shawntae54

@shawntae54 (14)

United States • Age 48

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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survival beauty kit for girls

rhinarea @rhinarea (311) 19 May 10

Mine were blush, powder,lip gloss, oil control film, life savers, perfume, brush, sanitizer and i'm off to go. whats yours?

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shawntae54 Hi rhinarea, I have to have my mascara, blush and lipliner. Those are an absolute must otherwise I won't leave the house without them.

11 Jun 10

Stood up. How do you handle this?

maezee @maezee (41985) • United States 28 Apr 10

I was stood up tonight with an uber-lame excuse from the one in question. I am becoming a cynical old woman and I'm only 19 and in the prime of my youth. How do you handle these situations? I've already left a mean phone message,...

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shawntae54 The cold shoulder routine should work just fine. Move on to bigger and better things. Theres no excuse for not calling and saying you couldn't make because of whatever. Its called common courtesy and should be utilized.

8 Jun 10

My former boyfriend came back, what should I do?

cheatedaphrodite @cheatedaphrodite (810) • Philippines 5 May 10

During my college years, I had a boyfriend and we had been together for more than 2 years not until he was petitioned by his parents to continue his studies in Canada. We had discussed this issue ever since the start of our...

confuse

relatuonship

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shawntae54 Hi there, I would say sit down for an hour or two and think long and hard. Why does guy #1 keep running away? Does he want you to follow him to Canada? Is there a reason why he can't stay here in the states? He may be wanting you to come with him to Canada...

8 Jun 10

Have you enjoyed Ice-crean in Winter?

JeyakumarDickson @JeyakumarDickson (277) • India 3 Jun 10

hi guys, do u know the feeling of eating ice-cream in winter time, It's really great.but brings a lot of cold.Have u tried?

ice

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shawntae54 I adore ice any time of the year. Being an ice cream lover, it doesn't matter what season it is. Ice cream is just yummy and satifies that craving. Lots o caramel on your sundae with plenty of toppings n such. Doesn't get any better than that. You know people...

8 Jun 10

De-cluttering your life

evepin @evepin (721) • Philippines 29 May 10

Do you have too much clutter in your life? I don't just mean the messy clutter in your office or home, but in your thoughts and what's in your life right now... Excess baggage, fair-weather friends, frenemies, worries, etc etc....

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shawntae54 Not biting off more than you can chew is great advice!

7 Jun 10

Can you forgive a sister who slept with your husband?

zukichucha @zukichucha (991) • United States 28 May 10

At the age of 16 my sister was an alcoholic. I took my mother to court and got custody of her. I sobered her up and got her back in high school. She lived with me for over two years before I realized she was sleeping with my...

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shawntae54 Hey well good luck and just give it time and try not to dwell on it too long. Remember don't let negativity hold you down. Accept the situation and move on to bigger n better things.

7 Jun 10

Can you forgive a sister who slept with your husband?

zukichucha @zukichucha (991) • United States 28 May 10

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shawntae54 I think eventually I would forgive my husband and sister...once I get over the hump of what happened it would probably be easier. Then at family functions I would just make a joke about it and watch them fester in their uncomfortableness.

5 Jun 10

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I Lost My Sister When Her Husband Died..........

tickle_monster06 @tickle_monster06 (75) • United States 29 May 10

My sister who I used to have a very close and loving relationship with is no longer a part of my life. When we were younger and our mom left us I took care of her and protected her. Later in life we were placed in foster care and...

sister

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shawntae54 Your sister sounds as though she might be acting out because she misses her husband. Yeah her throwing money into your face like that is wrong but please forgive her and don't take it to heart. Just try your best to give her some space for a while and then try...

5 Jun 10

Which one do you prefer? Online dating or Offline dating?

vincent1537 @vincent1537 (4) • China 4 Jun 10

Dating online is convenient,however,I don't think screened people are sincere and serious.They just want to play.Offline dating will cost money,what's more,it will waste my time supposed I failed to meet a like-minded girl.I'm...

dating online

offline dating

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shawntae54 Date offline in person. Then this way you can see if the person is playing games and get a feel for what they are like. Also you can see what they look like that day. Versus if you date someone online, they could be using an old picture or even worse a fake...

5 Jun 10

What would you do if your BF or Husband cheated on you?

akosikulebs @akosikulebs (54) • Philippines 5 Jun 10

When people enter into a relationship, aside from love there should also be trust and respect between the two of you. But what if he cheated on you? would you be willing to give him another chance if he beg for forgiveness and...

love

relationship

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shawntae54 I would not stay with someone that cheated on me personally. Once they've tasted another persons kiss and did things together I'm done. The trust and bond has been broken. If I were to forgive them I would always be wondering when they would mess up again? And...

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good relationship? bad relationship?

baobaoyuanyuan @baobaoyuanyuan (49) • Australia 21 May 10

can anybody tell good relationship from bad ones? how to distinguish bad from good? is there any unbearable things in a relationship to you? im in a relationship as father and little girl. my boyfriends always want to take...

relationship

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shawntae54 Its important to have personal space in a relationship. One person being too dependent on their partner tends to wear them down. Both individuals need their own hobbies and some sense of their ownself. Its unhealthy to do everything together. There's nothing...

4 Jun 10

What do you think...

staylor7506 @staylor7506 (45) • United States 30 May 10

Do you think there should be compromise in a relationship? Do you think That compromise would make things a little bit easier? The reason i asked about this is because it seems to me so many couples today don't have this in their...

compromise

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shawntae54 It's important to find out what the other person likes and dislikes and what they are willing to and compromise so that you can grow with that individual. Find out what makes them tick and what makes them cheeze, this way you can find a happy medium. For...

4 Jun 10

Why are women so hormonal? Can it affect a relationship?

emerillus @emerillus (467) • Philippines 4 Jun 10

Hi there fellow MyLotters! I just want to know if being hormonal is normal, like when you are approaching your period and then something happened no matter how insignificant that thing is you till want to put up a fight. There...

women

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shawntae54 I think it all has to do with what's going on with our bodies and brain and what we put into our bodies. For instance maybe ya haven't had your share of fruits and veggies for the day and that can affect how you communicate with your man. I'd say take a step...

4 Jun 10

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