not lose hope. As long as you both are committed to make yours work and both love each other, you can bare the distance and can wait for the time when you see each other again. Trust me, when you find the right one, even if it is in long distance relationship, it is worth ALL the wait.

it works, its and understanding, trust and faithfullness

it is hard but if you trust each other and you trully love each other things will be okay just dont loose the communication you had.

hi your anxiety is very natural. every girl feels the same. i have my boyfriend in US and i am in india......even i thought the same you are thinkking right now. but as time passes you realise that love can cross all diatances and no term such as long distance relationship remains. what remains is just plain love. trying to communicate is one big hurdle i agree but it helps to make your bond stronger. the happiness u feel after speaking to him after days or weeks tells you how much you love him and that u cant live without him.... so just chill!! time is the best remedy

It's tough being in a long distance relationship but since you really love him and you also know that she loves you so why don't you wait for him. 6 to 8 months is just a short time. Although there's a possibility that he'll meet other women, I believe that it will just be casual. Just always communicate to him but don't make him feel being monitored all the time. Even if he commits mistakes (hopefully not), in the end he'll realize that you're still the one for him. :)

I've been in a long distance relationship and i can say it really hard to keep it. If you intend to keep it, you have to really be patient. Always keep the lines open for communication. And be ready with the anxiety that this can give you. If you love someone, everything is worth keeping.

I was in a long diatance relationship with a guy i met over the net in 2005. We started our relationship May of 2005 and in Jan of 06 I went to met him. Everything turned out like a dream come true I moved back to North Carolina for personel business and not long after he also moved down here to be with me. We ended up married last June and couldnt be happier:)

For myself I could never be in that kind of a relationship. Its just not for me. And only you know if its right for you. If your not ready for marriage or any kind of commitment why waste your time with just one person.

Well if the feelings you have for each other are those you mentioned, then of course it's worth keeping! Why waste such a beautiful fling? If your his life and if he's the one for you, than what more could you want? But you could say, not to have him gone that much...:P...That can be easily settled, you know.

i dont want to demoralise or scare you, but long term relationships may be risky, i have never been in such situations before, but i hava seen friends repent on them and hurt when such are broken, and mosf of them do.....but if u try and have faith, nothing is impossible.......

hey you have to set your priorities or else everything would not fall into places. if you love your boyfriend just support what he had decided coz for sure its for both of you. and besides you are not yet ready to get married so at least you still have time to think of what you want or what you should do first. when hes away from you physically for sure in his his heart and thought u are there. im now in a long distance relationship too, but not the same as you we havent met yet. he plans to come here by august of this year so im too excited to meet him, i just hope everything turns out to be fine between the two of us. so i guess we just wish each other goodluck and we this is the one too for me...

if i'm involved in a distant relationship, i would have to say that you won't lose anything if you keep that relationship.. but if another someone comes into your life and is always there for you, then i'd cut the relationship because i just don't think it's worth keeping when there's another someone who's really amazing.

Hey if you love him, then yeah I think the relationship is worth keeping. I have been in long distance relationship too.. and although it doesnt really do it for me.. it is different for everyone. The number one rule is that to trust each other.. and keep the communication openly.. I know a couple in long distance relationship that have a certain day that they will call each others.. or meet on the net or something like that.. afterall if you love each others as much as you said.. then the relationship will be okay.. Have you discuss this with your boyfriend about how you are feeling? Is he okay and ready to commit to stay faithful to you? Dont forget.. communication and trust.. it will be the base of a strong relationship..