sarge225

@sarge225 (39)

United States • Age 42

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HOW can one KNOW a VIRGIN by his/her behaviour.

Edricj @Edricj (98) • Nigeria 21 Feb 07

This has always been a big question on the lips of young people. I will also like to know this and hope someone will help.

virginity

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sarge225 I think that you can tell by seeing how they are around other people. That's the easiest way. If a topic comes up about relations and they look down, or tend to shy away from the conversation then I feel that is what gives you a good inclination whether he or...

21 Feb 07

how's life bieng a single

salman149 @salman149 (149) • France 20 Feb 07

what is your idea???? put it here

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sarge225 great response

21 Feb 07

What is the age of your EARLIEST MEMORY?

crispystuff @crispystuff (404) • United States 20 Feb 07

I think my youngest memory must be around 4. I only remember a spot in time, but I think it's because that spot in time was so devestating. What is the age of your earliest memory?

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sarge225 I remember chasing fireflys in my back yard when I was really young

20 Feb 07

After A Break-Up, What Do You Do With Gifts/Items You Received?

biwasaki @biwasaki (1745) • United States 20 Feb 07

As I watching my usual Monday night line up of sitcoms last night, there seemed to be a common theme among the shows...what do you do with gifts/items that you receive during a relationship after the relationship has ended? Do you...

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sarge225 I end up keeping everything, its nice to remember the good times and even if it was a bad relatioinship I still keep it. It was a gift, so I take it like a gift. I dont tend to look at something and be like that brings up so many memories, if it was an old...

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Afraid of commitments?

javabeans @javabeans (81) • Malaysia 20 Feb 07

i find that i'm scared to commit even though i know i should and that he loves me alot.ive been dating him for a while now and im too scared to just, u know be the one who always listens to him and well i feel suffocated.is it my...

boyfriends

commitments

love scared to commit

relationships

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sarge225 Honestly I think its a little bit of everything, I mean you are afraid alittle of what might happen in the future I think. But you have to go with it, I mean if you say he loves you then go with it, I mean if you know that there is commitment from him then...

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Having another child after 14 years!

lucie225 @lucie225 (157) • United States 20 Feb 07

I have 2 children 14 and 17, boy and girl. I have recently found out I am pregnant. Now to me it is a total shock after hearing many doctors say, you'll have to have help if you want another. Emotionally, I donno how I feel....

kids pregnant years

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sarge225 HAHA, well this reminded me of my experience exactly...I was 20 at the time, I had a sister who was 15 and my mother called me(i was in college at the time) and she said she had big news for me... she was pregnant at the age of 43. I was really in shock and...

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Have you ever broken up w/someone because you didn't like their family??

PoeTalker @PoeTalker (715) • United States 20 Feb 07

I have really just about had it with my boyfriends family and it's beginning to really just make me feel negative about this relationship. I feel bad for them I do, but weed, alcohol and violence is not something to raise your...

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sarge225 I dont beliee that you would be responsible for it. not like you think. I mean wouldnt you agree everyone is responsible for their own actions, you've just guided him along a path that he never would have taken without you. So don't be too hard on yourself,...

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Language around kids!!!!

sarah22 @sarah22 (3979) • United States 20 Feb 07

When you talk with kids in the room, do you watch what you say or do you just talk? How many words you have spoke n have you heared you child say that they should not be saying?

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potty mouth

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sarge225 yeah thats the thing, I mean you can only control it so much. You are right they are like sponges, but I've learned if I slip up I will strta talking about something else right away. I mean right after I say something bad. that way, the word that you say wont...

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Have you ever broken up w/someone because you didn't like their family??

PoeTalker @PoeTalker (715) • United States 20 Feb 07

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sarge225 Wow thats tough. I mean I had problems with my ex girlfriends family before, actually numerous times....1 ex had a mother who was racist and I didnt like the way she talked about others, needless to say I said something to my girlfriend then a few weeks later...

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Why do people tries to love, even if it hurts so much?

maui_gomez_lim @maui_gomez_lim (1016) • Philippines 20 Feb 07

People tend to love again even if they have gone through a painful relationship. Why do you think they still want to give it a shot after all?

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sarge225 People try love again and again because for the exact opposite affect of being hurt. They enjoy being with someone as much as thy hate to get hurt. We all want someone to love us and I think thats why many people go to extremes in order to find love.

