do you believe in destiny?

Philippines
March 11, 2007 4:12am CST
there's no guarantee if the one you have now is the one you'll be with for the rest of your life. there's even no guarantee if the one you just met is the one who will love you forever. because there's no such thing as the ideal man or woman. no such thing as right person or the right one. it is us who can make love to last a lifetime. i want to know if you believe in this or not. do you really believe in destiny or is it us who make our own destiny?
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@jhoanee (598)
• Philippines
12 Mar 07
one thing i can say about destiny is its not a matter of chance, its a matter of choice. its not something to be waited for, its something to achieved. so if you want to be with the one you love you should act on it and not wait till when it happen. we cant find right person its us who make them right for us. i do believe in true love and once you found hold take care of it.
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
very well said!=)
@Hayley_N (525)
• Argentina
24 Jul 08
No, I don't believe in destiny. And, no, I don't think that everything happens for a reason. It is just human nature to want to be able to explain everything. So, for most people, when they are stuck they fall back to "everything happens for a reason (but I just don't understand it)". This is a phenomenon very similar to "God of the gaps". I am content with accepting that I simply cannot explain some unexplainable events. No reason nor God is required behind them.
@jurekz (360)
• Indonesia
12 Mar 07
That some/all of the things in your life were just meant to happen. That it wouldn’t matter if you left your home 10 minutes earlier, you’d still run into that very person on the street. That no matter how many failed relationships you have, the One is going to work. That your free will is just an illusion?
@romulo (22)
• Philippines
12 Mar 07
i dont belive in destiny because you are the one making the choice of whom you will join in live. if you will choose anything you must suffered for the consequence of the outcome of your decision
@hatim552 (24)
• Sri Lanka
12 Mar 07
yeah i belive in destiny..but we need to select the correct paths to get to our destiny..
• India
12 Mar 07
yes i believe in money
@nandans (1160)
• India
12 Mar 07
I do believe in destiny but yes keeping faith in yourself you can start make your own destiny.. Good Luck
@ichurn (611)
• Philippines
12 Mar 07
Yes, I believe in destiny. The thing that is striking is that we don't know what is our destiny so we still make our choices in life. We make our own life story. Though, there is already been a story made for us. The moment we are creating it, we are not aware that we are creating that has already been written.
@bindishah (2062)
• India
12 Mar 07
I do believe that we make our own destiny. But then sometimes life just takes the decisions out of our hands and we have to flow with whatever it deals us.
@vanities (11397)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Mar 07
well i believ that we are the one whose making our destiny no one else..its what we done today which will affest our future..
• United States
12 Mar 07
i really beleive in desting. no person has his life in his own hands all depends on his destiny. some people say there is no such thing as destiny. but thay dont know that the way they tnink and the things they do in life is what all the desting has decided for them. the life is precious and peopple say that they can change destiny, they cannot change destiny but the destiny has decided for them to think so.
@soriano (112)
• Philippines
12 Mar 07
oh yes, i believe in destiny, but i believe also that its us who make them.
• Romania
12 Mar 07
i believe that you make your own destiny
@Makoy1983 (1084)
• Philippines
12 Mar 07
yes.. but we create our own destiny
@greengal (4286)
• United States
12 Mar 07
I'm a strong believer in destiny and think that every thing happens for a reason. All what happens has a purpose and it is up to us to recognize it. I know there was a reason why my hubby and I met and got married. There must be some motive behind us coming together. No doubt we can be the masters of our own destiny but that too is pre-planned. For us to plan our own destiny, God has a thought in mind before letting us do it. Everything is a handi-work of the Master and we are just mere players :)
@MiLaw8 (74)
• Philippines
12 Mar 07
I believe that we are the one making our destiny. We are the pilot of our own aircraft. In the end, whenever there will be a wrong turns that we might have, there will be no reason for us to blame anybody since we are the one who navigates it..... ;)
• Malaysia
12 Mar 07
Yupp, God creates a destiny for us. And only He can change it. So alwayz pray to Him and ask for what we want and be His good servant :-)
@wisedragon (2325)
• Philippines
12 Mar 07
Be careful of your thoughts. They become words. Be careful of your words. They become action. Be careful of your actions. They become your character. Be careful of your character. It becomes your destiny.
@dhiyah (34)
• Indonesia
12 Mar 07
I believe in destiny, but I also think what we did can effect our destiny.
• Philippines
12 Mar 07
Take this one quote i know : " You fall in love with someone by chance, You fall out of love by choice And you get to keep that love by work. " Yes, it's true that there is no definite thing in this world. NO permanent thing but change. There is no perfect person. But you just have to make the person you love the right person for you and everything would fall into place. If in time you fell that you are falling out of love of tyhat person, take time to think and remember the memories you have. The reasons why you have fallen inl ove with that person before. Talk it out with the person you are with.