when you are ANGRY, how HURTFUL can your WORDS be?
By recidivist20
@recidivist20 (348)
Philippines
March 2, 2007 2:16am CST
how do you handle your anger? some people just speak their mind in the heat of anger saying that's the way for them to let off steam. after shouting, probably, they'd feel better and their anger disappears faster compared to when they keep quiet. but then, just allowing yourself to just say what's on your mind when you are so angry can make you say mean things that later on you might want to take back.
has this happened to you before? how much did you regret the things you've said to someone in the heat of anger? or how about cursing so much when you're angry?
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@SirLeandenor7 (79)
• Philippines
2 Mar 07
It depends on the situation. But when I do start flinging words at the person I start talking in English (I'm in the Philippines) and use sarcastic remarks and veiled insults at the person.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
2 Mar 07
When I get mad or angry the words will just flow freely. I don't cuss very often, nor do I use very foul language in my home. Once I get mad though, I start cussing like a sailor. alot of people around me talk like that every day, but I will only use those choice words when I am mad. When I start cussing, everyone around me knows to back off because they will then know that I am truly mad. I'm not proud of it, but that is what happens.
@SpitFire179 (2536)
• Canada
2 Mar 07
Usually when i get mad how i really feel comes out, but at the same time, i rarely keep anything inside, because it's just not good for your overall health.
When something comes out, it's what i meant to say, regardless of what may happen, i said it, there, it's out in the open, and the other person can take it as they may.
I know that it can cause rifts and what not, but the thing is, silence is the most deadly weapon. At least in my eyes. If i didn't say what was on my mind, i would be a bitter little witch right now, and living a totally unhealthy life. That's not what i want.
Also, i don't regret anything, everything i do has a purpose and a reason, i look back and know that everyting i have ever done, and everything that i will ever do makes me who i am and will be. Making me who i am, which is the best part about me!
I curse all the time, happy, angry, thrilled, sad, it doesn't matter to me. So that one can't apply.
