I just cann't accept homosexuality!!

@canioo (140)
Sweden
February 6, 2007 8:46am CST
I don't know but I just cann't accept homosexuality. not either homosexual persons. I don't mean that I hate them or like if I would like them to die. but I cann't be friend to anyone who is homosexual. I think that homosexuality is wrong. we are created man to woman and woman to man. Ok I know that they are born like this, but is not that like if one is very aggressive that he/she hurts people and he has his excuse in that he is born like that. he cann't control himself. Homosexuality is against Bible's words. It just insults the humanity..
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@DRoddy77 (1776)
• United States
6 Feb 07
It's funny how people always want to quote the bible on things like this but they also forget the one little part in the bible that says not to judge other people! I'm straight but I think it's sad that you are so closed minded about things like this. Who cares if someone is gay? It doesnt bother me and it doesnt affect me or my life. Let people be happy and do what they want to do with their own life. Stop judging people!
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• Philippines
6 Feb 07
It's bad enough to judge a person because of his sexuality,let alone quote the bible just to prove you have the right to judge them :(
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@canioo (140)
• Sweden
6 Feb 07
I am not judging anyone. the bible says also that only God can judge people, and I believe in that. but I just say how I feel about this. it is like if I wrote that I don't like theft, not either thieves, or murderers or liars. I don't care if someone is gay, just like that I don't care if anyone is liar, but I believe that it is wrong, and would like if he could be changed. because if you don't know that you are wrong you can never change yourself and become better. anyone who smokes never leave smoking if he thinks that smoking is good (or ok) I don't hate any homosexual as a person but I hate the homosexuality in him.
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@istanto (8560)
• Indonesia
6 Feb 07
what actually meaning of judge people?? I think you have to understand it first before say it. this is people opinion not judge for other people.
@jricbt (1454)
• Brazil
6 Feb 07
Live your life without caring about it. If you are (as you seem to be) a God fearing person, let God take care of it. You have made your point, if one of them wants to change they have the right, we cannot force people to be against their will. I am an atheist, let's suppose I wrote : I don't know but I just can't accept religiosity, not either religious people, I don't mean I hate them but I cannot be friend to any of them, I wish they changed. It would make you feel in a "not so good way" right? (I choose to use an understatement here). Well, imagine now how the other people felt when they read what you wrote. By the way, I respect religious people and think they have the right to believe and live the way they see better, and have religious friends (and, just to clarify : I am straight).
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@canioo (140)
• Sweden
6 Feb 07
no, I actually didn't feel badly when I read that. it is enought for me that you don't hate them. I mean you are free to feel and think as you want, but it's enough for me that you said that you don't hate me, so you will not hurt me. so even if you don't like religious people, I am happy to be religious....(I know you took all that as an example). In any case I apologize if anyone felt hurted by what I wrote. I love all people, I just said what I think is wrong.
• United States
6 Feb 07
Firstly I want to say that I don't hate homosexuals, but you are right the bible says God doesn't approve of it. The bible also says to love everyone despite their faults so all we can do is pray for them and hope that someday it will turn around for them. I guess it's a habit like smoking, they gotta want to change, we can't make them.
@canioo (140)
• Sweden
6 Feb 07
thanks for your respond...I think exactly like you
@MrNiceGuy (4143)
• United States
6 Feb 07
Very good response. I'd say this it the best way to describe it. It is something we don't approve of, but something that cannot (probably) be changed and we need to love them anyways. That doesn't mean you are accepting it as ok.
• Zimbabwe
7 Feb 07
Thank God there are still people out there who still believe in God and his Biblical principles. If God wanted man to be homosexual he would have created 2 Adamas or 2 Eves in the 1st place. The fact that he created tEve and Adam shows that he is against it and he clearly outlines this in the bible. Homosexuality is an evil spirit that should be driven awat by prayer in Jesus Christ who is our Saviour and Lord
@canioo (140)
• Sweden
8 Feb 07
I agree with you and thanks for your respond
• Italy
6 Feb 07
I am astonished that in the 2007 there are still persons whom they believe, perhaps without to know it, in the nazi / hitlerians ideals about of the homosexsuality, and I am very happy to living a lot far away from people of this type.
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@canioo (140)
• Sweden
6 Feb 07
please read my discussion again and some comments I did...I have said that I don't hate them, I cann't hate anybody and I never can hurt anyone..so I am far away from what you called "nazi/hitlerians ideals"...... in addition I am very happy hear that I made you happy (you said you are happy to living far away from people "like me". althought I am not a such one as you think).......... thanks for your respond and have a very nice day
• India
6 Feb 07
I agree with u. I think its a sin. Man and woman is made for eachother.
