Shy or Outgoing
By jchampany
@jchampany (1130)
United States
March 27, 2007 6:45pm CST
Do you like to date someone who is shy and quiet or outgoing and expressive?
I have always been with loud, expressive, and outgoing guys. Today I went to lunch with a quiet and shy guy. I had a nice time. Just not used to a guy being so um, I guess nice.
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5 responses
@angela2006 (1845)
• China
28 Mar 07
I prefer someone who is somewhat outgoing,because I am a bit shy.so when dating with others,I hope him talktive,then we will have a good date,or else it will be so embarassed if both of them keep silence.
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@desertdarlene (8911)
• United States
28 Mar 07
I like a guy who is reserved in public, but affectionate in private. I like him to be assertive and confident. He should do OK in social situations, but not be a socialite. I can't stand guys who are loud, expressive, or outgoing (sorry). I like someone who's a little bit of a loner with a few close friends. But, shy, I don't think I would like a guy who's too shy.
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@jchampany (1130)
• United States
28 Mar 07
No reason at all to be sorry. We all like different things. Actually, the loud, outgoing ones that I am attracted to always turn out to be jerks, so your lucky. I like the loner thing also, but this guy I talk to sometimes is very shy. Don't know if I can get used to that. In fact, my dad is his boss and is shocked that I know so much about. He says "How did you get him to talk?" lol
@crazylady (470)
• United States
28 Mar 07
Either. I am not dating anymore- I am married. I look more for personality- someone who is fun. Quiet guys can be fun too! More of joke tellers.
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@jjwatson28 (572)
• United States
28 Mar 07
I date someone thats outgoing. I myself am very shy so having someone outgoing works great for me.
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@gegegelay (933)
• Philippines
31 Mar 07
I've never actually date.. lol =) I've never experienced it really. But I would prefer someone who's outgoing so it would not always be me who's gonna do all the talking. I want someone who can express themselves.
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