Euthanasia: Would you do it?

New Zealand
January 29, 2007 3:55pm CST
In general, euthanasia is an act of killing painlessly - MERCY KILLING. If your loved one is in a hospital bed, brain dead with no hope to live except for the machines that keeps him/her alive, would you, as an immediate family member, consent to ending this person's life by pulling the plug (with medical guidance)? I know that in some countries this is illegal, but nevertheless, if you were in this situation, would you at least consider doing it?
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@eicher (509)
• France
29 Jan 07
It is illegal in my country but I passed a pact with my parents: they are both bikers and if one day they have an accident and if they are in a vegetative state, they make me promise to stop their suffering and to practise the euthanasia... If I had to do it I would be very sad but I love them and so I will grant their wish
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• New Zealand
29 Jan 07
Tough to do - but if that is their wish... Have they written a "Living Will"? It may help you if something goes wrong.
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@eicher (509)
• France
29 Jan 07
A 20 years old boy wrote to the president of France to ask for the authorization of dying and he refused, thus this boy wrote a book. His mother tried to grant his wish but she was arrested, then his doctor took over and he has imprisoned... Even if my parents let a letter I know I will go to jail but I don't care
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• New Zealand
30 Jan 07
When a loved one suffers and you cannot do anything about it... oh the pain. As a mother, it is painful to watch your little boy suffering from a bad cough.... how much more when a child is terminally ill.
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@Bytemi (1553)
• United States
30 Jan 07
Yes, I have actually discussed this with my family and friends and I would honor their request. I know that I would not want to live like that so I would not leave someone that I love in the same situation. Does that make sense?
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• New Zealand
30 Jan 07
True. That is what my heart says too. The law has other views. Then there are churches who have a different view. What is really correct?
@pmgsan (149)
• India
30 Jan 07
You have said it in the way it has to be told. When your loved ones are suffering which they are not ableto bear andno chance of getting cured then why they should suffer. In another occassion in old age when they are bedridden,not able to move, not able to eat or drink in the normal way and on the medical support in comma conditions, i would not like to leave them in that condition.Though it is not leagal in my country and I will appeal to the authorities for mercy killing.
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@dfinster (3528)
• United States
30 Jan 07
I feel the exact same way as Bytemi. My family members and I have discussed this and I even went and had a living will put in to place to make sure my wishes were followed.
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• United States
31 Jan 07
I would want it to happen to me if I was in that condition. I believe in it. Don't we have mercy killings of our beloved pets? Why not the people we love?
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• New Zealand
31 Jan 07
People have property, they have rights (perhaps more than our pets) and the State presumes, as do Religions that there are moral and legal aspects of things. So Margieanne, where does that leave the equation between our loved ones and us - when they are in extremis?
• United States
30 Jan 07
I absolutely couldn't. I know that's selfish, but I think I'd be a wreck if I had to consider that. I wouldn't condemn someone else for doing it, though.
