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divinelife @divinelife (53) • India 11 Jul 09

The first man we met at the early days is the teacher. Teacher was my first idol. I used to follow her , I love to talk with her, I used to imitate her. While coming back from school I used to teach my sister exactly imitating my...

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the_amazing19 The first man we met at the early days is the teacher. Teacher was my first idol. I used to follow her , I love to talk with her, I used to imitate her. While coming back from school I used to teach my sister exactly imitating my first teacher. Thereafter no...

18 Feb 07

seventeen17 @seventeen17 (65) 14 Feb 07

I have a 4 yr old step-daughter and she still has a problem with pee-ing in the night. We have mattress covers but its such a pain having to wash them continuously. Anyone got any tips on how to make it stop? Thanks M17

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lynnpamelago I know how stressful this stage is, both for you and for your step-daughter. My daughter is 5, and we are also going through the same problem. We can only do so much to help them. At this age some children can't hold their bladders. And some sleep too soundly...

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seventeen17 @seventeen17 (65) 14 Feb 07

I have a 4 yr old step-daughter and she still has a problem with pee-ing in the night. We have mattress covers but its such a pain having to wash them continuously. Anyone got any tips on how to make it stop? Thanks M17

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sevnthjuly try this one out... avoid giving her anything to drink just hours before she goes to bed. also, let her pee before she goes to bed. the normal cycle of "peeing time" is between 4 to 6 hours, you might want to wake her up after those hours when she's already...

16 Feb 07

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seventeen17 @seventeen17 (65) 14 Feb 07

I have a 4 yr old step-daughter and she still has a problem with pee-ing in the night. We have mattress covers but its such a pain having to wash them continuously. Anyone got any tips on how to make it stop? Thanks M17

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Ravenladyj I hate to say this but she IS only 4....cut her some slack...buy a mattress protector and do things like cut back on her drinks at night and wake her up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom...other than that I would make such a huge deal of it...

16 Feb 07

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seventeen17 @seventeen17 (65) 13 Feb 07

I am currently living with my girlfriend and a 4 yr old from her previous relationship and our 11mnth old son. Now I look after her daughter as if she were mine and provide everything for her. Her proper dad gets to see her for...

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iamlijoe i think the best would be to befriend ur step kid.. become her friend an it wont seem like a chore to spend time with her.. u ll also feel happy to spend money on her.. bringin a smile on a kids face can make the whole day seem brighter..

15 Feb 07

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seventeen17 @seventeen17 (65) 13 Feb 07

I am currently living with my girlfriend and a 4 yr old from her previous relationship and our 11mnth old son. Now I look after her daughter as if she were mine and provide everything for her. Her proper dad gets to see her for...

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apieceowrk Well....I although I do not have children yet, I have had several friends in similar situations. Has your girlfriend taken the ex to court? Let the legal system do the work for you in figuring out what to do. He should be paying child support and I would push...

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seventeen17 @seventeen17 (65) 13 Feb 07

I am currently living with my girlfriend and a 4 yr old from her previous relationship and our 11mnth old son. Now I look after her daughter as if she were mine and provide everything for her. Her proper dad gets to see her for...

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ichampin Its is so nice of you tolove the other persons child as if your own, but I think if you think the child as if your own then you shouldn't expect some financial support to raise your child. The other person might not be having so much of money or even if he...

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seventeen17 @seventeen17 (65) 13 Feb 07

I am currently living with my girlfriend and a 4 yr old from her previous relationship and our 11mnth old son. Now I look after her daughter as if she were mine and provide everything for her. Her proper dad gets to see her for...

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gammygirl I don't know what the laws are in your country, but every parent should pay child support if they are not giving daily care to their child. Sperm donners should be responsible. You should have your girlfriend check into the support laws.

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seventeen17 @seventeen17 (65) 13 Feb 07

I am currently living with my girlfriend and a 4 yr old from her previous relationship and our 11mnth old son. Now I look after her daughter as if she were mine and provide everything for her. Her proper dad gets to see her for...

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jhovzky If you really love your girlfriend, i think you should accept and love evertything that she love. She love her daughter so you should love her kid too, and i think its your responsibility now to look and provide everything for them because you are now standing...

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seventeen17 @seventeen17 (65) 14 Feb 07

I have a 4 yr old step-daughter and she still has a problem with pee-ing in the night. We have mattress covers but its such a pain having to wash them continuously. Anyone got any tips on how to make it stop? Thanks M17

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sandgroper1 My brother wet the bed until he was approx 15 yrs old. My mum used to put a sheet of thick clear plastic on his bed the type that you use for table covers. Nowadays you can hire an alarm that is fitted to the bed and goes off when they wet the bed here in...

