qmeyers

@qmeyers (42)

United States • Age 50

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I didn't piss in your cornflakes!!!!

qmeyers @qmeyers (42) • United States 20 Nov 09

I didn't cause the economy to be the way that it is. I didn't request to be laid off from my job. I didn't make his relative die right before thanksgiving and cause the family to change their thanksgiving plans to accomodate the...

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funeral

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Couple Arrested for not Paying Tip!

cowgirl2701 @cowgirl2701 (2079) • United States 19 Nov 09

I was a waitress for years and if you give bad service you DO NOT get a TIP! I can not believe they had this couple arrested. Yes I understand that the restaurant has a policy to charge a tip for parties of 6 or more. The owner...

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qmeyers I have always personally felt that tipping was for when the waiter/waitress did more than their duty. I have never felt obligated to leave one and when the service is poor I don't even think about putting any change on the table.

19 Nov 09

New Wizard of Oz????

RhodaK @RhodaK (177) • United States 8 Nov 09

How true are the rumors I have heard that they are going to be making a new "Wizard of Oz."? I can't believe it. There is no way that they can redo the original. Let me know what, if anything, you have heard.

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qmeyers There is already an alternate version of the Wizard of Oz called The Wiz. It came out in 1974 I believe. Starred Diana Ross and Michael Jackson. Richard Pryor was also a part of the cast.

19 Nov 09

Beauty Pageants

onlinemoneyjourney @onlinemoneyjourney (235) • Australia 18 Nov 09

This is a huge market, specifically in the US, where young girls are subjected to beauty pageants. They look like miniature dolls all dressed up, make-up and hair perfect, strutting their stuff on the stage. However, behind every...

beauty pageants

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qmeyers I think that it's strange that they are called beauty pageants and not one of them highlight the little girls' inner or natural beauty without makeup and the expensive outfits. They should rename them Little Girls Looking Grown Pageants because they judge the...

19 Nov 09

Have you ever been nice to someone just to keep the peace?

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 16 Nov 09

Well i have tried to be nice just to keep everyone happy and i am sorry,but the two people that i have tried my best to be nice to made me soo angry that i exploded with temper today.

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qmeyers Sometimes you have to be real. Niceness doesn't always work. When people know what you will and will not take, they stop pushing your buttons.

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Love or hate them: How do you feel about the holidays?

celestialbloom @celestialbloom (204) • United States 19 Nov 09

Call me a Scrooge, but I hate the holiday season. Every year I dread its start during the third week of November and look forward to February 15th, when it's finally finished. When I was very little, I loved all of the...

love or hate holidays

thanksgiving

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qmeyers I agree with you. The holidays irritate me to no end.. Family get togethers that are too loud, too noisy, too many people, too many arguments, too many children fighting and fussing. My children enjoy the holidays and all of the chaos when we get together with...

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what are some good speed dating questions?

smallcloud @smallcloud (338) • Malaysia 18 Nov 09

hi, all mylotters, do you aware of speed dating becoming increasingly popular and americans find themselves busy with multiple jobs and hobbies. most of us simply dont have time to cruise for singles, or perhaps we find that our...

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qmeyers Ask the person for 3 words that best describe them... What they want out of life...What makes them happy... What are their worst characteristics....Are they atheist or believe in God.....Ask if they are an optimist, pessimist or just cynical....Best childhood...

18 Nov 09

There is no logic

msshockley927 @msshockley927 (11) • United States 18 Nov 09

I broke up with my boyfriend, moved away and was having a wonderful time being single. He asked me to come back and try it again...things will be different he said.So I left my job, my apartment and my firends to move with him. He...

there is no logic

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qmeyers Just take it as a life lesson learned. The next time you get involved with a guy you will know to find out the agreement/understanding that applies to both parties before taking such drastic steps.

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What do you do with your old books?

hmkoct5 @hmkoct5 (2065) • United States 18 Nov 09

Do you get rid of books you have finished reading? Or, do you hold on to them? IF you get rid of them, what do you do with them? Sell them? Trade them? Donate them?

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qmeyers Most of my old books i keep because a good reread is nice every couple of years. A lot of times I pass books on to my sister or girlfriends.

18 Nov 09

If your child made a promise, would you force them to keep it?

mommyboo @mommyboo (13174) • United States 17 Nov 09

Let's open this up further and say child, spouse, significant other, parent(s), friends, etc. If someone promises you something, do you trust and believe they will keep their word? If something occurs that compromises this,...

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qmeyers I definitely agree with you making him honor his word. That is the only way that children understand that they should do what they say they are going to do and if they aren't sure they want to do something then they should keep quiet. I believe that 99% of...

18 Nov 09

Do schools not realize that times are tough??

qmeyers @qmeyers (42) • United States 17 Nov 09

Ok. I expect to have to shell out for the uniforms and school supplies, but all of the extras are getting out of hand... The first week of school, my son brought home a permission slip for a field trip to a farm that cost $20 for...

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qmeyers yeah, my son comes home telling me that i have to fill out this form or send this in so that he can do something fun at school. i think the schools are wrong for doing that to the children. we end up having to have a lot of hard discussions explaining why we...

18 Nov 09

Then Why Shouldn't We Say "Sweetie" to Women or "Boy" to Black people?

ParaTed2k @ParaTed2k (22940) • Sheboygan, Wisconsin 16 Nov 09

Over the last couple of decades there has been a concerted effort to change the way we do things in our society. There has been the meaningless "Political Correctness" that made a power play out of common courtesy, but there was...

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qmeyers Why is it so negative to respect someone else's customs/traditions?? Doesn't make you any less of a person or any weaker. If my family says grace before eating and a friend of one of my children decides to eat dinner with us and says grace along with us it...

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Do schools not realize that times are tough??

qmeyers @qmeyers (42) • United States 17 Nov 09

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Anyone who doesn't think Prs. Obama bowing to royalty is demeaning...

ParaTed2k @ParaTed2k (22940) • Sheboygan, Wisconsin 17 Nov 09

If you are liberal, bow to Sarah Palin or Rush Limbaugh. If you are Conservative, bow to Obama or Michael Moore. Tell your kids to bow to their teachers and principal. Bow to your employer. Bow to your Mayor, Governor and...

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qmeyers i have yet to understand why it is such a big deal... people die from lack of food and water, daily, and we are concerned with the president being respectful of someone else's customs????? really?

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I am Gay but my parents don't accept me as I am!!

maria120883 @maria120883 (392) • United States 24 Sep 09

Hi everyone!! I wanted some opinions and some tips on what to do with my family problem. I do not know what to do. I have always I guess you can say shown my family that I was straight but inside of me I like women... And finally...

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qmeyers My sister has chosen the same lifestyle and I told her that I would love her the same but I advised her that the path she chose would be full of obstacles. Since I was the first person she told she just introduces her girlfriends as friends to everyone else...

10 Nov 09

Why do my in-laws always want to stay with us when they are in town???

qmeyers @qmeyers (42) • United States 10 Nov 09

I understand that we have children and they enjoy being entertained by the kids but they could spend the day with us and then sleep at another family member's house that has more room, bathrooms and everything else... Do they not...

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My 5 old changed his name!!! What in the world???...

qmeyers @qmeyers (42) • United States 6 Nov 09

While the whole family was gathered in the livingroom after dinner, someone called his name and he decided right there on the spot that that was no longer his name. He told us "That's not my name anymore. My name is Scott" We...

change

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