Mylotters I need you help !!

@marciascott (25550)
United States
February 24, 2007 9:11am CST
Pending friends request I have a 10 friends that I request to be friends with. so it says If person's picture appears they deny you or want to to be friends how do you know, if they deny you? they might be a stupid question but I can't figure this thing out. can anyone shed light on this topic? the pictures are still there then it has delete shall I delete or what. I don't know. Maybe some one else doens't understand either. so this would be a good time for everyone to know who doesn't know. have a good day!!
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7 responses
• United States
25 Feb 07
I check all my pending friends out, before accepting them. I am looking for people that I can discuss a nice topic with, and that communicate good in English. If not acceptable, I delete.
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@marciascott (25550)
• United States
25 Feb 07
I do that too, I have turn a few down because of age like 16 yrs. old. there is nothing for us to talk about. +
• Australia
25 Feb 07
I know when the friend request added me once I see him/her of course in my friends lists after requesting a friend request. You will know that he/she didn't accept your friend request when you see under his name....ADD FRIEND again. It should be SEND MESSAGE if he added you already. Well, tip is try to see the last time he logs in and if under his picture it still say ADD FRIEND then he didn't add you. I hope that helps.
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@marciascott (25550)
• United States
25 Feb 07
Ok, I unnderstand now! +
• United States
24 Feb 07
Great question, I never thought about that only assuming that those I asked to be their friend has approved me, especially since I have so many friends at myLot. I guess one day I should weed through the ones that don't respond or I don't join in their conversations. Have a great day Marcia
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@marciascott (25550)
• United States
25 Feb 07
You too Sweet-heart! +
@stephcjh (32303)
• United States
24 Feb 07
I have alot of pending friend requests too. Some of the people haven't been back to mylot for a long time, so I don't think they know they have a request from me in their mylot account. I'm not sure how to tell if they deny us. I would probably delete if if they are no longer active or want your friendship.
@marciascott (25550)
• United States
24 Feb 07
Ok, I guess I will delete them, because I guess if the didn't deny I would not see there picture, it is still confusing I will just delete I have enough friends anyway. thank for you input.
• India
26 Feb 07
I wait for few days for getting approvals from friends whom I have sent request. If I am not approved within 6-7 days then I simply delete it from my pending request list. If others have sent me request to be a friend I approve them. Only I deny is the photo having adult nature. I do not want to keep such photo in my friends list. It does not suit me.
@tmnjyk (3486)
• Canada
26 Feb 07
I can only tell when the person accepts my friend request when it showed just below her/his picture SEND MESSAGE instead of ADD FRIEND again. I accept everyone who asks friend request on me. I don't mind accepting all of them heheh.
@lols189 (4797)
25 Feb 07
i give people 5 days to accept or deny my friend request and if its still pending after the 5 days i just delete it