safire

@safire (23)

Philippines • Age 48

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looking for unique ways to celebrate birthday

safire @safire (23) • Philippines 15 Jun 07

hi everyone. i'll be celebrating my birthday soon. i would really appreciate if you can give me ideas on how to make it memorable.

birthday

celebration

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What things do you collect?

Sherry12 @Sherry12 (2472) • United States 4 Jun 07

I was watching a show last night and it was talking about people collecting bottles. It was really quite interesting in how the people would go about finding these old bottles and some of them are really valuable. I got so...

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safire i am collecting used staple wires : ) it started when i didn't have a trash can under my desk a year ago.

4 Jun 07

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"Adoption"

Priya24 @Priya24 (1) • India 4 Jun 07

I might have to look at adopting a child as I cant seem to have one of my own. It has shattered by heart but I am trying to be brave and taking it positively. However, when I spoke to friends & family, each one has a different...

adoption

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safire i've been thinking about adoption too. however my friends tell me i'm still young to consider adopting instead of having my own. they suggest artificial insemination but i think adoption is better than having a difficulty on how to explain to the child that...

4 Jun 07

Are You a Submissive Woman?

spiderman05 @spiderman05 (851) • Canada 29 May 07

Women tend to be submissive in many cultures on this planet. They are told since their childhood how to please men and serve them. I have always thought that submissive women were just an oriental thing. Though, I personally knew...

control

submissive women

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safire i am submissive in the sense that i don't argue with my guy but i don't want him to control my life because I also cherish my independence as much as he does.

30 May 07

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A brief introduction to phobias. Do you suffer from any?

carlissa32 @carlissa32 (64) • United States 1 May 07

Some of these I've never heard of Acrophobia: Fear of heights Agoraphobia: Fear of being in a public place Ailurophobia: Fear of cats Androphobia: Fear of men Anthropophia: Fear of human companionship Arachnophobia: Fear...

phobias

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safire what do you call the fear of an event like your birthday ? i get fearful beginning the first day of my birth month because as i can recall, either something wonderfully good or something sad happens on my birthday...

30 May 07

What makes you pray?

Bala @balasri (26537) • India 29 May 07

Fear,faith,selfishness or habit.

pray

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safire Usually, it's confusion and fear. I pray whenever I don't know what to do and when I'm doubting my feelings. But I do pray every night to thank HIM for everything.

30 May 07

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Girls, has your husband, boyfriend or lover ever bought you lingerie?

Jewels @Tetchie (2932) • Australia 20 May 07

If you haven't are you disappointed? If you have, what did you think of the purchase? Did you get more spice into your life, or laugh and say "you must be kidding?"

feminine

love

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safire He bought me once and I really wonder what was on his mind when he bought that one. Being raised in a conservative family, I find that gift silly.

20 May 07

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The dilemma of letting go...

pristine_eyes @pristine_eyes (31) • Philippines 20 May 07

They say that when you truly love a person, you are willing to let him/her go. However, in the process, you may lose him or get him back. Are we not supposed to fight for love? Of course we have to fight for it but when everything...

romance

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safire I wonder on the same thing too...Maybe if there's a quote that says " If you're not meant to be, no matter what you do, it will never be." there's also one that says " If you're bound to forever, no matter how far you run away, roads will always lead you back...

20 May 07

Anybody out there to share some quotations about love?

amaine @amaine (2027) • Philippines 20 May 07

I would surely love to hear some of those quotations. I do not know, lately I have been looking for some quotations and somehow I find it relaxing. I have read one which goes like this, "So many ways to say, "I love you", never...

love

quotations

quotes

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safire Hi, Amaine. Hope you'll like these : 1) Sometimes I wonder what life would have been if we never met... It would have been simplier, yes... Easier, maybe.. But then I realized, it also would have been so INCOMPLETE. 2) Love should be stronger than...

20 May 07

Ladies do you wear makeup every day or just when you are going somewhere?

SheliaLee @SheliaLee (2736) • United States 18 May 07

I guess I am strange but the only time I put makeup on is when I'm going somewhere, to church, town, etc. I work at home so I don't have to get dressed for work so I usually just leave off makeup until I have somewhere to go. My...

just when going somewhere

ladies

wear makeup every day

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safire I wear makeup only on special occasions where I would be wearing formal wear. For everyday, I just wear a light lip stick. I guest not wearing makeup everyday keeps me look younger that my age.:)

19 May 07

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i love her!!!

nichita @nichita (15) • Philippines 22 Jan 07

i want to know who loves jazz..i love her music...!!!!

kevyn lettau

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safire I like Basia (Cruisin' for Bruisin'), Kevyn Lettau (Sunlight/Bridges) and Sergio Mendez.

19 May 07

would you fall in love with your bestfriend?

jaemee_w64 @jaemee_w64 (55) • Philippines 12 Mar 07

Given that your bestfriend is from the opposite gender, would you ever fall for him/her? Is it possible for you to become more than just bestfriends? if ever you do end up with each other, do you think the relationship would last...

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safire Me and my best friend became lovers. I was glad that we became best friends first because we had the chance to see each other as we are - no masks. Things became easier for us now that we are lovers because we know we share the same interests.Would the...

19 May 07

Are still have your ex's pictures...

abednego7 @abednego7 (1060) • Philippines 19 May 07

After having a failure relationship, I still can't throw away my ex's photos. Yes it hurting me more but inside I still clinging for those memories that it brings whenever I look at it. I just can't let go. My friends usually...

memories

picture

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safire I did not throw them but I kept them in a place that is very inaccessible.Photographs really bring back memories. I did not plan to hurt myself forever.I wanted to move on that's why I put them a way.

19 May 07

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to wait...or to make the first move...

safire @safire (23) • Philippines 17 May 07

Imagine being in a 5-year relationship and things are doing well between you and your guy. However, he hasn't initiated talks about the big " M " thing (marriage) yet. Would you wait for him to open up the topic or you initiate...

marriage

relationships

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which side do you wear your earring first?

safire @safire (23) • Philippines 17 May 07

Have you ever noticed which side you wear your earring first? I wear mine on the left ear first. How about you?

earring

earrings

jewelry

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Ladies, marriage and wedding ring.

smints8985 @smints8985 (1594) • United States 16 May 07

Ladies: If your partner was to ask for your hand for marriage, would you like it if he gives you a ring from their family heirloom? Like the ring that his grandmother and mother had and passed on to him? Or would you like it...

antique

wedding ring

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safire I would like to have my own ring cause ring for me symbolizes the bond between you and the one who gave it to you, just the two of you.I think the ring gets "too heavy" when you carry all the bonds of history.. :P

17 May 07

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What's your favourite MYMP Song?

tearboxx @tearboxx (75) 16 May 07

I really MYMP, everytime i listen to their song it reminds me of someone .. hehe .. Love Moves In Mysterious Ways & Only Reminds Me Of You are my favourites. She sang it very well. How about you?

mymp

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safire I like For All of My Life, No Ordinary Love and A Little Bit.

17 May 07