any advice how to be fixing my mind and not jump and run from problems?

i have been running endlessly and ending up the sa - its a sad thng and im confuse now.. dont know what to do,..
Philippines
February 17, 2007 11:16am CST
im the most unstable girl so far.. a little argument wth my boyfriend i go and pack up my things and leave the house.. when time comes he came looking and he'll talk it over then my heart goes back again, a little indifference i am easily hurt and so unstable much of my emotion.. i dont know how to deal with this... but i am honestly not this way when i wasnt involve in any relationship before.. for 5 years im still like a new seed trying to mend things and is still so uncertain to be fixed and glad in one place, i kept on running... i do love him so much but the opposite side of us makes me decide this fast and swift which is wrong.. any help...
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@joven222 (84)
• Philippines
18 Feb 07
Hi, There are many things to deal with these kinds of arguments and you dont need to run from it. How can it be solved if you run away? Arguments should be dealt well. you need to talk it over. it is good for now that he is the one who is looking for you, but when the time comes that he would be very tired of doing this, that would be a big problem. you should also do your part in your mutual relationship. remember that you can really contribute for the good of your relationship. As you have said, you do love him. So stick with that love and you will never loss.
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• Philippines
18 Feb 07
thanks .. im glad you gave me such an advice..
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@msqtech (15074)
• United States
21 Mar 07
I think she doesnt know herself so she cant know if she loves
• United States
17 Feb 07
Just control ur emotions if u kno u really love him and need him stay dont have him going out looking for u and then u make up and move all ur stuff back in it makes no since to me and it shouldnt to u so just stay if u kno its a lil fight then just do u
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• Philippines
17 Feb 07
im a bit twisted with your response.. but thanks..
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@msqtech (15074)
• United States
21 Mar 07
I think we must love ourselves first to be able to truly love another. You dont sound ready