PAST BOYFRIEND.. EW!
By t33na01
@t33na01 (136)
United States
October 18, 2006 4:29pm CST
I've only been with 2 people in my life so far.. so I'm not very experienced but anyways.. about 3 or so years ago.. I was with this guy, HE had RED hair ew. Freckles.. Ew.. I met him on the internet.. and I guess i 'fell' for him or whatever.. he was nice, but I just noticed that i wasn't very attracted to him.. but you know how when you fall in love.. that person becomes really good looking???? (am i the only one that feels this way) anyhow.. when I look back.. I think of how disgusting he was.. he didn't even wear deodorant.. or take showers more than like 3 times a week.. GROSS.. he smelled like musk everytime i saw him.. just lots of stuff. I'm embarrased that i was ever with him. He used to wear all black clothing, and these disgustingly ugly hats which he thought were 'cool' and he also had swords, and was a computer games geek, he even told me one time that when he was younger he used to hear voices tell him things. .. .lol god that disgust me! I can't believe I actually lost my virginity to this peice of REDHEADED CRAP, it really bothers me.
Do any of you have similiar stories?? LOL..
WHAT WAS I THINKING?!?
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16 responses
@indiandevil (2410)
• Canada
18 Oct 06
Been there done that, I know all about it...Looking back at all my exes, I went with 8 guys and three of them were what I would call as hot! All though one of them left me and got married even though he still loves me now...One I am still with, and the other looked hot but say dirty as heck.
And the other ones, were really ew...one had warts all over his face...he looked like a toad, and another that i remember looked even worse, he had hugh pimples the size of golf balls all over his face and they would explode and run bubble puss it was just sick, only after i dated him i found out the reason why he was like that was because his parents were first cousins...its really kinda funny actually because he thinks hes the hottest man on earth and anylady would die to get a chance with him...he actually called me crazy for dumping him
@indiandevil (2410)
• Canada
19 Oct 06
Yeah I know and there is more to this little story as well, two months ago my boyfriend and I were having problems, me and my son moved up to my cousins house for two months. The incest guy, he lieves near my cousin. He is still like madly in love with me or something.(ew) Well anyway, he was around all the time, kept staring at my body it made me very uncomfortable. He kept hitting on me and saying how he loved the old time, loved the old times...(I dated this guy for 2 weeks) then he started bregging about how much of a good lay he was. I was bottling up my laughter. Then he tells me that he had dated a hooker, and she taught him a few moves.(I'm thinking this guy is trying to get a lay outa me and he admits hes slept with a hooker?) Well I never so much as touched this buddy's hand...Anyway my man and I patched things up and I moved back home. Well I signed up for hi5. and he found me on there. and says... "Theres a reason we keep runnin into each other,we are so meant to be" I politely tell him I gotten back with my babys daddy, and he totally freaks out calls me a two timin. Wh**e, says he never wants to be see my trailor trash face again...and signs off msn. I am sitting there dumbfounded thinking? What world is this buddy living in??
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
13 Jul 10
aww god your story is so funny ahah sorry that im laughing but really it is really funny ahah^^ anyway i understand bcs you loved him and didnt care for those aspects but it was so many bad things at least he could take a shower everyday :S anyway me i liked a guy also i dont know why he was sweet and all that but there are guys more sweet than him i was like loving him so much and i was the one caring the most you know before we be lovers i also met him in internet he was caring but then when we started to be lovers he was caring but not that much you know sometimes i even waited him to talk with him and he didnt even came online and i almost didnt sleep and even got sick bcs of him :( so you know when we love is unexplainable the stupid things we do :( anyway so sorry for what happened with your guy but it really was a funny story ahah^^ thanks for share^^
@mareefelby (149)
• Australia
19 Oct 06
I guess you must have thought he was okay at one time to have dated him, but yeah we all make mistakes, at least you've moved on and got rid of him.
