I want to say sorry to my Mylot friends

United States
March 13, 2007 12:50pm CST
I want to say sorry to all my Mylot friends, because of not responding to your discussions in last few days. In last few days I was making hardly one or two responses. I have been coming to Mylot regularly, but was not able to post. I don't know why, I was not just motivated to respond. After a long time I am making few responses today. I have more than 600 mails in my mail box. I don't know how long it will take to clear them up. But I will go through them. I am sorry. Please don't think that I am ingnoring you friends. I have just lost my track. Hope I will get the back to the track again very soon.
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35 responses
@estherlou (5017)
• United States
13 Mar 07
We all get busy, and we all understand. We know that you can't answer every single email or respond to every single discussion by your friends list! It's just not possible. Just do what you have the time to do and have fun!
• United States
13 Mar 07
Thank you for your kind words.
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@TerryZ (22083)
• United States
13 Mar 07
Oh thats okay sweetie take your time we will still be here. Dont you just love that Im talking for mylot? heheheh No really its okay we all go this so its normal to feel like that. If you didnt then you would have to start worrying because you wouldnt have any feelings at all and thats not normal. Hugs to you and take your time.
@yanjiaren (9050)
13 Mar 07
I have a round 800 and I post over fifty responses a day..I thinkI just have too many friends in my inbox and 905 of them never respond to my discussions..I am actually seriously thinking of deleting them because it is beginning to cause me stress. What i am thinking to do better is just have a few close friends that we have become friends with and i respond to most or all of their discussions..then any free time aI have I can find interesting discussions to respond to..0 discussions and newbie discussions..otherwise I feel I keep responding to the same people when I should be giving others also a fair chance..The ones I call my regulars I would keep..It would only be the never never ones I am thinking of deleting..and write an apology discussion..as it will not be a personal decision..What do you think?
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• United States
13 Mar 07
Any one can delete friends from their friend list. If you are getting it hard to manage all those friends ofcourse you can do it. And there are some people in our friend list who is not worth having, so you can always delete them.
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@rosie_123 (6118)
13 Mar 07
Don't worry - take your time. I am not on here so much these days either, because of work. I understand. Don't get too bogged down with those 600 emails!!!!
• United States
13 Mar 07
Yes Rosie, I have noticed taht you are also not here like you did earlier. But I know about your new job, because of what you are spending less time here.
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• Singapore
13 Mar 07
It's alright. We are get such times from time to time. If you feel there is a need, just go take a break - even a complete one. Just don't forget us when you come back! :P
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• United States
13 Mar 07
Ohh I can't forget you my dear Mylot friends. Just it takes some time to go through your discussions.
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@Willowlady (10666)
• United States
13 Mar 07
Tis quite alright and will be glad to see you. Don't worry about Best Response either I am way patient. Glad to have you back and hope to cheerlead you into full participation. Email me anytime you need a pick up, however, if the mail is being glitchy it might take me a day or so to get back. Could share emails and then we could stay current. Anyway, do your thing and I hope to see you around. Take care!!
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• United States
13 Mar 07
Thank you for the e-mail proposel. Surely we will in touch by mail if I can't get into Mylot for long.
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@greengal (4286)
• United States
13 Mar 07
Oh sweetlady, its ok. We all go through this once in a while. Of late I was losing interest too and then somehow snapped out of it and I'm back on track. Take your time with the emails, and let me tell you, start with the emails. Friends' discussions are always motivating for me, so maybe that will be of help to you too. So try it and see you back in action soon:)
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@pizzoli (3367)
• Italy
13 Mar 07
you don't have to be sorry, you have to be active only when you feel, this community isn't a work you have to post when you feel it
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@blueskies (1186)
• United States
13 Mar 07
There's nothing in the mylot rules that says you can't take a few days off. You deserve a break now and then, just like everyone else. I speak from experience, as I've earned nothing in the past 4 days (because I haven't posted). I appreciate you posting to explain why you haven't been responding, but don't kill yourself trying to respond to everyone. If it gets to be too much, just delete all the messages in your inbox and go on from there. You can always respond to some of the discussions that you missed at a later time.
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@ILANEDRI (1922)
• Israel
13 Mar 07
It's alright. You don't need to sorry about that. We all have some days that we just could not log in, and response to discussions, it happens. It's very nice of you to post about it. It means that you really care about your friends here, and myLot. I hope that you will earn a lot more money to completer those missing days you have lost.
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@crosa125 (1484)
13 Mar 07
oh...it's ok love,every one is the same,sometimes mylot just goes crazy,but i though it's longer than last few days you didn't respond to my discussions,might i just missed you
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@crosa125 (1484)
13 Mar 07
thank you
@patootie (3593)
17 Mar 07
No problem .. I'm guilty of taking a few days off myself .. (sorry again!) .. I just couldn't get myself into the 'responding' mode .. didn't want to be sat at the computer ... and didn't want to have to think too hard ... but I'm no where near as 'popular' as you so only have 100 discussions to get caught up with ... Good luck !!
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• India
14 Mar 07
Hi! hony dont feel low.we are all here to support each other.take your time to rejuvinate and come a fresh.you are darling and welcome. see you.
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@katty0004 (387)
• United States
14 Mar 07
I haven't been on since 3/02 ,I usually response to friends discussions , but when its something I don't know any thing about I don't respond ,so don't feel to bad I think we all go though this.
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@whyaskq (7531)
• Singapore
14 Mar 07
Apologies accepted *ahem*. J/K. Personally, I feel that there is no need to apologise. As friends, we should be able to understand that we all have our ups and downs, and it is ok to take a short break once a while. Yes, I would be concerned if my regular friend suddenly go missing in action, and I will send a private mail. I am not yet a friend. Not sure if we are destined to be friends?
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@gabs8513 (48710)
• United Kingdom
14 Mar 07
Sweetlady it happens so do not worry. Everyone needs a break now and again. So just take your time in sorting through your Mail and only do as much as you want to do. There is times I feel like that to, like yesterday I hardly did anything at all, so you are not alone.
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• Canada
14 Mar 07
Awww, don't worry about it. We all go through phases sometimes. it's almost like our body says "NO! No more! I can't take it!" LOL. If you don't feel motivated to respond, don't try to force the issue. Sometimes a couple of days break will do you good, and when you come back and start to slowly respond, then you'll soon get back into the swing of things again.
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@happylim (660)
• Malaysia
14 Mar 07
How are you now? Hoping that you will be fresh and lively after a break. This is the lst time I respond to your topic. From your blue star with number 10 and the record of (1498) which have attracted me, I think you are a very kind and be affected person who have put in full effort to contribute to the mylot community. I, a newbie, hope to learn from you. Have a sufficient rest and take care.
• Grand Junction, Colorado
14 Mar 07
sweetlady, glad to see that your still around. Don't worry we will all be here when the glitches are fixed. I had this problem not to long ago. It was very frustrating. everything seems to be okay on my end but have heard of a few others having technical issues. Be patient and mylot will have it fixed in no time at all. :)
• United States
14 Mar 07
I wouldn't call myself one of your myLot friends, but don't worry. You just needed a break, that's all. As long as you weren't truly angry at your friends and ignoring them out of spite, everything is alright.
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