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littlefranciscan @littlefranciscan (18327) • United States 3 Jul 07

Do you have days that your spend extra time on your job..so much so you dream about it? If so are the dream realistic or completely off the wall?

dreams

employment

stress

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SexyMhei There are times when I was too busy and preoccupied with my work that I even dream about it. Some are realistic, as if it was a continuation of the scene from the office. But there are times also that my dreams are completely off the wall. Like one time we...

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SexyMhei @SexyMhei (152) • Philippines 3 Jul 07

I read somewhere that dreams are like messages. There is something that our psychological being wanted to tell us. Others even say that God sometimes talk to us through dreams. And there are instances that when you're in a...

dreams

meaning and interpretation

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ctv101103 @ctv101103 (859) • Philippines 3 Jul 07

I posted a few months ago about playing the good cop/bad cop roles in disciplining a child -- http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1008749.aspx I've talked with my husband about this and we agreed that we both should have an...

discipline

making toddler understand

parenting

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SexyMhei Hi dear I believe you do your role well. You have said that you have talked about the good cop/bad cop role to your husband. I guess its about time that you insist to your husband to cooperate, unless ofcourse he really like to "spoil" your daughter because...

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jennybianca @jennybianca (12912) • Australia 29 Apr 07

I am interested in the concept of families from around the world, the different cultures, & what they beleive makes up a family? Does your family include numerous children? Did your grandparents live with you as a cild? Did you...

families

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SexyMhei Hi jennybianca! I'm from the Philippines, and in our country it's common to have an extended family, meaning, aside from the nuclear family, the grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins and other relatives live with one family. Before I got married, I live with my...

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SexyMhei @SexyMhei (152) • Philippines 30 Apr 07

Hi everybody! I've been too busy these last few weeks that I was not able to post or comment on anything for two reasons; I have to cope up with deadlines at work plus a we just had a new baby. And I want to share my joy to my...

babies

family

infant formula

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SexyMhei @SexyMhei (152) • Philippines 30 Apr 07

Hi everybody! I've been too busy these last few weeks that I was not able to post or comment on anything for two reasons; I have to cope up with deadlines at work plus a we just had a new baby. And I want to share my joy to my...

infant formula

family

vega83 @vega83 (6342) • Bahrain 29 Apr 07

Has anyone ever told you to not express yourself or to dumb it down a little so that you don't come across as too confrontational or even rude? I have been told that. And trust me, it's not so good. I don't see why I have to be...

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SexyMhei Hello Vega, there's nothing wrong with speaking your mind specially if you believe you're right. But there is a big difference with speaking your mind and being downright rude. First, you can express your opinion without making those around you feels like an...

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totalearnings @totalearnings (1603) • India 29 Apr 07

To err is human. I presume we all do mistakes and also see others doing mistakes. Even I do mistakes sometimes not serious or intentionally though and I want to be forgiven as I feel we learn much from the experiences and...

forgiveness

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SexyMhei I am a person who easily forgive, but sometimes I am hard on myself. There were times that it was easier for me to forgive others but can't bring to forgive myself for my past mistakes, serious or not. It took me a long time to learn that I need to forgive...

29 Apr 07

pangeacat @pangeacat (619) • United States 30 Mar 07

Perhaps love and hate are to strong to describe your feelings towards people in general. Like/dislike will do fine. Is there anything about people (certain trait, quirks, abilities, etc.) that you love? Likewise, is there...

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SexyMhei Generally, I am an open minded person. I usually find something good or nice in every person I met. But there are people who sometimes irked us, sometimes it is even illogical. Frankly speaking, I don't like liars and pretentious people. I also dislike person...

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carolmil123 @carolmil123 (115) • United States 7 Mar 07

I had a lot of pain while he was sneaking around with this younger woman. She used to call me and demand that I give him a divorce. I told her she was welcome to him and I gave him the divorce. After less than a year, he is back...

relationships

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SexyMhei If you still love him and can find it in your heart to forgive him, then accept him. The baby is innocent, so if you can take care of him/her like your own, and thinks you won't put any blame on the baby for what his/her mother has done, then go for it. It...

