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dorothy09 @dorothy09 (1520) • Philippines 9 Oct 11

Its been a year already since i visited mylot. Im looking forward to have fun posting and answering discussion here. When i tried logging I was tempted to ,make another account because i failed logging in. Thank God i archive my...

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LetranKnight25 Hello dorothy, the last time we had a bit of chat was during the 2010 elections and after that, hehe, what have you been doing all these months?. yeah, I was wonderiing where you had been, we missed you

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shell94 @shell94 (990) • Canada 26 Oct 08

is a huge issue in alot of relationships. How does one get back to the point that they can talk about anything? My hubby and I used to be able to all the time, but now, he blows off any important things that I bring up. It's...

marriage

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clover1308 Hi there! Communication is playing a very important role in the relationship. I can understand how you feel about your husband. Sometimes it is really fustrating when he didn't actually get the point of you. Especially in a married life we have to try harder...

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shell94 @shell94 (990) • Canada 26 Oct 08

is a huge issue in alot of relationships. How does one get back to the point that they can talk about anything? My hubby and I used to be able to all the time, but now, he blows off any important things that I bring up. It's...

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android We used to have a massive lack of communication in our relationship, it causes severe problems! This went on for about eight years and whenever I tried to speak to my partner, she would just bottle everything up. I had issues I was going over and over in my...

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shell94 @shell94 (990) • Canada 26 Oct 08

is a huge issue in alot of relationships. How does one get back to the point that they can talk about anything? My hubby and I used to be able to all the time, but now, he blows off any important things that I bring up. It's...

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android Also, communication is the most important thing in any relationship. As a psychiatrist once said to me, where there is no communication there is verbal/emotional/mental abuse. It naturally fills in the gaps!

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shell94 @shell94 (990) • Canada 26 Oct 08

is a huge issue in alot of relationships. How does one get back to the point that they can talk about anything? My hubby and I used to be able to all the time, but now, he blows off any important things that I bring up. It's...

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katpuchboy Hello, Shell94! That's kind of sad! I have been experiencing that same problem with my husband sometimes. So during bedtime and he is asleep and the children, too, I try to anylyze what's going on around the house. Maybe, both of us had just been so tired with...

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shell94 @shell94 (990) • Canada 26 Oct 08

is a huge issue in alot of relationships. How does one get back to the point that they can talk about anything? My hubby and I used to be able to all the time, but now, he blows off any important things that I bring up. It's...

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rainmark That's really normal situations in one relationship. I get to used of it, getting upset everytime, but that's still okay. Coz you always love each other, you need to remind him always the important things you have talking about and confront him about your...

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shell94 @shell94 (990) • Canada 26 Oct 08

is a huge issue in alot of relationships. How does one get back to the point that they can talk about anything? My hubby and I used to be able to all the time, but now, he blows off any important things that I bring up. It's...

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despompa [i]what? why did he change? can't you remember anything that you did that made him change? why don't you do some investigation, you might have done something that displeased you husband, or he is too busy to remember penciled in activity. however, if this...

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shell94 @shell94 (990) • Canada 26 Oct 08

is a huge issue in alot of relationships. How does one get back to the point that they can talk about anything? My hubby and I used to be able to all the time, but now, he blows off any important things that I bring up. It's...

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relundad It seems that you need to be the one to tell him how you feel about it. This will at least start the communication. He may reveal to you that he didn't know how you felt and the importance of communicating with you. It may be your approach. Sometimes we need...

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shell94 @shell94 (990) • Canada 26 Oct 08

is a huge issue in alot of relationships. How does one get back to the point that they can talk about anything? My hubby and I used to be able to all the time, but now, he blows off any important things that I bring up. It's...

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ladysurvivor I have been experiencing the same thing as you are now. But now my husband had understood he is actually doing me harm when he snapped at me whenever I tried to bring up a discussion. Now I think our relationship is much better than before, because now he had...

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shell94 @shell94 (990) • Canada 19 Oct 08

what would u do if they asked u to be with them...By the way the person is married...not happy tho!

