Love Before Marriage or Love After Marriage ???

love before marriage that's what marriage is for: to tie the knot between two people who are inlove love after marriage is uncertain.

All depends on what one's definition of love is. If there's love there then that should be enough to get married. Throughout the years, though, the closeness of marriage "should" create an unconditional love (but doesn't always unfortunately). So, to answer your question...yes, you need love before marriage and an unconditional love to hold the marriage.

How can the girl accept the proposal if she does not love the man? Love is important before marriage so that the marriage can be succesful. the foundation of marriage is love and trust. if they dont have these two, they might fail the marriage, its like many celebrities that divorce many times, after only short relationship, they married and failed because love has not been built among them and they rarely spend time together cause both of them usually are busy with their own filming and all. I think it would be hard for celebrities to live a good life and started a family though some celebrities has been succesful in this matter. So yea, Love is an important essence of marriage so you cant go to marriage and be succesful if you dont actually have love, well, there are some cases that people were succesful after going to marriage and then love, but its a very rare case.

i think both have their own pluses and minuses.. but what is important is true love and as far as i am concerned i believe in love and than marriage

I believe you should love someone before you get married .We have so many relationships ending in divorce and if there are children involved this is even harder for them , then if you were just living together . I have told my children that I would prefer if they lived with someone before they got married only because this way they will at least know what they are getting themselves into . My husband and I have been together for almost 18 years but only got married 7 years ago . No one will ever be able to say that if it doesn't work it wasn't because we didn't know what we were getting ourselves into .

i think before marriage!!!

I say love should come before marriage. Marrying someone that you don't truely love could become quite the disaster. What if the love never comes? A loveless marriage could never be a good marriage in my opinion.

Well I think the whole reason people should get married is because they are in love. I mean in the process of being with someone and dating them you get to know them and get to love them, once they love each other its normal that they would get married.