Does your spouse belittle you ?
3 Mar 07
Hmmm, actually my wife does and it doe s not make the relationship any better. The usual response is that she is doing it to better me and I should noy be hurt by it. After all I do deserve to hear all the words thrown at me. How do I respond? Well by withdrawing from the relationship. No need to say anything discuss anything or try to do anything because I will be put down anyway. And the children? They are slowly learning to show the same behavior towards me. Not yet leaving? Well I am and would not wait if I were you unless your partner understand and recognizes the destructive behavior. Then you might have a small change for improvement otherwise I woul run like the wind.