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teclive man shell could your question be anymore confusing? ;) if you mean that the person who is married is the one who needs to make the decision on being with the close friend or not, then i would say.. that the married person should stop and think first...

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shell94 @shell94 (990) • Canada 19 Oct 08

what would u do if they asked u to be with them...By the way the person is married...not happy tho!

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savitha_r86 I'll surely not go and squat with them. In the first place however close the relationship is it requires some distance or space. I will never even dream to go to their place and disturb their privacy. It will infact increase the distance between the couple. So...

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shell94 @shell94 (990) • Canada 19 Oct 08

what would u do if they asked u to be with them...By the way the person is married...not happy tho!

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ronaldinu If by being with them you mean starting a relationship with them my answer would be no. Since it could only lead to heartbreaks. If they are having in their own problems they should sort it out. Yes I would be willing to help anybody who is having problems but...

26 Oct 08

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shell94 @shell94 (990) • Canada 19 Oct 08

what would u do if they asked u to be with them...By the way the person is married...not happy tho!

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carmela0210 that would just be ok with me as long as we are not doing anything outside our manners...maybe he just want someone to talk to about his problems and i maybe a help...

26 Oct 08

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shell94 @shell94 (990) • Canada 25 Oct 08

and the thought process that one used when coming up with an answer has always intrigued me. We are all unique individuals in our ways of thinking and resolving issues that arise in our lives. Just wondering what ways do you...

decisions

life

people

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finescribe Gut feeling and vibes are sort of intuition. While reading Plato, I come across to Socrates' idea that we generally have the knowledge while we are already born and that we need to recollect them in order to surface the knowledge which we have known...

26 Oct 08

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shell94 @shell94 (990) • Canada 25 Oct 08

I am looking into a new phone and think this one looks cool and is a great price right now. I would like my new phone to have a camera and a music player if possible. I live in Ontario, Canada and can get this one for free on a 2...

cell phones

m620

options

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ronaldinu I don not own a samsung however I did find this website which can be helpful. The review seems good for you. I hope that I was helpful. http://reviews.cnet.com/cell-phones/samsung-upstage-sph-m620/4505-6454_7-32378893.html © ronaldinu 2008

26 Oct 08

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shell94 @shell94 (990) • Canada 22 Sep 08

I am currently working midnites and am having serious sleep issues. I am going through alot of stress on top of things and cannot get my brain to shut down so I get decent rest. The max I can sleep at a time is 3 hrs straight and...

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mapi26 working in a graveyard shift is not that easy. we all know that whatever we do, our body clock will still recognize the normal way of sleeping at night. it's a tough job to be awake in the wee hours of night & to be asleep in the sunny hours of the day. i've...

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shell94 @shell94 (990) • Canada 22 Sep 08

I am currently working midnites and am having serious sleep issues. I am going through alot of stress on top of things and cannot get my brain to shut down so I get decent rest. The max I can sleep at a time is 3 hrs straight and...

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Essie119 I never was able to adjust to the graveyard shift and eventually had to give it up. There are some medications that you can take that will help you sleep although make sure that you will be able to drive while on them. Some of the advice I got from a...

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shell94 @shell94 (990) • Canada 22 Sep 08

I am currently working midnites and am having serious sleep issues. I am going through alot of stress on top of things and cannot get my brain to shut down so I get decent rest. The max I can sleep at a time is 3 hrs straight and...

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Chevee I work the graveyard shift, I just started this in April of this year and it was new to me at first I couldn't sleep either, now it is much easier. I get off at 7:00 in the morning, I live alone so really it is no problem for me. I have the bedroom real...

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shell94 @shell94 (990) • Canada 22 Sep 08

I am currently working midnites and am having serious sleep issues. I am going through alot of stress on top of things and cannot get my brain to shut down so I get decent rest. The max I can sleep at a time is 3 hrs straight and...

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mythicalphoenix I work a midnight shift so I can relate. It took a while for me to adapt to it too, but you will eventually adapt. Look at the reasons as to why you aren't sleeping - is the room to bright or is it too loud? Also, talk with your doctor, they will be able to...

10 Oct 08

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