does this upset you..

No, it doesn't upset me because he always notices whether I'm casual or made the effort. But no, I wouldn't be upset if he didn't notice. Its no big deal to me , so long as he keeps looking my way, I'm happy.

No it wouldn't upset me. He tells me that I look pretty on days where I haven't gone to any trouble for my appearance and I think I look terrible, so he doesn't have to notice or say something every time I dress up.

offcourse it will be upsetting. I think for that kin dof pa rtner we should dress up nicely at all. because they dunt care. We should dress up for ourself. and look beautiful.

No it wouldnt upset me, I can be totally awful and my Husband will notice me and to me that is more special than when I am all painted up and dressed nice. It shows me he loves me for me and not what I look like all painted and pretty.

yes, it's an insult for us women that we are making an effort and men that we loved don't see and recognize us. It's depressing. My God! ! !

Sometimes I get upset about that yes. Especially if he is not very used to seeing me dress like that. I would be upset more if he mentioned what I wear usually and asked me to dress a little better, then he never noticed when I do dress the way he wants. That would hurt my feelings, like what I did wear for him wasn't good enough either.

YES! YES! YES! ifmy husband sees me putting on makeup he'll say why do you need that? or who are your prettieng up for?and ill respond "you" on days that i take the effort to look extra nice and he doesnt say anything it bothers me, beacuse i feel hurt i feel unpretty at times and te times tht i do feel niec i want him to at least comment on them.

No but if you're bothered by it, hint it to him by saying, "Do you like this new dress I picked out?" Stuff like that will get him to notice.