14 Feb 07

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seventeen17 @seventeen17 (65) 14 Feb 07

I have a 4 yr old step-daughter and she still has a problem with pee-ing in the night. We have mattress covers but its such a pain having to wash them continuously. Anyone got any tips on how to make it stop? Thanks M17

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country45_99 i know its a pain,just show her love a affection.we all went through it.just dont rememberit.try not letting her have any thing to drink a few hours before bed time.if she has been asleep a few hours before you go to bed ,wake her up an make her go.remember...

14 Feb 07

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seventeen17 @seventeen17 (65) 13 Feb 07

I am currently living with my girlfriend and a 4 yr old from her previous relationship and our 11mnth old son. Now I look after her daughter as if she were mine and provide everything for her. Her proper dad gets to see her for...

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bannergal hi M17 I was in the same situation as you a few years back only it was me who brought the daughter from a previous relationship to my now husband. At first there was a few tensions especially when another daughter came along, but then my now dh figured ok...

14 Feb 07

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seventeen17 @seventeen17 (65) 13 Feb 07

I am currently living with my girlfriend and a 4 yr old from her previous relationship and our 11mnth old son. Now I look after her daughter as if she were mine and provide everything for her. Her proper dad gets to see her for...

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jammyt Oh that must be tough. I suggest you talk to your girlfriend about the situation. tell her you dont mean to get into any argument with her or the father of their daughter but instead, you need to let her understand that he does have an obligation for her...

14 Feb 07

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seventeen17 @seventeen17 (65) 13 Feb 07

I am currently living with my girlfriend and a 4 yr old from her previous relationship and our 11mnth old son. Now I look after her daughter as if she were mine and provide everything for her. Her proper dad gets to see her for...

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Sawsen I think you should just keep doing what you're doing. Forget about her father. It's his problem if he doesn't want to be man enough to pay for anything for her in her life. What will matter though is she will remember who was really her father. And I think the...

14 Feb 07

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seventeen17 @seventeen17 (65) 13 Feb 07

I am currently living with my girlfriend and a 4 yr old from her previous relationship and our 11mnth old son. Now I look after her daughter as if she were mine and provide everything for her. Her proper dad gets to see her for...

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koikoikoi Well for starters you should tell you you're girlfriend this. And it isn't fair that the real dad gets to see her and doesn't give money for food or clothes or whatever. I think he should take her to live her for some days of the week.

14 Feb 07

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seventeen17 @seventeen17 (65) 13 Feb 07

I am currently living with my girlfriend and a 4 yr old from her previous relationship and our 11mnth old son. Now I look after her daughter as if she were mine and provide everything for her. Her proper dad gets to see her for...

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ronita34 Well, Your girlfriend needs to take that step to in fact first of all get custody of the girl and then take the father for maintenance herself. If however you two have been living common law for over a year than you and her incomes will be combined and she...

14 Feb 07

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seventeen17 @seventeen17 (65) 13 Feb 07

I am currently living with my girlfriend and a 4 yr old from her previous relationship and our 11mnth old son. Now I look after her daughter as if she were mine and provide everything for her. Her proper dad gets to see her for...

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thehsmomof2 What you are doing is great. I wouldn't fret over it. Keep up with what you are doing, treat her like she is yours. When she is a grownup, she will know that you were the one who truly cared for her and loved her. I wouldn't let the money situation stress...

14 Feb 07

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seventeen17 @seventeen17 (65) 13 Feb 07

I am currently living with my girlfriend and a 4 yr old from her previous relationship and our 11mnth old son. Now I look after her daughter as if she were mine and provide everything for her. Her proper dad gets to see her for...

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abhishekkaushik yes i think u must eqaully support ur step kid as ur own child and put an example to the world. may be this child come out to be best friend of urs

14 Feb 07

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seventeen17 @seventeen17 (65) 11 Feb 07

If you think that the Uk is full of infidels and people who deserve to die then i dont see why you would want to live around us. Of course the reason you do is because we have one of the best benefits and educational systems...

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MrNiceGuy Good post, you are absolutely right. The way some Muslim immigrants demand their host countries change for them and then use the race card to get their way. I don't care about political correctness, something has to be done to assimilate muslims and refuse to...

14 Feb 07

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seventeen17 @seventeen17 (65) 11 Feb 07

If you think that the Uk is full of infidels and people who deserve to die then i dont see why you would want to live around us. Of course the reason you do is because we have one of the best benefits and educational systems...

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MakeItCount I think you mean 'remove your bhurkhas', ghurkha is a class of people originating from Nepal.I'm not a muslim but i don't see anything wrong in their wearing whatever they want to as long as they don't try to force the rest of us to dress like they do. Though...

14 Feb 07

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