hurt

hurt - bleeding
Philippines
March 7, 2007 1:33pm CST
I found myself in love and after few weeks find myself out of it. This experience left me with pain and scar.. Is it worth it?
7 responses
@cassidy22 (2974)
• United States
7 Mar 07
Of course it is. Every relationship FAILS except for ONE. You need to go through this for a few reasons. First, you LEARN from your mistakes, and from your past. You LEARN from the hurt, it helps you make better choices in the future. Secondly, without a little bit of pain and disappointment, you can never fully appreciate true love once you have found it.
• India
8 Mar 07
cassidy i think u hv written a thesis on love...thts why u gv such a brilliant comment..
• India
8 Mar 07
hi firefly..this is rohit..answer for ur question is yes...love is worthless..i hv also been in love..but my partner wasn`t hvng ne such feelings for me..but i was in deeply lve wth her..she stopped even talking wth me whn she got to know tht i love her.....i was pset from life tht i decided to die even for her..but miraciously a girl named sakshi saved me from it..she use to love me but never told me.but after seeing my situation..she proposed me..i realised wht mistakes i had made..wht it feels like whn ur love betrays u...so decided to be wth her..forever...............wht u hv done is perfectly alright..i mean its awesome u found true love...let me tell u my philosophy abt love....love happens three times....1st whn she loves u.....2nd whn he loves....nd 3rd whn both loves each other..nd ths is wht i call true love
@rsa101 (37952)
• Philippines
8 Mar 07
There's a saying that states "No Pain, No Gain". I guess you just had that. Instead of taking it negatively over that short lived relationship you had, why not consider it a lesson learned and things you have to avoid in your next journey to discover what love is. You will see more experience more and even hurt more. Learn from those and avoid those that has hurt you. In time, you'll be able to find the one that suits your needs. It may not be the perfect but you'll know it is the one your looking for. Don't despair there'll be more to come. Expect not only the good things but also the bad ones and they are the ones that will guide you to find the more suitable partner for you. Don't give up hope nor despiar over it.
@vityota (878)
• India
7 Mar 07
love is worth the paid and hurt if it is true love.. because if the love is true than one day love gets united again
@gianena (256)
• Philippines
8 Mar 07
Hi... That's okay... That's how love works... I know it's painful and sad at first but you have to accept reality. It's kinda harsh and cruel but don't despair; you'll be okay in no time. I've been hurt a lot of times but after all that stuff, I'm still alive and kicking. Just be positive about life and love. Love is really a cycle... You fall inlove but if it doesn't work out with your partner, you break up and then comes sadness then denial. After that comes letting go and moving on then you fall inlove again until you meet the right person for you. There's always a rainbow after a rain... Don't be too hard on yourself... Enjoy life...;)
• Romania
8 Mar 07
you know better, from mistakes you learn. so take care of your self
• Philippines
7 Mar 07
You mean after few weeks you fell in love, you found it that you're already fallen out of love? Well, first of all, I don't think it could have been love because love is supposed to last longer, not for only a few weeks. But well, everything is a learning experience, friend! So, just learn from your past. Keep on going again...and soon you'll find the right person for you. :)