fault finder

no i am not ..i always look on the good side of a man. those people is nosey ones and very rude ..

sounds familiar.. my bf is so like this... before, he still is struggling to eradicate it completely.. at first i feel like hell... he's my dream to have, he's all that is in my heart, but when he does this fault seek and blame... i begun to hate him, i even provoked a lot of arguments and worst fight with him.. still he couldn't get that i am having these actions and aggression because of his fault finding attitude.. we end up breaking up, or in a cold treatment... but i always avoid him and i ran away.. i became depressed and so sad.. i long for him but i tend to reject it because of his attitudes i dont like. later.. as we realized how much we really long for each other, i have the courage to say i am inlove with you but you are such a blame fault person and i cant take it... because of love he sacrificed to change it was hard and very very crucial for him because no one ever dared to correct him because his born to be always followed and a ruler according to him.. i tried my best to understand him and support the development so he will totally be away from the fault finding attitude... now, we are 5 years together, waiting for plans and we endure small conflicts and even worst scenarios.. maybe love has to do with it, if we really want to change.... we can... if we want to sacrifice and improve... we just need a little help, and we are for the newer and better person.. i hope my experience gave a little answer^_^ take care..