do you believe in soul mates?have you found yours?

Malaysia
March 24, 2007 9:53pm CST
still waiting for that guy.. i do believe in soulmates.. wikipedia defines soulmate: used to designate someone with whom one has a feeling of deep and natural affinity,friendship,love,intimacy,sexuality,and/or compatibility. yeah still havent found him yet.. but i will keep on waiting..
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@rainbow (6761)
25 Mar 07
I wouldn't worry too much, you'll know when you meet the one. You'll look at hims and think "he'll do" and that'll be it, lol.
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
26 Mar 07
yep. there's no need to worry too much about finding your sould mate. he/she will come into your life in the right time... usually when you don't really expect her/him the most. he/she comes by surprise and you'll just be amazed.
@mssnow (9484)
• United States
25 Mar 07
Yup, I had my soul mate once. but it was not meant to be. oh if I could only go back to that time. I had such good feelins and happy times with him. I was always happy then. Now all i do is think of what could of been.
@lbinkley (1075)
• United States
1 Dec 07
Call me crazy but if he was your soul mate then HOW was it not meant to be? I doubt it was your soul mate sweety!
@pittan (156)
• United Kingdom
20 May 08
I found my soulmate 27 years ago. We have gone through all kind of challenges together and we are still going strong. Thanks to the Divine for blessing me with a wonderful soulmate.
@kamran12 (5526)
• Pakistan
25 Mar 07
on absolute scale, i don't believe that their is a true soulmate. but on relativistic basis, i do believe that you may have one. by relative i mean that someone with whom you share your feelings, life, love, confidence, happiness, sorrow with a possessive feeling despite having differences which are quite natural. with this type of soulmate one's differences serves to increase the affinity rather to diminish, as one complements the other. so in this type of soulmate i do believe and i am fortunate enough:-)
• United States
25 Mar 07
like i believe theres more then one soulmate for everyone ou could be really happy with a guy but theres probably a ton of other guys out there you would have been just as happy with
• Philippines
13 Dec 07
Hello there lexxie3! Yes, I am one of those few who firmly believe in the concept of a soul mate. Since I was in my high school, I have always engraved that concept in my mind. I would like to add something to your definition (I mean from wikipedia). I have also read this stuff online and has caught my attention. It says that our ancestors used to have four hands, four feet, and two heads. However, they have offended the gods and were punished. As part of the punishment, they were cut into halves and were condemned to spend the rest of their lives finding their other half. That other half is the thing known as soulmates. How I wish I could find mine someday. --("v")--
@lovenluck (1068)
• India
20 May 08
your wait is over dear i am here waiting for you with open arms.........Just kidding yes i do believe in soul mates and I myself i am waiting for the right one the right girl in my life ,have not found any till date but the wait os on And i am still waiting.
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
26 Mar 07
yep. i already found him. we're in the relationship for almost a year already. it's great actually. the feeling of happiness, completeness and satisfaction. i never thought i'd find someone like my boyfriend who loves me so much without any condition at all. he accepts me as who i am and cares for me a lot without expecting anything in return. we dream together and work together as a team. he isn't just a boyfriend to me... i consider him as my bestfriend and i can share to him my secrets in life. i hope you find yours one day soon, too.
@lbinkley (1075)
• United States
1 Dec 07
Yes I do believe in soul mates, and I do believe that I am with mine. But I look at it this way. You don't just meet your soul mate or "find" them. When you are with "the one" they BECOME your soul mate. When your relationship matures and grows, that person becomes your partner, your best friend, your lover, your everything. I don't think two people are soul mates right away, I think that over time you become soul mates.
@Lifeless (2635)
• India
1 Dec 07
I haven't found one yet.. Though I had a girlfrnd in the past, but that relationship didn't last forever.. So, currently I am single and am quite loving it.. I have a lot of frnds to share my loneliness with.. So, no complains as of now...
• India
25 Mar 07
Dear, I think you must wait for this guy. there is anyone in the universe for you. in rush n crush people just put a wrong hand and regrate whole life. having enjoy every time in life is good but one only one mistake can take you to the problem. so plz do wait because when he comes in front of your eyes you will automatically come to know. your heart will start pumping more fastly. you will not be in rest. everything will be seem to be beautiful. you will not care of anyone but your love. always remember two things: (1) it is not important whome you love, but who loves you is important. (2) being important is not as good as being a good human being
@livvy092002 (1032)
• Philippines
3 Dec 07
I do believe in soulmates.. or maybe it is more correct to say that i do want to believe that there is indeed that special person exactly as described by wikipedia as "soulmate".. i haven't found him yet too, like you i really hoped to find him too..soon. :-) but i don't know, sometimes i think i am getting tired of waiting because maybe, just maybe, God has other plans for me.
@lizzyt2007 (1312)
• Craig, Alaska
6 Dec 07
years ago I thought I believed in soul mates. Then I met mine at least I think so. that turned out horrible. we got married and then 3 years later he abandons me and my son for I don't know what reason. he told me, but I know a lie when he tells one. he used to talk to me and now nothing. I thought he wanted me back. i guess not. So I guess now I don't believe in soul mates. I will probably never marry or date again, because of my 2 failed marriages.
@hanreq (1444)
• Philippines
1 Dec 07
.....my soul mate is my true love...its the same...:)
• India
3 Dec 07
Dear I believe that for each one of us someone is made already in the heaven and the knots are tied on the earth we call them soulmated u will get someday him and that day u will see that what i told is really true life is full of suprises and your suprise is waiting for you
@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
25 Mar 07
Maybe there is such thing as soulmates and I may believe in them but I still haven't found my soulmate yet if there is any. It may be that I don't even have a soulmate since I read somewhere that a soulmate has to be developed over several lifetimes. What if this is my first time to be born?
• United States
25 Mar 07
nope i dont believe in soul mates i think that its stupid to wait for one guy thats supposedly for you cause i dont think there is one :P