have you changed negative attitudes or humble yourself because of love?

Philippines
February 24, 2007 8:11am CST
yes i did, and it was so difficult, its not easy at first, but because of love, i learn to change into a person which is not a usual me, but a healthy way to be.. like, i was so impatient and a bit blatant, but since i have my beloved, he taught me to change those ways.. and slowly i am.. what about you? any changes? will you or rather not? what are those and is it difficult?
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@SimplyJo (1694)
• India
24 Feb 07
Well to be very frank, i never used to think i can change for anyone - and the one who truely loves me will just expect me for who i am. Many of my ex-bf's tried to change me, with no luck. But.. my current bf - he's such a darling - he just loved and loved with no expectation in return - he hated my bad habits but never complained/asked me to stop - THIS made me quit ! i'm such a better person now, thanks to him. love can really change you. Ps - thanks for such a great topic.
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• Philippines
24 Feb 07
thanks for sharing this.. im so glad, and i gave you both plus.
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@msqtech (15073)
• United States
28 Mar 07
if you truly love then you share and become an equal
@hfadzli (439)
• Malaysia
24 Feb 07
Yes i did! it was not easy though. i have to change step by step but it works. Im glad i did it for my love one. i used to be a high temper person. slowly slowly my wife change me to be a better person. the same thing goes to her as i make her change slowly by slowly as she used to love talk loud. i dont like so i ask her to change the good way. and she did it to. so love can make u change for the better for your love one. cheers
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• Philippines
24 Feb 07
plus for you.
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@msqtech (15073)
• United States
28 Mar 07
I think that when you care for a dying spouse your main goal is your love and that all your attitudes change. I also think that to humble yourself in the face of this is natural and good.