vicky1

@vicky1 (240)

United States • Age 63

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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I feel bad. I started to delete some people.

ElusiveButterfly @ElusiveButterfly (45940) • United States 27 Apr 07

I only did a few that hadn't been on MyLot in a long time, or that stopped posting discussions, etc. Now I feel badly for doing it. I am better off just leaving the list the way it is. Many of my friends have been paring down...

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vicky1 You should not feel bad. I don't have that problem. I don't have a list of friends. But maybe things come up and people can't just get on. I know I have not been on the computer much for almost 2 mos. My brother passed and then we was moving and getting me dad...

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I have this friend....

SpitFire179 @SpitFire179 (2536) • Canada 20 Mar 07

She's got 2 beautiful baby boys, one's 1 and the other 2 and a half, and she's got another child on the way... She just found out not long ago. Anyway, here's what's going on... She married her husband when she was pregnant...

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vicky1 Verbal abuse is just as bad. She should not raise her kids like that. He works all day every day and only brings home 600 a month? So he is not helping with the kids and the house. He is not bringing home enough to live on. So she can't say she can't make it...

20 Mar 07

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My Son

susieq16 @susieq16 (68) • United States 11 Mar 07

My son is 18 and a senior in High School. His girlfriend is 17.She came here after he got off work yesterday and they went straight to his room.I asked him what he was thinking and he said we are not doing anything.Well his Dad...

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vicky1 You was right in doing this.He will get over it. But not only would I talk ti him I would also let his girlfriend know that she is only to be in the family room and no bedrooms.

11 Mar 07

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Ever Visited a Friend or Family Member in Prison?

ElusiveButterfly @ElusiveButterfly (45940) • United States 11 Mar 07

What is this experience like? Does it make you feel strange walking amongst people who have committed crimes. It feels a little odd for me. Yes, I have been to a prison to visit people. It is not something that I enjoy doing. The...

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vicky1 I have been there many times. My brother has chose to live his life locked up. I won't go see him any more. I won't allow my weekends to be tied up because he is always in jail.

11 Mar 07

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Why do people have to spoil things ?

weemam @weemam (13372) 7 Mar 07

I am so upset I had to write this discussion , Please do not feel you have to respond , I came home from a really lovely day out after celebrating my hubby's birthday , I had written a discussion about why we were celebrating Of...

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vicky1 Don't let it get to you. I don't know what post it is and I really don't have time to search for it. But here is my take on it. Some people get pleasure out of hurting other peoples feelings. It is because for the most part they are lonely and have no one. So...

7 Mar 07

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Dentists & dental work....how do you feel about it? Am I the only wimp?

applsofgld @applsofgld (2506) • United States 4 Mar 07

I haven't been to the dentist in about 6 years. I'm embarrassed to say that, but I am such a big wimp when it comes to the dentist. I am going to get my xrays and cleaning for starters. My hubby was in there last week for an...

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vicky1 I share the same feeling as you. My friend told me about her dentist and how good he was so I went. I did explain to the nurse and denist that I was terrified and that why I had not been to one. After he found out he was really good with me. So just let them...

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Is it wrong for me to be upset with my father?

Demonix @Demonix (294) • Canada 4 Mar 07

My father just got married yesterday to a woman I have had numerous problems with, he knows about the problems we've had and so he didn't invite me to his wedding. I was the only one in the family he didn't invite and I am rather...

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vicky1 I can see how your father felt that this would upset you. But on the other hand he needed to have a talk with both you and his wife and say look I love you both. This is my daughter and she is a part of my life. Get over it or hit the road. And to you it would...

5 Mar 07

people are cruel

sjohnson628 @sjohnson628 (3197) • United States 3 Mar 07

I came across this lady here on mylot today and she gave me a minus rating on one of my responses I made to a discussion. I know this because she told me. So I got pi$$ed off and gave her a minus rating back! I feel bad now...

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vicky1 It was wrong of her to do that. But really wrong of you. If you felt she did wrong which by the rules she did do wrong then it should of been reported. That is what this place is about. Telling what you think. And a person should be able to do that without...

3 Mar 07

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I love my pc but I'd rather have a laptop?

blueskies @blueskies (1186) • United States 27 Feb 07

I'm so torn over this. I love my pc. I like that it is in it's place on the desk in the corner of the dining room. I like the way the keyboard feels under my fingertips. All of my important pictures and information are stored in...

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vicky1 I have a pc. My son has a laptop and I get on it sometimes. I really don't care for it at all. He evan has a small mouse you can use but I still don't like it.

27 Feb 07

Am I over reacting?? What do you think?

smith21471 @smith21471 (80) • United States 27 Feb 07

Just yesterday, my husband and I got into an arguement. This is the situation. We were at the grocery store and (I might ad that I admit I am a slightly jealous person, when it comes to my husband looking at other girls) anyway,...

am i over reacting

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vicky1 Yes you are. Is there not a man that you smiled at and he smiled back? Giving a smile and evan saying hi how is it going is fine. Well any conversation really. Unles your husband has done something to you that you can't trust him.

27 Feb 07

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why does a girl not love their in-laws as they love there parents

niitesh @niitesh (1653) • India 25 Feb 07

hi everyone waws wondering about this question for quite sometime now so thought of sharing it with you people. most often then not i have seen that a girl can never adjust with their in-laws after marriage? why is that so...

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vicky1 I only got to meet my in-laws twice so I wouldn't know. I hope they would treat me as my parents do my husband. And I would treat them the same.

25 Feb 07

what is your opinion on giving money as gifts?

Sasselle @Sasselle (698) • Australia 25 Feb 07

I went to a lovely wedding yesterday and I guess it made me think about this. So I have two questions ... Do you find it rude if you are asked to give money as a gift? and Have you ever felt ripped off if you have given money...

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vicky1 I think it is rude to ask for money. I also think if I give money it really isn't any of my business what they use it for. It is a gift to them so they can spend it how they wish.

25 Feb 07

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Sick Of Hearing About Anna Nicole!

candygurl24 @candygurl24 (1880) • Canada 20 Feb 07

Ok, yes, this is a rant, but a mild one. I'm severely sick of turning on the TV, radio or just being on the net and seeing stories about Anna Nicole Smith or Howard K. Stern. It's just getting really old, really fast. And let's...

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vicky1 The sad thing is that a lot of people are drawn into it. I will admit I turn the channel to see what is going on in court. It is sad no matter the kind of person she was she still should be able to be layed to rest. I think the mom needs to be able to have her...

20 Feb 07

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Do You Wear Your Shoes Indoors?

ItTakesAllSorts @ItTakesAllSorts (4096) 19 Feb 07

I know the Japanese custom is to take their shoes off at the door and to me this is a wise thing to do. I have read you can bring a certain amount of lead into your home by wearing your shoes indoors. Do you do this or are you...

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vicky1 We take our shoes off because of the carpet. But I would never ask anyone that came over to take off thier shoes. When people come over I want them to feel comfortable. And if they take them off on thier own thats fine.

20 Feb 07

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Would you do this to your kid?

soccermom @soccermom (3198) • United States 19 Feb 07

We have friends that have an 18 year old daughter. She's a decent kid and they have always set standards very high for her. When she turned 18 they made it clear to her that as long as she lived under their roof she would abide by...

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vicky1 You know I always say my house my rules. If you don't like them you can leave. But at the same time he was a little hard.I am sure he is not very happy his 18 year old is sleeping around.

20 Feb 07

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