I wonder if any of you,married couple, regreted being married at all?

@mayenskie (1308)
Philippines
February 10, 2007 12:04am CST
I want to know if given a chance would you still marry the person you have right now? I just want to know if marriage is a good thing. hope you will share with me your views and opinions. Thanks.:))
4 people like this
12 responses
10 Feb 07
I'm married and i've never regret it. How many young people will say this? i'm totally in love with my wife and i wouldn't of asked her to if i would reget it. i knew fully in my heart that i wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. (i honestly wouldn't have this any other way) I love her with my heart and we're not just man and wife but best friends too. Kudos. ~Joey
@mayenskie (1308)
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
Finally, I got a response from the husband's point of view. Really glad you found the love of your life. May your marriage prosper as the year goes by. Thanks and have a wonderful married life!:))
1 person likes this
10 Feb 07
If you had asked me this question three years ago, I would've said I had regrets. Now, I have no regrets. I'm really glad I stuck it out. We have problems, but we work through them pretty well..now. I am happier now than I was before we got married...strange huh?
2 people like this
@LittleMel (14036)
• Canada
10 Feb 07
Not yet LOL I feel like knowing better and closer each time I love him so much and he loves me so. We face a lot of problems together I am so lucky to have met and married my soulmate.
2 people like this
@mayenskie (1308)
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
May I know how many years have you been married? I'm curious, how can one know that this certain person is your soulmate?:)) I'm glad that you are happy with your married life.
1 person likes this
17 Mar 07
Im not married and after seeing your picture im glad im not ;p lol are you available honey?
1 person likes this
@mayenskie (1308)
• Philippines
17 Mar 07
ohh you got a cute little santa there =)
@weemam (13377)
10 Mar 07
we met when I was 16 he was 18 we married when I was 18 we have ben married now for 45 years , we have 3 sons and 4 eautiful grandchildren my hubby went through a triple heart bypass last august and we thought we had lost him, so the answer is yes I would do it again tomorrow , xx
1 person likes this
@mayenskie (1308)
• Philippines
12 Mar 07
I admire the relationship you have with your hubby. Having been together for most of your life, you still feel strongly towards him. Some marriage turns platonic already after 5 years or so, which is sad. Its nice that the two of you grow old together, i hope he would still have many many years to spend with your family.
• United States
10 Feb 07
I've never been married but I have lived with 3 guys in my lifetime. One for 4 years, one for 6 years and one for 2 years. The only time I regret living with one is my 6 year relationship. It wasn't really ideal because we fell in love really fast. I thought I really knew him but I didn't. We eloped and I found out later that he was married but separated. And he wasn't supporting his child with that marriage. That is such a bad sign but because I was in love with him blindly, I let my heart lead me. I should have used my head a little bit at least. He's always been irresponsible and after 6 years he started to cheat on me and that's when I let him go. He doesn't support our kids much, it would be a miracle to get anything from him. I think if you are ever to marry, so that you won't regret anything. Make sure you marry for the right reasons. Get to know the person well and that will take a lot of time. Learn about his family and ask your heart and your head if this is the person for you. Bad things may happen but because of everything that's involved in your relationship, I'm sure you won't regret everything just for a thing or two that's bad.
@mayenskie (1308)
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
Wow, you've been in a whirlwind of relationships. Indeed, you are a survivor to have surpassed the trials in your life. It seems that nowadays husbands are becoming more and more irresponsible. Thank you so much for sharing your story. Hope you are not afraid to love again. So much thanks for all that you've shared.:))
1 person likes this
@wmg2006 (5383)
• United States
10 Feb 07
Well since I am divorced the answer would be no. I would never marry anyone like him again. I will probably never even consider marriage again. I will always just have a partner. It is a lot easier and there are no laws governing us. I did not being married at all. I like relationships, but I also like my freedom. It is a great thing if you are willing to share everything and compromise on everything. I wasn't willing to give up my independance and share so much.
1 person likes this
@mayenskie (1308)
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
You are one independent woman! Thank you for sharing your view.:))
1 person likes this
@mssnow (9493)
• United States
10 Feb 07
I would marry my husband again basically so I could have my children. I would have to give thema life so they can continue on the generations. As far as being with him. I probably would not have wanted to be with him if I didnt have my children.
1 person likes this
@mayenskie (1308)
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
I may not know what you are going through in your married life but, I salute you for the love that you are giving to your children. You are one great mom.:))
1 person likes this
• United States
10 Feb 07
I dont regret marriage at all. marriage isnt easy but it takes mutual love and respect and dedication to make it work. There are times you get mad and want alone time but marriage is something very beautiful, it takes hard work, but to me is worth the effort! Hope this helps!
1 person likes this
@mayenskie (1308)
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
Its a big help. Thank you for sharing your view. I'm still single but, every girls dream would be to settle down with their prince charming someday. You inspired me.:))
1 person likes this
@sandie61 (2359)
• United States
11 Feb 07
yes I would. my husband is kind, thoughtful, loving. I wish I had met him years ago. this is my 2nd marriage.
@moreinfo (3866)
• China
10 Feb 07
hehe, marriage is a contract. like in doing anything, dont regret, but always move on.
1 person likes this
• United States
10 Feb 07
I have been married for 16 years (to the same man) and no, it's not always been pleasant. There have been some pretty rough times but there have been even more really nice times. For me to think about going through some of the difficult things I have went through with anyone else just wouldn't seem right. And for me to enjoy some of life's wonderful experiences with anyone else, I just can't imagine. I can tell my husband anything and he can tell me too. He is indeed my best friend. I love my husband very much and we have two wonderful kids. Yes, I would marry him over and over. :)
1 person likes this