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• India
30 Jan 07
Allowing Euthanasia and Mercy Killing Is Wrong UK Obstetricians propose to actively practice euthanasia and allow mercy killing of severely disabled newborn babies. This proposal, according to Independent, has been put forward by The Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecology, as an option of permitting mercy killings of the sickest infants to a review of medical ethics. While unbelievable, the College justifies the mercy killings of severely disabled babies in the following way: that "active euthanasia" should be considered for the overall benefit of families who would otherwise suffer years of emotional and financial suffering. According the report, the College has submitted its proposal to Nuffield Council on Bioethics and argues in the submission that "A very disabled child can mean a disabled family. If life-shortening and deliberate interventions to kill infants were available, they might have an impact on obstetric decision-making," Our publication strongly condemns such a proposal and calls on governments and societies to not allow such and evil proposal. "Euthanasia is not a future problem. It is a present problem. It is happening now and becoming increasingly accepted. And we are asleep, not realizing that the road we are on will lead to the massive elimination of the elderly and "incompetent," and anyone else considered to be a burden to society," writes Fr. Frank A. Pavone National Director of Priests for Life. In his article "Mercy Killing Is Murder" Rev. Ignatius -W. Cox, S. J, Ph.D. writes "The way in which the same moral question will thrust itself periodically on public attention is a curious phenomenon. It becomes a dangerous phenomenon, indicating a widespread moral malady, when with each periodic recurrence, more and more individuals of great potential influence take the wrong side, the ethically unscientific view, the immoral solution." Our fear is that this question of severely disabled baby Euthanasia is being presented in nice "valuable" terms: benefit of families, financial and emotional suffering, impact on obstetric decision-making, a chance for women to decide... Who are we do decide? Is this not crime to decide to kill the innocent babies? Since when did we start to play God? Do parents have the right to kill their babies? If no, how can governments or doctors decide so? It would be taking an advantage of an innocent severely disabled newborn child, who is ill, thrusts to those who bring him to life just about to kill and who can't speak or say a word, otherwise that child would have cried out... Let me live! I don't want to die. Don't kill me! Is this article becoming too emotional? We want the reader see the reality of what may happen because we don't experience it. Many doctors oppose to Euthanasia and mercy killing. Independent quotes John Wyatt, consultant neonatologist at University College Hospital, as saying: "Intentional killing is not part of medical care... once you introduce the possibility of intentional killing you change the fundamental nature of medicine. It becomes a subjective decision of whose life is worthwhile." Strongly opposing to the proposal of Euthanasia and Mercy Killing of severely disabled and sick babies, we conclude by asking, if the societies take this road how far will they go, who is next: the severely ill adults, the weak elderly? What if one day there not enough food and resources to support the world population? What do we do in this age of relativism, liberalism and lack of principles: do we start actively practice Euthanasia toward those who are not productive or efficient...?
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• New Zealand
30 Jan 07
Brihanna thank you for a very insightful response to the copy and paste article. It would have been better if the poster had provided the link, then he could have attributed the post to its true source. See http://www.emaxhealth.com/34/8156.html
@brihanna (381)
• United States
30 Jan 07
I guess I never thought of it with the babies. I think that is a little extreme, because of advancements in healthcare. I also wonder, though, how many of these children really do die a mercy killing by thier parents, although not in a hospital setting? How many of these children end up being neglected or abused because the families can not afford the help or the medicines for them? Also, I think much of this debate would be eliminated with lawful abortion of fetus' that show signs of severe disablility. (I do not know what the law is where you live) It is a very controversal subject, and you posted your material and information very well. Thank you for a different perspective.
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• Philippines
30 Jan 07
it would take me a lot of courage and a lot of pushing before i would agree to this.Its like you are the one killing your loved one..But honestly,i would never know my answer unless i am in that situation already..just thinking about it,makes me quiver because what if i had no choice but to end his/her life?
• New Zealand
30 Jan 07
Yes it does cause a quiver. Thank you for the response.
• Thailand
30 Jan 07
I had to face this one several years ago with my wife. It is one of the most painful and agonizing decisions you will ever have to make in this life. In the end I agreed with the doctor and the fight ended peacefully. I miss her with all my heart but I believe I made the right decision.
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• New Zealand
30 Jan 07
It is really heartrending - to take that call for a loved one.Even after all these years I am sure some part of the pain is still with you. Do acccept our heartfelt sympathies and good wishes.