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@canioo (140)
• Sweden
6 Feb 07
exactly....thanks for your respond
• Philippines
7 Feb 07
in what way homosexuality hurts people. Anyone can hurt others if s/he would want to. I know lots of decent homosexuals both male and female who are nice and easy to get along with. THey're funny too. YOu're right about the bible. But you should recognize that those men are women in almost every aspect except their body. It's the same with lesbians. Homosexuality is NOT a blasphemy to your bible.
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@vicky1 (240)
• United States
7 Feb 07
What if you or your family needed lets say a heart and they had one from a gay person and you found out. Would you take it then or pass on it because it was a gay person that helped you or a family member live? I ask this because someone who is gay is just like anyone else. Thier heart beats the same as yours or mine.The blood going through thiers viens is the same. And guess what God created that person just as he did you. Sorry you feel like you do.
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• Bahrain
6 Feb 07
I agree with you that homosexuality is wrong from a religious perspective and yet, homesexuals have become part of the society. We just have to respect them even if we don't want to be with them. Harmonious living involves an acceptance of the things we cannot change.
@KDLushie (23)
6 Feb 07
People can't help who they fall in love with. That's all I have to say.
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• Japan
7 Feb 07
"I cant accept homosexuality" You don't to.It is all a matter of free will.
• Japan
7 Feb 07
You don't have to.
• India
7 Feb 07
Well, this is a first for me on mylot..! And what better topic to begin with..? I DO NOT have anything against homosexuals, per say. However, I say that is alarmingly out of place if you look at the larger picture.. Humans are only one of the species on earth, one out of countless others. We have evolved from some of the simplest base creatures. During some part of this chain, we were endowed with the capacity to have different sexes to allow for a more methodical procreative system. A balance was finally established - however delicate - between the two genders. A balance maintained only by strong bonds of desire between the two sexes is nowadays being swayed by a new trend - homosexuality. I believe that homosexuality is nothing more than a psychological mutation from a universal norm and should not be condoned. There is a higher purpose in the existense of two sexes: it is to ensure procreation will always remain possible. I will sum it up with one question: How is that purpose fulfilled by homosexuality..?
@MsRetro (249)
• United States
9 Feb 07
It's not a nw trend, and it's not limited to humans. Look it up.
• Australia
7 Feb 07
I agree in relation to the Bible says it's wrong. So yes it is wrong. If you are a christian you need to learn from Jesus. He accepted people and loved them, not their sin. If you descover your friend, child or whoever is gay you need to accept them for who they are and you don't have to like what they do. God says to love your enemy.
• Australia
7 Feb 07
I meant to ask. Did you have a experience once?
@MsRetro (249)
• United States
7 Feb 07
This may sound a little harsh, but: fine, don't accept it. Your words speak for themselves. The world is moving towards full acceptance of gays and lesbians without you. Just don't be surprised when people, in turn, decide that it is your attitude that is an insult to humanity.
• United States
8 Feb 07
Well said. Force
• Italy
6 Feb 07
Platone philosopher said: " The only true love was the love homosexual"
@canioo (140)
• Sweden
6 Feb 07
I am astonished that in the 2007 there are still persons whom believe that "the only true love was the love homosexual" just a joke ;-)
@Springlady (3986)
• United States
6 Feb 07
I don't accept it either because it is a sin. However, we are to still love the homosexual as Jesus taught us to love everyone. Just because we are not homosexual does not mean we are without sin. We are sinners too and need forgiveness just like everybody else. I don't accept that lifestyle at all...so I do agree with you on that. God bless.
@canioo (140)
• Sweden
6 Feb 07
thanks for your very nice respond
• India
7 Feb 07
I agree with u. But it is just a way of life. Have ever though why do people indulge in such things. My theory is a bit different. Opposite attract, what you see is the man is attracted to a man, but what i think is there so many men with a heart of a women, and so many women with heart of a man. Now the problem is when a person is attracted towards the women in the man, what u see is that the man is attracted towards the man, but he is attracted by the woman in that person. Yes physically there is no arrangement by nature for the man to man relationship, thats why it becomes ugly.
@dragutelu (216)
• Romania
7 Feb 07
me 2 but i accept lesbians
@chiyosan (30208)
• Philippines
7 Feb 07
i dont think it is really an insult, but keep an open mind and try to accept things that really exist. we are humans, and therefore not perfect. i am not for homosexuality too and i dont think they should have equal rights as man and woman if they want marriages and stuffs like that...
@cheerldr (594)
• Philippines
7 Feb 07
You cannot judge people as you dont want them to judge you, too. I cant see anything wrong with homosexuality. They're also humans, like you. Only those who are mentally incapacitated cannot understand why they are like that. Homosexuality is not a choice. They're born that way so we should all respect and understand it. And it doesn't insults humanity because we are all living our own lives, homosexuals or not, we should be respected.