Leaving your spouse or partner

Philippines
February 19, 2007 9:41pm CST
What is one thing your spouse/partner can do that will make you (want to) leave him/her?
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14 responses
@ajinomoto23 (1057)
• Philippines
20 Feb 07
Infidelity, violence, abuse, lack of financial support.
@jammyt (2822)
• Philippines
20 Feb 07
Hi Cez!! This is hard huh! I guess when he makes me and our child feel really unloved. The type that no matter what he do, there is no more respect. Infidelity also, maybe. Oh and if he physically hurts me or our child.
@SexyMhei (153)
• Philippines
20 Feb 07
I think I could forgive him anything he do because I love him so much, except for two things; physical/emotional abuse and cheating. I wouldn't accept beating nor emotional degradation from anyone, and definitely not even from my husband even if I love him. Fortunately my hubby is the sweetest thing I could ever find, and very understanding too. The second, I'm a very possesive person and I wouldn't share him with another woman. Its all or nothing for me when it comes to love. But ofcourse I wouldn't give him up easily without a fight. How about you?
@clod0327 (817)
• Philippines
20 Feb 07
One thing that would make me want to leave my husband is if he become disloyal to me and started to have girls on the side. I think trust is really important in a relationship, and so if he breaks my trust, it would be difficult to regain it back.
@nicesky (217)
• China
20 Feb 07
i think if he really don't care about our family no longer,love others,i will leave
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@essilem (286)
• Philippines
22 Feb 07
There are only three things that can make me leave my husband. It's if he becomes unfaithful, lay a hand om me or my children and if he is emotionally inflicting trauma to our children. Money matters is not an issue for me, we can exist even without financial stability, our love will pull as through. Money is very material and that is something i do not consider reason enough to break our marriage and destroy our family.
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• Philippines
22 Feb 07
i think the only reason i'd leave my husband is when he will lose his respect for me. because i believe that when that happens, the vows that we shared during our wedding will be useless. by then, he'd be capable of hurting me, in many different ways.
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@bikaner (58)
• India
20 Feb 07
My daughter in law, after living with us for nearly three years left for her father's house some 20 months back & has not returned back. No problem/reason has been intimated to us. Communication completely closed by them. Can any one define what it is.
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• Philippines
20 Feb 07
there are certain things which my spouse or partner in life can do that will make me want to leave him for good no matter how much i love him and those things would be, 1) hooking up with another girl behind my back. yes, it's a common ground, but it really is something to me that you gotta be honest in the relationship and i just can't stand guys that are such liars. 2) becoming physically abusive. while most women think that it's just a guy's nature to be dominantly strong, i think that it is but right to keep their physical dominance in a low profile and not use that in their advantage and for physical abuse.
@ethanmama (1746)
• Philippines
22 Feb 07
I don't really think of that, because I planned to stay with my husband for life when we got married. But probably infidelity and physical abuse would make me want to leave him. I hope that never happens though.
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• Philippines
21 Feb 07
I would probably leave them if they dont love me anymore or if he has an affair. I came from a broken family where my dad cheated so I wouldnt want to be with a guy who would do the same to me.
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@im_anna (718)
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
if he hurts me or my children physically & emotionally, infidelity, no respect
@latq901 (21)
• Philippines
29 Mar 07
Hmmm.. that's a pretty tough question. Well, I guess... nothing and no one. We'll just try to work it out. ...talk about martyrdom.
@latq901 (21)
• Philippines
29 Mar 07
Hmmmm.... that's a pretty tough question.. I guess, nothing and no one. We'll just try to work it out. ...talk about martrydom.