20 Feb 07

Chocolates or Flowers

moumitamazumder @moumitamazumder (817) • India 20 Feb 07

We all know that Chocolates and Flowers are favourite gift items, that are meant to gifted to a beloved. What would be your first choice to gift your girlfriend with, a Chocolate or a Flower? Most men knows that girls are...

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sarge225 can I ask why you think it's childish?

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How to make her say YES

sechsey @sechsey (1831) • Canada 20 Feb 07

Okay, i want to get into the mind of the guys and know what they try to do or things they do to try to win girls they like. Or even those who just want to be able to make the girls like them.. What methods or techniques maybe do...

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sarge225 I know for me personally the best way to get a girl is to be confident in yourself. I was a late bloomer, didnt even really have a gf in highschool. But college changed me, I wasnt so nrevous to talk to girl anymore, I just matured, believed in what was right,...

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Whose more loyal when it comes to relationship??? the GUYS or the GIRLS?!

Sheeniepie @Sheeniepie (873) • Philippines 20 Feb 07

i would have to say that mostly, its us girls.. don't you think?! lets start a debate here, get it on ^_^

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sarge225 Well this is tough because I think it depends on the personality of a guy or a girl. I guess in general a girl is normally more loyal than a guy. From my experiences I think that girls are more sensitive than guys, meaning they try to do things to keep them...

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Revenge

sarge225 @sarge225 (39) • United States 20 Feb 07

Has anyone ever been hurt by someone that you felt that you need to get them back somehow. You dont love them anymore, but you don't want to let them get away with what they did to you either. is it best to walk away, or get one...

revenge

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what happened to longterm relationships.

limosonia1 @limosonia1 (1559) • United States 20 Feb 07

I was just sitting here thinking while I answered somebody elses discussion. I remember going to weddings and them pointing out people that have been together forever. And when asked was always told that me and my husband are at...

relaitonships

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sarge225 I agree I just think that many people picture marriage as some kind of game with no setbacks or anything like that, they dont think about the commitment part and that is the most crucial part, to stand by yuor spouses side when times are rough. It doesn't make...

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Does it Really Take a Whole Town to Raise a Child?

orcanut @orcanut (146) • Canada 20 Feb 07

If my child is any indication, what I really need is a whole city, so we can spell each other off!! My two year old will not go to bed nor will he stay in bed once he is there! He actually made himself sick (and yes, I used to...

toddler

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sarge225 Wow, your son reminds me of my baby sister, she is two. and she does everything your son does except the puking part, but she does make herself sick by gagging until she gets attention, and she does sleep with my mom in her bed all the time because she prefers...

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Dieting

picky_tiff @picky_tiff (12) • United States 20 Feb 07

Does anyone out there know any good diets that work fast? Or how about any Percriptions diet pills that work good?

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sarge225 I would stay away from pills. they are unatural and sometimes you don't even know what you are getting. I would stick to eating less, 5-6 smaller meals a day.....meaninf for example-cereal-crackers-sandwhich-piece of fruit-grilled chicken and doing as much...

20 Feb 07

Language around kids!!!!

sarah22 @sarah22 (3979) • United States 20 Feb 07

When you talk with kids in the room, do you watch what you say or do you just talk? How many words you have spoke n have you heared you child say that they should not be saying?

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sarge225 I have a 2 year old sister and the most i've ever heard her say wrong was butt. occasionaly someone older in my family will slip up here or there, but she never really repeats it.

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When do you start disciplining a child?

ctv101103 @ctv101103 (859) • Philippines 19 Feb 07

i've attended some parenting talks/seminars where they say that you can start disciplining a child as early as possible. but you can only give punishment (e.g. spanking, time out) when they are old enough to understand why they...

discipline

raising children

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sarge225 I dont have a child of my own, but I do have a 2 year old sister, and I am in my early twenties. I know that my sister is starting to understand right from wrong. But sometimes just to reprimand her does not work. I cant just say "thats bad" because I have to...

19 Feb 07

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Girls Asking out Guys?

1337p1ra73 @1337p1ra73 (45) • United States 19 Feb 07

You know alot of people put the responsibility of asking them out to the Guys. I think that is sorta unfair, after all, if you love them, why does it really matter? Same goes for marriage, if A girl asks a guy to marry her, most...

people

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sarge225 I guess its ok either way, although for some reason I find it wierd for a girl to ask a guy to marry her. Just to go out on a date, I think its ok either way. I just think its tradition and nothing more, that's the way it has always been. I don't see it...

19 Feb 07