how you ever been obsessed with something or someone?

im obsessed with my bf... then i get too possessive... i hate to let him see other girls... or just talk to them, the peak went crazy, i was definitely not myself, but later... as years came by.. for 5 years.. its over that obsession... i came to realize... its just a hurdle.. a problem to grow.. a very difficult situation to improve yourself.. its not good to be that way. once in a while. but never to be to much or else you'll be choking your partner or chokingly invading someone else. we are born to be liberated, a freedom to do and choose what we want to do, so no one can hang us for obsession.. im over that obsessed personality, i see the bright side, and i weigh the insight... and its better just to be myself, rather than someone i cant control. take care^_^ your friend should be helped, she need to overcome something in her to remove that obsession. and its up to you to help..^_^