@t33na01 (136)
• United States
19 Oct 06
yeah.. well when I first met him in a chat room, I was "flirting" with him on his webcamera, and he LOOKED really cute lol.. I didn't notice how red his hair was though.. no offense to red heads, it's just its so unnatractive to me... anyways, he IS a nice guy, im not saying he was mean or anything, but he was an atheist, and I'm christian.. and I was still with this guy. What was i thinking?? If we got married, things would have never worked out.. He wasn't even the right body type for me.. He was a little on the 'chubby' side, and i am 'thick' myself, and I don't really like those types.. this is how it ended.
He was in school to be a massage therapist lol, I kind of got bored with the relationship.. being that we were a state apart, and only got to see each other every 2 or 3 months, anyhow.. we had a mutual friend online, she was quite 'similiar' to me, (she was half asian) DIFFERENT personalities though, anyways he ended up hooking up with her.. running away to hawaii.. and getting married in Vegas, Isn't that crazy?! lol haha I wish them the best of luck together. Thank god im not with him anymore.
@bigedshult1 (1613)
• United States
19 Oct 06
I'm spray that you had to go thought it I am sure that you will find the Wright boyfriend if you look in the right place my son found a sweet Grail like you seam to be i woud say look inplace that you like to spendtour free time that is wher you will find the right person for you
@bellezki (79)
• Philippines
13 Nov 06
I had several failed relationships in the past, but it doesnt dissuade me from continuing to hope for a lasting lovelife. I had been illogically submissive and stupid too, but maybe this is where "unconditional love" came from. We all share a part of this crazy past lovelives. But we shouldn't take it against us or our ex's. Because despite that, whether we felt hurt, bitter, or disappointed in the end, it still made us stronger and be what we are now.
@HerShe (2383)
• Canada
18 Oct 06
I think we all have past moments when we ask ourselves what we were thinking. I would be woried, however, about the voices. It is usually schizophrenics who hear voices. Maybe it is a blessing you outgrew this chap. Good luck in the future.
@bigedshult1 (1613)
• United States
23 Feb 07
no I only Bean with two girls and they were both nice the second i marred 33 year a go and still go for ever I a porgies to you for all the bad men that take advantaged of you you sound like a better person than that bad man that did that to you
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
18 Oct 06
luckily i don't have the EW feeling :)
when i look back, the only "What was i thinking?!?"-portion is the realization of how i martyred myself when i can see they've been toying with my feelings coz of their own insecurities. i can't believe i've stayed that long in the relationships and let them torment me with their misdeeds.
now when the memories cross my mind, i still feel a lil pang for not learning early how to stand up for myself, for not being kind and fair to my own self.
but well, when you're young, naive, and in love, the silly magical forces of emotions could just easily turn you into a moronic gargoyle commanding your sanity to go on AWOL, hehe.
@melody1011 (1663)
• India
14 Nov 06
Yeah, whenever i look back i wonder what i was thinking at that point of time. How could i choose loser after loser after loser. Im just thankful that I have finally met a wonderful guy and no im not blind. I've been with him for hte past 7 years and am getting married to him next year. But ewwwwwwww the past is hoorible. Thank GOd its the past :D
@courtlynne77 (4839)
• United States
19 Oct 06
My first boyfriend wore a trench coat...in California...in the summer. And another boyfriend of mine showed up at my nephews birthday party at Chuckee Cheese's wearing cut off jean shorts ( i am talking like barely past his finger tips) and a stained torn t shirt.
@shan1_cell (736)
• Nigeria
14 Nov 06
to you it might be silly but u don't have to regret your past bcos without them u might not have known what u know now.
@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
13 Nov 06
i asked myself the same question again and again. my first bf have this huge tummy that it look like he's 8 months pregnant from the side view. i was able to laugh and joke about it then..but now...all i could think of was gulp!
@Lauraleigh99 (4718)
• United States
18 Oct 06
Love is blind!! I look back on some of my ex boyfriends and I think the same thing. :) We all make mistakes LOL
@cuddlebug79705 (2003)
• United States
18 Oct 06
Yeah, I look back at some of my old boyfriends and wonder what I must have been thinking to date them. Love makes you do silly things.
