If you love or like someone very much you see him/her more beautiful,is it true?

Romania
February 2, 2007 7:13am CST
I just want to know if it`s true! I liked someone very much and he didn`t like me. I saw him after 2 months and he wasn`t the way I used to think he is! I guess it`s true,what do you think?
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@Ajaygosh (137)
• India
8 Feb 07
yes its really true becoz all of us if truely loved then we always think them a lot....so naturally our mind would not go and see others very closely...Thats the main reason behind this..Then we can note all the little little changes with our liked ones...
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• Netherlands
4 Feb 07
Yep, definately true. I have dated men that - in hindsite - were just not physically attractive. I think we pick out the features we like when we are dating someone and only focus on those, but when the emotion is gone we see them as a whole. Wierd, huh?
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@addy4all (638)
• India
3 Feb 07
yes...thats true.....u find that person more and more beautiful and interesting.....
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@sensesfail (2251)
• India
3 Feb 07
Yeah thats really true.When you love someone the other person looks more beautiful even real.And thats why they say that love is blind.For instance a beautiful girl falling to a not so good looking guy and so on.
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@fady83 (617)
• Egypt
3 Feb 07
i think love from one side is not good one the love word mean the two partner love each other not only one side so i think do not waste your time
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• India
2 Feb 07
Yes that's true. When you love or like someone very much then you ignore all their mistakes and appreciate all victory. Means You see only the fair Part. That's why, Nothing is beautiful in front of Beautiful LOVE.
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@aelyus (634)
• Romania
2 Feb 07
Yes,it is true!if you love someone,you see that person more beautiful that it is in reality!why?because you love her soul,not her body!
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• India
2 Feb 07
As far as I am concerned, it is true the person whom I admire or am in love with, I find them more attractive more smart more beautiful than others find them. The reason for this I suppose is very simple : We start focussing on the better parts/qualities of those people.So we indirectly start neglecting their negatives thereby leading to better image in our eyes. Don't you think so ???
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@Phemzy (97)
• Nigeria
2 Feb 07
Firstly, I will ask you some question. Did you stop doing what you normally do before like calling him when he is not around or another personal thing? Did let him realize that he has change from the way he was before? If you does, what was his reaction, GOOD OR BAD? Secondly, if you think he is doing this inorder to ignore you or stop your relationship, then you called him and talked to him, if he is shouting at you, then try and search for another guy.
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• India
15 Feb 07
yes ur true./..
• India
2 Feb 07
Ya that's for sure if you love somebody then he/she looks to be the most beautiful say out of this world. It is from within one's inner self that these feelings arise. You liked someone so much and when he met you after 2 months you disliked him for he was not what you have thought. Hadn't you met him before i.e. when you started liking him. You are certainly right.
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• Romania
17 Feb 07
i think when you're in love with somebody you're very subjective and tou may think the person you love is the most beautifull in the world..ussualy he isn't
• Canada
15 Feb 07
i feel the same way. i guess that's why they say love is blind right? probably when you love someone, you only see beautiful stuff.
@andrejuly84 (1047)
• Romania
12 Aug 07
yeah,this is true.love makes you seeing only what is good at that person,not anymore thew bad parts of him.perhaps love is really blind as is said.
@dhouston (417)
• United States
3 Feb 07
Thye say, "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder". I belive this. I have found that as I get to know and like a person more, that person becomes bettert looking in my eyes. I can even think of people whom I thought almost ugly when I first met them, and as friendship grew, I came to see them as beautiful.