im hurting my mom!!! all moms,please help me stop it!!

Philippines
January 24, 2007 9:25pm CST
help me. i ha a fight with m mom over a very small thing. but since my pride ws hurt. i began to ignore her and never talked to her. i know im wrong and i hurt her so much. but then,,, i just cant say sorry. and my siblings an other riends kept on telling me that mom dont deserve that treatment, and i must look in the good things she have done for me. and not on a single bad thing which is actually my fault. but my pride is onthe way. and i just cant swalow it... soory really seems tobe the hardest word!!!! help me... what will i do??
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6 responses
• India
6 Feb 07
I would rather say this almost happens in every house but my suggestion would be you just start talking to her and she will understand that u are sorry for the hurt u gave her not talking to her.U might not even have to say sorry cause mom is the only one the world who will understand ur feelings without u even uttering a word.so just talk to her normally .
@god_spear (498)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
Mothers are like that, i think the best thing to do is you have to talk to her and listen to what she will say, then, its your turn to tell her what you feel. There will always comes a time that there will be misunderstading when people care for each other, maybe she has a reason. You should be the one who will start to talk to her and to say im sorry. Whatever your mother has done and if you think she is wrong, no matter whatever you do you cannot change that she is your mother the one who bring you in this world. The world are full of violence, so let start a peaceful atmosphere and let it begin with you. In all the things that happened to you and your mother its all part of life, ask God to accept the things that are happening to you. Keep on praying.
@tigrashadow (1086)
• Australia
26 Jan 07
hmmm you already posted this question
@darckj (885)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
Anak [means 'child'] -
yah, sorry seems to be, and i guess is the hardest word.. i also once[or twice?] hurt my mother.. but in our case, she was the one who broke the ice.. she did not open the topic, but she is trying to fix things up.. being sorry does not only told thru words.. speak with your actions-- for me its better.. have you seen the movie entitled 'Anak'*?the daughter there hurt her mother so much, and what she did was made her mother a glass of milk[or coffee]..*Anak is a Filipino movie starring ms. vilma santos and ms. claudine baretto
@rajskr (2)
• India
25 Jan 07
As per my view where there is love, there r little bit conflicts and fight..u should not take it seriously that too bcos of ur pride, so forget those things and talk with ur mother, she had been really hurted with these one, so talk to her after all u have take care for her.
@eolivan (414)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
sorry really seems very hard to say especially if you're guilty with it. not that i'm blaming you or what, but I admit it's harder if I am the one to say it when I know I didn't like what happened. But I can offer anything to her even if we're not communicating for days. and you can always say your sorry when you're teasing each other already, which makes it easier to come out of your mouth... hope i could be of help... take care always and good luck. hope you get very well with your mom