Can a homosexual/or a lesbian change?
By 007Bond1974
@007Bond1974 (881)
Philippines
February 6, 2007 7:24am CST
for me the answer is yes,i based it on experience(well m\not on me to make it clear)a co worker of mine and a good friend in a hospital was a homosexual,he discovered it and began to be open about it since he was 16 y/o..but just last year after he stopped working as a nurse he re appeared as a new "MAN" i realy cant believe my eyes!there he was tall sraight,doin a man talk, i thought he was just playing around,but when i saw somebody appoached him a woman and a baby boy...i believed what i saw...i approached him to say hi...he shaked my hand and smiled...he said "well do i look fine?"...i told him you changed...he introduced me to his wife and his kid...i was hesitant to ask him what happend i was afraid that he might have kept his secret from his wife...but he interrupted and said..."dont worry she knows,shes the one who helped me change"....whow do you believe that a homosexual can change?....peace
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@cloudwatcher (6861)
• Australia
8 Feb 07
Yes, certainly I believe.
A close friend of the family was a practising homosexual until he was about 60 years old. I believe his upbringing was such that it influenced him that way. He rebelled against it in his early life but eventually gave in to his nature.
A few things influenced the change, but the major one was that he became a Christian. He realised his behaviour was wrong (his words) committed himself to the Lord, asking His forgiveness and help to overcome. He is now a happy man and if he found the right woman, he would marry.
@007Bond1974 (881)
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
thanks for sharing your thoughts my dear friend...indeed will power,happiness of chosen path can convert a man to what he realy wants to be!
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@urbandekay (18278)
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6 Feb 07
There are documented cases of Homosexuals that have become heterosexuals and it is interesting to read what they have to say after they change, sometimes they report a realisation of a disturbance in their early life. Today, in some Western countries it has become fashionable to be homosexual, there are no doubt many claiming to be homosexual who are repressed heterosexuals
all the best urban
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@007Bond1974 (881)
• Philippines
7 Feb 07
Your opinion is well taken and responsive, i do agree with our thoughts regarding changes due to realization of a disturbance in thier early life,maybe for one to understand changes one must know first what happened to him/her before,and their feling towards who they are... my thanks for the reply dear friend...SHALOM(peace)!
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@lucalucky (1839)
• Italy
16 Feb 07
I think that it can happen. Sometime a man or a woman that are not homosexual understand to be homosexual. The same can happen on the other side. Someone the is homosexual cand understand that he/she is not. I am not an expert but It happen and for it cannot happen only one way.
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@sidoney (1033)
• Jamaica
26 Feb 07
yes sure why not straight people change too husbands abuse there wifes and they be come lesbian so if a woman shows a man who is willing to see that she is is true soul mate sure some scientist believe that men and women who are not straight had some issues in there childhood that made the what they they were not born with it I believe some of that
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@babysusie18 (231)
• Philippines
16 Feb 07
I believe that homosexuals can change. Its all a matter of time and acceptance of who's really making you happy and make you feel important. I guess, whoever would come to you and help to make you change is not that easy without your acceptance with it. May be in your story, they're really destined and he really learned to love the girl.
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@ESKARENA1 (18260)
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10 Feb 07
possibly i guess, but why oh why would anyone want to change something as fundemental as your sexuality. How many people are pressured by outside agencies ?
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@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
15 Feb 07
no I dont think so...I mean in the sense that you cant all of a sudden just NOT be gay...My brothers best friend growing up has been gay since the day he was born and he recently got married (couple yrs ago) to a woman but he's still as gay as gay can be...Sometimes ppl will "claim" to change becuase of naysaying negative types in society and the constant harrasment that comes with it or to please family members who harrass and belittle for yrs on end...If you are truly gay..then you are truly gay for life...but sure you can "play" a different role if needed...
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@maildumpster (3815)
• United States
21 Apr 07
I think it is possible. I don't believe that all people who are gay were born that way. I believe that some choose to be that way. I say that cause I know a girl that chose to be after being raped and abused by men.
@maildumpster (3815)
• United States
1 Mar 07
You know I don't know for sure. I have heard of it happening but I don't know anyone who has changed.
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@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
20 Apr 07
I think anything in life is possible. You just got to believe in it first inorder for it to happen that way.
@smkwan2007 (1036)
• Hong Kong
15 Feb 07
You friend chooses the normal life of being his own gender. Basically, there is nothing wrong with one's inclination toward certain intimacy not accepted by the traditional world. But biologically, the mother of nature has given the rules that only opposite genders are supposed to work together to reproduce their offspring. Actually, man and man, or girl and girl can be very good friends, they can help each other or enjoy happy moments. Actually, they don't need to proceed to the extent far beyond normal friendship.
@Springlady (3986)
• United States
15 Feb 07
I most definately do believe they can change. It takes the will and help from God. Homosexuality is a sin and God wants us to be cleansed from our sins. He will help anyone to turn away from their sins.
God bless!
