I dont love her anymore ...

India
February 11, 2007 10:24pm CST
i n my girlfrnd r together since past 2 years...lately i dont feel the same spark with her anymore ...wat should i do ?? should i tell her ???
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11 responses
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
Definitely.. You should tell her what your going through. Dont hesitate cause she deserves to know it. Dont mind it if she would get mad or if your going to hurt her. It best for the two of you to talk about it. Hope this helps. =)
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• United States
12 Feb 07
Well, if you don't want to be with her anymore you should tell her. Do you like this feeling or do you not want it to end? If you don't want to lose it then you need to do something about it. Be honest with her.
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@anjoks (2080)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
Your girlfriend deserves that, don't you think? Its very unfair on her part not knowing your true feelings now towards her. What are you waiting for? Go tell her now. Goodluck. :]
@Gwapako_28 (2140)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
Yes!In relationship, you need to be honest and real.She has all the right to know what you feel.Dont pretend and hide even the feeling is not the same as before!Be true and express yourself.
• India
12 Feb 07
i think u shoul atleast talk to to ...try sought out wat is wrong .giv it another shot.
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• United States
12 Feb 07
definatley tell her its not fair to her to stay in the relationship when you dont care as much as you used to. You obviously arent meant to be and its better that you find out now then later
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@mashimaro (1094)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
You should frank her, it's unfair to her that you know that you don't love her anymore. Don't wait until she will know that to others, you'll better say it..I know it can hurt her but no matter how you say it..it hurts.
@peni88 (469)
• United States
12 Feb 07
do you still love her, in love with her? talk to her about it. maybe she still loves you. if you can talk it out, see if you can find a way to get the spark back in your relationship. see if it can be saved. youve been with her for 2 years, thats alot of time invested for both of you. good luck:). i wish you well.
• China
12 Feb 07
why dont you be frank with her,call her sit her down and tell her what you feel maybe she feels thesame way too for you,try to talk things over peacefully
@earth2jacq (1502)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
Perhaps there is a rut in your relationship because you do the same things everyday. Try to learn new activities together. If this doesn't work out, ask yourself if you need space to think things over. If you don't like to be with her anymore then tell her. Don't stick with her just because you are called the "boyfriend". It will be unfair for her if you are still a couple when deep inside you you don't want to be anymore. It hurts but as always honesty is the best in any relationship.
• United States
12 Feb 07
I think it's best you guys sit down and talk about it. If you have tried everything before, and you've finally realized that there's no reason to go on with the relationship, it would save her more pain if you would tell her ahead of time. I do believe this will serve your best interests, you and your girlfriend.