rapunsel

@rapunsel (7)

Netherlands • Age 55

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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Men Can Suffer Emotional And Mental Abuse Too

Brian @wolfie34 (26770) • United Kingdom 27 Feb 07

When people talk about being in an abusive relationships, it's nearly always women. That it's always the woman receiving the abuse, whether it's physical, mental or emotional but it's not. Men can suffer from mental abuse...

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rapunsel I wholeheartedly agree with you it does happen to men and the trapped feeling is all to familiar. Add to that the unbelieve that you partner can treat you like this and stays cold to your pleas not to do the things that hurt you so much. I do not know about...

3 Mar 07

Does your spouse belittle you ?

ompower @ompower (65) • India 2 Mar 07

When your spouse never seems to appreciate you. When your spouse belittles even your major achievements. How do you respond ?

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rapunsel Hmmm, actually my wife does and it doe s not make the relationship any better. The usual response is that she is doing it to better me and I should noy be hurt by it. After all I do deserve to hear all the words thrown at me. How do I respond? Well by...

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How old were you as a kid when you had your first alcoholic drink?

hockeygal4ever @hockeygal4ever (10021) • United States 2 Mar 07

I'm not asking to see who's 'the coolest" or anything like that. I'm curious as a mother of 3 teens. I know I drank at an early stage, simply because at 14 I was being mistaken as a 20 something. I used to actually buy booze for...

under age drinking

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rapunsel I not sure about the exact age but I must have been pretty young, perhaps 10-12. Attending official dinner qand events we always had the option of drinking wine or sticking with apple or grape juice. Of course at that age we drank what we liked and the...

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Do you think the child should stay with her or him?

athenag33158 @athenag33158 (6) • United States 21 Feb 07

Okay now the two of them are going to let each other go but her kids will stay with her older kids most of them are gone anyways, and his is only a baby he is 15 almost16 months old and he only has been around her all his life. He...

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rapunsel Hard question really but indeed in general I would say the 'real' parent. But here, if I understand it well, the step child has been with the step mother all his life? In that case I would say the bond between the step mother and child are as strong as they...

21 Feb 07

Is your husband invading your privacy?

filchi @filchi (291) • Netherlands 21 Feb 07

Does he has access to your mails? Even here on my lot? For me it doesnt matter as long as i am honest of what i am saying here, besides i only want to read other people opinions to know which one should i have to do, and this is a...

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rapunsel I wonder how you see looking at what you write here as an invasion of privacy? After all, and you stated this correctly, this is a public forum. I might be wrong but publicly discussing another person on a public forum as you seem to do here with you husband...

21 Feb 07

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