8 Mar 07

tangible @tangible (60) • United States 28 Feb 07

Over the past few weeks we have had a lot of family and friends from all over come to see the new baby, call to catch up, and so on. A good deal of my wife's side are Christians - or claim to be. They rattle off about things like...

christianity

relgion

wicca

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SexyMhei I am a Christian, and I am sad to learn that mostly the "christians" you know appear fearful and condemning to you. I believe Christianity is not about fear, it is about love, God's love for us. I don't understand why some of us should be rude with each other...

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Gabs @gabs8513 (48686) • United Kingdom 28 Feb 07

Ok in my last couple of Discussions I have made you all cry by showing you Gissi's Story. Well today a dear Friend has managed to roll the Tears down my Cheeks. I spoke to this Gentleman tonight as he was helping me doing...

tears

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SexyMhei Good day Gabs, I'm so blessed ith your post, very few are thankful for the blessings they got, especialy in your condition. I don't know how sick you are physically, but compare to others you are healthier than most of us. You have such strong spirit and...

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amsreya16 @amsreya16 (3) • India 25 Feb 07

its obvious to make mistakes as we all are humans...but its very difficult to have a heart to forgive those who have hurt us in any way,and very tough to forget those incidents too.....and at times we wait for chances to take...

change the world

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SexyMhei I agree with you, it is hard to forget. Though you can forgive, forgetting gets tougher than most can imagine. But everytime I feel those emotions, I always recall to mind one true story I have read. It's about the missionary couple who went in another country...

25 Feb 07

SexyMhei @SexyMhei (152) • Philippines 20 Feb 07

I wanted to know if even using birth control pills regularly, one can still get pregnant? I'm on pills because my OB told us that we should still wait for another year or two before we plan on having another child. But there are...

birth control

family planning

pills

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SexyMhei I lost my first child in 2005 too, I undergo ceasarean operation because they are trying to save the baby, but she didn't make it. That's why the OB advised that we should wait for a year or two more, to ensure that I have healed completely, physically and...

21 Feb 07

SexyMhei @SexyMhei (152) • Philippines 20 Feb 07

I wanted to know if even using birth control pills regularly, one can still get pregnant? I'm on pills because my OB told us that we should still wait for another year or two before we plan on having another child. But there are...

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SexyMhei I lost my first child in 2005 too, I undergo ceasarean operation because they are trying to save the baby, but she didn't make it. That's why the OB advised that we should wait for a year or two more, to ensure that I have healed completely, physically and...

21 Feb 07

SexyMhei @SexyMhei (152) • Philippines 20 Feb 07

I wanted to know if even using birth control pills regularly, one can still get pregnant? I'm on pills because my OB told us that we should still wait for another year or two before we plan on having another child. But there are...

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SexyMhei I don't have much faith with over the counter pregnancy test kit. During my 1st preganancy, I used one, it turned out negative, but a few days after, another test showed that I was.Could you recommend a more reliable brand?

21 Feb 07

SexyMhei @SexyMhei (152) • Philippines 20 Feb 07

I wanted to know if even using birth control pills regularly, one can still get pregnant? I'm on pills because my OB told us that we should still wait for another year or two before we plan on having another child. But there are...

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SexyMhei I had a history of gastritis and last November it started recurring so I went into medication. lately. my stomach doesn't seem to function properly again. During my last visit to the doctor, she did asked me if I am pregnant, but based on my last menstrual...

21 Feb 07

SexyMhei @SexyMhei (152) • Philippines 20 Feb 07

I wanted to know if even using birth control pills regularly, one can still get pregnant? I'm on pills because my OB told us that we should still wait for another year or two before we plan on having another child. But there are...

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SexyMhei I have been on pills for almost two years now. Previously I don't feel other side effects, asdie from terrible headcahe before my period. My menstrual cycle comes on daily basis, my last was last Feb. 4. so my next will be on the 4th of March. One thing more,...

21 Feb 07

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