Is it possible?all single mothers with kids get a chance to settle down again?
@alammobaluvkita (14)
Northern Mariana Islands
February 5, 2007 7:44pm CST
i'm a single mother of five beautiful kids, been single mom for almost 6 years now.,i was just wondering if i still have this chance to settle down again? if ever given the chance to meet someone?...very scary and risky to think about of what i've been through! all single moms out there, it is possible for us to settle down again?
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@steney (1418)
• Philippines
6 Feb 07
As a fellow single mom, I believe that we all have a chance to get settled down and have our own happily ever afters. Actually, it's easy to get married. What's difficult is qualifying a partner to be a second father to our children. With issues on rape, child abuse, pedophilia, incest, etc. abound, we tend to have this nagging fear whenever we meet a potential partner that we might choose, or worse, end up with the wrong one. Call me paranoid, but I'm foremost concerned with my child's well being (aren't we all are?). It won't hurt if it takes a while to get to know a person really well before plunging into anything serious. Then, maybe, after that we can live happily ever after:)
@alammobaluvkita (14)
• Northern Mariana Islands
7 Feb 07
those are the cases actually giving me phobia base on my experiences...that's why maybe like it's hard to put back the trust again..it looks like they are all the same you know...i guess because of what happened to me that's why i'm feeling like this...and you're right, we really have to really know the person in and out before getting into a serious relationship...thanks for your comments steney dear., by the way, how many kids do you have? hope to hear from you again...take care always and God bless.
@alammobaluvkita (14)
• Northern Mariana Islands
10 Feb 07
hello again steney:) actually i'm just so lucky and so blessed really..when my kids was just small i have a maid with me that time whos helping me taking care with my kids..now that they are grown-up already never had much problem, not that perfect but everything was just in a right place, i guess because since i went back to know God and ask His guidance really helps me a lot to go through all this circumstances that comes our way...and being single mom thats what we really need in our life..we need God to help us in all ways, that's why my faith is getting stronger and help me also to be more closer to Him and my kids as well...thank God..let's all pray for the best of our kids and just have faith in ourself and in Him..hear from you again steney and take care and so your kids..mwahhh and God bless:)
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@steney (1418)
• Philippines
8 Feb 07
Hello again! I only have one child and yet I'm this paranoid :) I can't imagine how it must be for you when you have 5 to worry about. Anyways, as they say, you will know when the right person comes along. And I'm positive that there's a certain special someone destined for each one of us. God is good and just. I admire you for your strength in taking care of your children. Keep it up and keep the faith. God bless you too!
@doodlebug5250603 (1993)
• United States
6 Feb 07
I was a single mom of two children, and yes it is possible to settle down again. I have three children now... and i enjoy being a stay-at-home-mom. But it is possible.
@alammobaluvkita (14)
• Northern Mariana Islands
6 Feb 07
wow! thats so cool my friend..i am happy for you! oh yeah! i guess i just have to really wait for the right person in a right time...thanks for your responce my dear! you take good care of yourself and your kids and your hubby as well...hope to hear from you again and God bless!
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@alammobaluvkita (14)
• Northern Mariana Islands
7 Feb 07
hello doodlebug5250603 :) good day to you! you're correct, mr right guy will soon come around in a right time., that's how mothers are and it should be. of course we want a guy who would love our children too as well, no matter what they are our first priorities..thanks my friend. give my kisses and hugs to your kids and you take care...hear from you again :)
@doodlebug5250603 (1993)
• United States
7 Feb 07
don't worry, the right guy will soon come around. it just takes time. plus, i'm sure that you want a guy that good to your kids too. right? well i wish you luck
@hitzphillygirl (1235)
• United States
6 Feb 07
Of course it is. You just have to put time and effort into meeting someone new.
@alammobaluvkita (14)
• Northern Mariana Islands
6 Feb 07
actually right now, i keep myself busy, getting more involve in church activities, i pray that someday,somewhere out there,i would meet this right person for me..who knows aight? heheheh..God's will and in His perfect time.Are you a single mom too? how many kids?
@XxAngelxX (2830)
• Canada
6 Feb 07
I am a single mom of three wonderful children (I can't imagine having 5!! Kudos to you hun for doing it on your own!). I have a boyfriend now and he has a son who comes to stay here on the weekends, so never give up hope that you can settle down again. There is someone out there just waiting for you and for the right time. All the best to you my friend, I hope you find that someone special very soon.
@alammobaluvkita (14)
• Northern Mariana Islands
6 Feb 07
it's really hard actually, putting aside my own happiness and take care first of my own priorities which is my kids.. thanks for your comment and all my best to you as well my friend..keep in touch and more power..God bless my friend :)