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@lynninky (491)
• United States
30 Jan 07
I have always said it should be ilegal. Always said I would do it if ever in that situation and it was needed.I should have put it, I thought I could do it if in that situation.In 2005 my mother got a turn for the worse with cancer. It had made it to her liver. The doctors was telling us that she would be going into a coma. Everyday things was going more down hill.so they dicided she should come home with hospice. That night while sitting there for four hours waiting on the ambulance to get there to move her I was trying to go a little cold hearted.She always made me promise to leave a bottle of pills open beside her bed if hospice was ever called for her.I cried until I could not cry any more, I walked back and forth in that room trying to set my mind to where I could help her with what I promised. I could not do it.I knew she could not give herself the pills, she was not able to do anything for herself. he was not even using the bathroom on her own. You would think for someone who has believed mercy killing was the best thing for some people could have pulled it together but I could not. Well she finally made it home and rested that night. She was bright eyed the next morning talked my dads head off or thats what he tells everyone.It was only the two of us so we watched her in shifts. Then the hospice people came to talk to her/get to know her.I had only been in bed for a few hours but wake up with a bad feeling. I did not call my dad.I did not want to wake anyone up so I got my clothes on and went back.When I walked in my moms legswas laying on a pillow without any support under the knees.So I got over there and moved them.She said thats feels better.I got some lotion and rubbed them down.The sad thing is she could not tell us that something was hurting her and I could still not bring myself to do it. The two hospice people gave her meds a left.They overdosed her and she past in 15 minutes. It was still hard to take.It is a good thing if you can bring yourself to do it.
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• New Zealand
30 Jan 07
Lynniky, this is gutwrenching. In theory all is possible, but when it really comes down to it it is oh so tough. May everlasting peace be with your mother.
• India
30 Jan 07
It should not done. As law and order rules all such matters
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• New Zealand
30 Jan 07
Is the Law always right? What can we do to challenge the law?
@brihanna (381)
• United States
30 Jan 07
I would. I have worked as a nurse for many years, and it is heart wrenching to see people in this situation. You can't go on with your life, you are stuck in a limbo. You visit, you pray, but it tears you apart. I would also hope that my loved ones would do the same for me. I would never want to put them through that kind of pain.
• New Zealand
30 Jan 07
It is tough for the family and friends, the patient is either in oblivion or suffering - nobody really knows and the law prohibits pulling the plug. That is the dilemma.
@adidas7878 (1891)
• United States
30 Jan 07
i dont think i would, there was something on the news not that long ago, the husband want to pull the plug but the girl's family member doesnt, it got out of control, everyone is upset on the girl's side and stuff.
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• United States
30 Jan 07
I don't think I could do it. Mercy or not ist is still murder. I must also say that I have never been in this situation so if I was maybe I would feel differently. I do not judge others; its just my personal opinion.
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@cabergren (1181)
• United States
30 Jan 07
I know for instance that my husband and I have both had this talk, that if there one of us was being kept alive by a machine that other would make the doctors turn it off. Neither of us would want to live like that.
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• New Zealand
31 Jan 07
I agree. We have a similar agreement and we have both put that as a "Living Will".
@romirima (34)
• India
30 Jan 07
This would be the worst state of a person who has to do the act of mercy killing and if its to do for ur lover then it wud just be mothing lesser to hell! Christ,i hope no one on this earth get a situation like this.I would die first rather than seeing my Love in such a position...
• New Zealand
30 Jan 07
I agree with you that it is horrible to be in such a situation with a loved one....
@magnel (2263)
• India
30 Jan 07
It would not let my loved one die every day for the rest of their lives, instead i would prefer euthanasia for them. As I love them i would not see them in pain, if doing such a thing give them relief from their pain and suffering then that is good for them.
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@laneita (78)
• United States
30 Jan 07
if my love one was like that i would let them go. if threr was no hope of them comming back to us at all why let them lay there any longer than they have to. if they are that far gone they are already in the place they were went to go. heaven. so i would go ahead an pull the plug as you say. let them sleep in peace finally. let them go.
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@amazehr (429)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
if there is really nothing we can do and the doctors as well then i think that it is the best
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@GEORGiQ (115)
• Romania
30 Jan 07
I don't agree with this. If he has to die he has to die not to be killed.
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• Italy
30 Jan 07
I'm italian,and one months ago,here in Italy,there was the sory of Welby,a man who was alive only for the medical machines,but he had manifestate the intention of die.In my opinion euthanasia is not a legal and civil method,is lika kill a person.
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• United States
30 Jan 07
I really don't think I could do it. No matter how much pain or how bleak, I just couldn't. If they are still present on this earth, there is a reason and cause for it. Nature takes those when it is ready, and only then.
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