Are you disabled?
@GardenGerty (169406)
United States
April 12, 2007 1:14pm CST
When I was expecting my second child I read a lot of books about healthy pregnancy and childbirth. One book indicated that if you wear glasses, you have a birth defect and are disabled. I was taken aback by that statement. Most of the people in my family wear glasses. I came across an interesting quote about disability about five minutes ago, and I invite your response. This is a quote from Helyn Hoffa, who was stricken with polio, many years ago. She is a great advocate for the disabled. This is from a "Chicken Soup" story.
"The disability that cripples more people than any other is ignorance. All of us are disabled in one way or another - some physically, some economically - the list is endless. But if you can conquer ignorance, all your other disabilities melt away."
So, do you have a disability, given these thoughts?
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11 responses
@draconess (650)
• Canada
17 Jan 08
I don't see how needing glasses is necessarily a birth defect though. I didn't need glasses until I was 16, as a child I had perfect vision. My nearsightedness is a product of my environment, not of genes, it has nothing to do with 'birth defects' or inherited disabilities. Neither of my parents need glasses either...
I do agree that a lot of people out there are crippled by ignorance though. That is one disability that is mostly a personal choice, so I have little patience for dealing with people like that.
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@GardenGerty (169406)
• United States
18 Jan 08
That was a point of view of a book. Of course if you did not need glasses until you were a teen, it is not a "birth defect."
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@hopejordan (3561)
• Australia
17 Nov 07
hi there GardenGerty
i am disabled in one way and thats a learning disablity i had it since i was young i dont know but i know i was tested 5 years ago and i do have a intellleual disablity i know some people say that i don't look like a have a disablity but i really do
i still don't know myself how i do these discussions but anyways.
my friends husband had a hit to the head with a numbchucker and he is brain injured how sad is that and he has dieabates as well my friend helps him with his sturggles and my friend has dislexia but it is sad it must be hard for her but i support her like she supports me as well it takes me awhile to learn things but i get there slowley and i do have s support worker from disablity servies from Australia thats where i am from and god has blessed Australia so much and i know that god has blessed your country too are you from the usa at all
thanks for this discussion have a great day ok
@GardenGerty (169406)
• United States
17 Nov 07
I was once told by a really good teacher that people who have a learning disability just learn differently. Your friend with dyslexia also has a learning disability. The key here is that you both do learn. I work with children with learning problems in the day time. My evening job involves working with adults with disabilities.
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@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
13 Apr 07
Well, according to this I must be diasbled, as I wear glasses.
I have to agree that ignorance is a huge issue with diasability.
I would hesitate at naming any minor medical problem a disability though.
For a start, being officially disabled entitles one to certain government benefits, such as a health care card.
My nephew has Aspergers, and his mother told him it is not a disability, but I think she is wrong. The child should know the truth.
@GardenGerty (169406)
• United States
15 Apr 07
some people with Aspergers are very high achievers, but he needs to know what he can expect, if he is old enough to understand. I know, minor things like glasses are just a fact of life for me, that is why I found that statement hard to digest.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
8 Nov 07
Most of my husband's whole family are nearsighted and I was told that I was disabled because I had lazy eye and I was left handed. I was very upset. Do you mean to tell me that I got my left handedness because my mother may have eaten the wrong thing,that the doctor was not careful enough? I mean when you are disabled, people are supposed to be extra nice to you and give you privileges that normally you would not get. And where is the disability allowance? No I nor my husband are disabled because we inherited something from our parents.
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@yanjiaren (9031)
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12 Apr 07
I am ignorant in so many things lol..especially computing so that makes me cronicaly disabled! How sad is that? Well I will try to arm myself with courage and forbearance and with this dicrepid and broken back try to blunder forth into the Unknown to make my first million.
@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
19 Apr 07
Hi Gardengerty, finally, I'm here.(^^,LOL) I love the quote. It is very true. We all have our own disabilities and it is our duty to go beyond them. And learn more each and everyday so we may become better persons. I have my own disabilities too, like my snail pace, but I strive for the best everyday and learn to improve little by little. By the way thank you for the support and friendship. I'm very honor to have you as a friend. More blessings! (^^,)
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@GardenGerty (169406)
• United States
20 Apr 07
Blessings to you as well. Thanks for coming by.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
22 Mar 08
yes I am disabled, I cannot go out of the house in winter I cannot walk.
but when I do go outside people don't necessarily see my disability, I have a sore back and can't walk far but it is what is called an invisible disability. I don't think people will ever understand disabiities unless they have them themselves.
@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
19 Mar 08
I think this very true. It's just that my disability is more obvious (I'm in a wheelchair and have spastic involvement in all of my limbs due to my Cerebral Palsy). I spend a good majority of my life trying to convince able-bodied people that they are not so able-bodied or independent as they've been thought to think they are. It's a uphill battle, let me tell you.
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@GardenGerty (169406)
• United States
19 Mar 08
Thanks for your response and your input. Some people get hit by a ton of bricks at birth, others do not see it coming, but it is out there, and it gets to them one way or another. I have worked many years with "disabled' and "special needs" persons, and it is fun to see their abilities, instead of their disabilities.
@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
21 Mar 08
Wow...when I first read the topic line I thought no, I'm not disabled but then after reading the rest of the discussion I guess to a point I am. I wear glasses, thick ones, have since I was 12. As for ignorance, I don't think I am but then there are some things that I know nothing about or have a hard time grasping.
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@GardenGerty (169406)
• United States
21 Mar 08
I think if we truly look at ourselves we all have disabilities, but we also all have gifts. I think ignorance is a refusal to know. We cannot help it if we do not know everything or we have to work to grasp it. We can help refusing to try. Thanks for responding, have a great Easter.
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
18 Mar 08
well yes to a degree I am certainly not ignorant but no amount of wishful thinking will give me back the use of myleft arm left that way from a smashed shoulder and a shoulder joint replacement which really does not particularly help; so I still cannot lift my left arm up to grab something off a shelf and allthe self knowledge in the world will not change that.it is a disability. I can cope with it and work around it but that does not change the fact that I cannot lift it.

@GardenGerty (169406)
• United States
19 Mar 08
Losing an ability after a lifetime of having it, is a crushing blow. You are still using abilities of your mind, though. I see that in your posts on here. The person who made the quote was disabled. I am sure she had to ask for help. We should all be smart enough to know when we need help and to ask for it. Thanks for the response.
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
18 Mar 08
I am not looking for pity at all or for special breaks but I am saying that coping with something and going on with your life does not make my arm work it is still useless and I have to accept that fact and yes sometimes I have to ask for help so sue me. wonderful to make all these great statements but usually the one making them does not have a clue as to what another person is going through or how he or she feels.
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@Jabsfreelanceworld (191)
• United States
18 Mar 08
I am starting to wonder if I am emotionally disabled in some way. I figured at age 34 I would be more settled than I am. I wanted to prove to the world that I could do it even if I was. I mean I am smart and so on so why can't I make it?
I am depressed about the thought of having to live off the government. Is that going to be it for me? I didn't think I was that bad off...










